Reasons Why I Like To Be Alone

Reasons Why I Like to be Alone

1. I can think my own thoughts.

2. I can listen to my heart.

3. There’s no need to fit in with, or to please, other people.

4. I can be at peace with my authentic self.

5. I can focus my thinking and attention on what matters.

6. I can invest my time on my own priorities.

7. I am free of the pressures that can sap my energy.

To anyone out there working hard on their writing;

I see you, I’m proud of you, and I’m rooting for you.

what the charas do to take care of themselves:

ginga spends some time to himself, when he first is aware he’s in need of self-care. he sleeps or visits his favorite places to relax, pegasus always in hand. it doesn’t always help to talk to his friends when he needs space, but he’s good at understanding when it is important for him to reach out. in some circumstances, he might even just go back to kouma village, either by himself or with his father.

kenta will want to talk about how he’s feeling, typically in-person, but through video chatting that’ll be okay too. (he and hyouma sometimes talk.) he likes to go to the old coliseum and sit high up on one of the broken pillars while he thinks. usually has sagittario idly spinning beside him. the sound of his bey spinning calms him down.

benkei sometimes wants to talk and sometimes doesn’t. it really depends on how he’s feeling, but he definitely goes out to buy himself foods that he likes or the thing that he’s been looking at forever in a store. he makes himself a nice meal and eats it by himself, not because he’s lonely, but just because he needs time for himself.

kyouya doesn’t take care of himself is probably just going to sleep. he’ll find somewhere remote and quiet and go to sleep. or he’ll go to the warehouse district and feed stray cats. anywhere that is devoid of other people will do him good in taking care of himself. (or, his best attempts at it.)

tsubasa also finds somewhere quiet to think or to relax. he’ll have his eagle with him, perched nearby, and that always helps him feel better. he’ll braid his hair or style it in gently. tsubasa will use face and hair care products to take care of himself. goes on walks in nature, or he’ll go fishing too. reads his favorite books and drinks hot tea while sitting among cozy blankets.

madoka definitely goes to sleep. she needs it. after she takes a long nap, she’ll bake herself something or cook herself something nice too. and she’ll eat it all herself, without any guys coming over to eat it before she can. she likes to doodle whatever comes to mind and write in a journal about her day too.

hikaru goes to the beach and absently picks up seashells that catch her attention. she also likes to go to book cafés and chill there as well. hikaru doesn’t really like talking to other people about her feelings in order to feel better, so she doesn’t do it often. she’d much rather go for a jog or keep active. she doesn’t like to sit around and waste time, but sometimes, she knows that when she really needs to take care of herself, she’ll sleep in all the way to the afternoon.

hyouma takes walks around kouma village and looks for flowers to bring back to his house. the little bits of color always make him feel better. also feels much better when curled up in blankets and with a nice book and hot drink, hokuto by his side as they occasionally stare out the window at the setting sun. he cooks himself his favorite food and eats it while sitting on top of his home’s roof and listening to the sounds of nature around him.

yuu will get someone (tsubasa) to buy him ice cream and other sweets. he’ll go off to the arcade and beat all the high scores there. he will win himself the stuffed animal he has always wanted from the claw machine. everyone around can’t believe this kid genius, and yuu will just be smugly proud of his accomplishment. when he’s alone, he talks to libra sometimes, rambling on about his day and what was cool and what wasn’t, and how he wishes things were, to feel better.

“You’re a little scary sometimes, you know that? Brilliant. But scary”

Totally agree with Tris here.

RAVENCLAW:

“TRIS: I was reading. SANDRY: You’re always reading. The only way people can ever talk to you is to interrupt. TRIS: Then maybe they shouldn’t talk to me.” 

–Tamora Pierce (Briar’s Book)

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