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Is It Just Me, Or Does Kim Da Mi Look Extremely Happy In Those Cute Scenes? Like A Little Too Happy To
Is it just me, or does Kim Da Mi look extremely happy in those cute scenes? Like a little too happy to just be acting?? She is smiling SOOOO much and just so giddy in general, she was never like this in Itaewon Class, but all this just feels so real!! And her eyes!! HER EYES!! When she smiles, they were literally sparkling✨
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compilation of unanswered stuff in obs:
- why are yeon su's grandma and ji ung so close?
- who called choi ung at night before he went to yeon su's house?
- is the rival artist storyline over?
- why did yeon su say she's not the only one responsible for the breakup?
- what were the reasons for their previous breakups?
- what did yeon su reply to ji ung when he asked if she still had feeling for choi ung?
- and how did choi ung react after mr. jang implied that ji ung has feelings for yeon su?
- which words does yeon su want to hear from choi ung?
- how did choi ung and his parents find each other?
- why are the parents closing their restaurants on the day when choi ung was abounded?
- is the france brochure yeon su found foreshadowing?
- did choi ung go overseas to study?
- why does it seem like choi ung doesn't want to acknowledge ji ung's feelings for yeon su?
i am honestly not that worried about ep. 13.. i dont know if its because im still on the ep. 12 high lol but the previews have been hella misleading for the past couple episodes..
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I really liked that while Ung wanted an answer he was still able to understand that she just isn’t fully ready to share yet. Especially after we saw the conversation Yeon su had with drunk Ung where she did tell him but he missed the beginning and then dismissed/belittled what he did hear, I don’t blame her completely for holding back (tho I was begging her just to say it lol). It reminded me a lot of when she shared she just wanted a job and to be stable and he was like that’s it?? That’s your big dream, ofc he didn’t say it with a bad intention and he didn’t have the full picture of why she said that but I can’t imagine it felt good for Yeon su to hear that either of those times. It seems like they’re gonna have Yeon Su’s world come crashing down in order for her to open while for Ung I think it was more the pressure/reminder that he had been abandoned combined with the fact that the last excuse to keep Yeon su around him was ending that pushed him to confess and tell her about being abandoned. Regardless, I appreciate that they had her agree to be more open with him and that she took his hand after he held it out, almost like a representation of her finally being ready to start relying/leaning on him when things get hard.
I think I liked that he was able to understand and wait for her to be ready bc that’s something I do with my friends when I know they’re going through something but aren’t ready to talk about it. It felt realistic and rather healthy of the relationship too. Forcing her to answer him I think would have created a bigger gap and I’m glad that in some ways his talk with her grandma filled this gap for him so that he could be more understanding of why Yeon su is so afraid to give an honest answer to his question.
I just realized — how come San and Deok Im's love languages were so opposite of what they need from each other?
San's love language: Words of affirmation
Something that he's been craving to hear from Deok Im.
Remember when Deok Im said she'd protect him, he engraved those words deeply into his heart, to the point of confessing, "How can I possibly not love such a woman?"
Remember how brightly he smiled to the point of disbelief when Deok Im answered "I missed you too" during his first visit to her after she became his concubine.
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San always tells Deok Im how much she means to him.
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How much he loves and adores her, that he wants to make a family with her.
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How he becomes powerless and broken whenever he sees her cry.
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But Deok Im either cuts him,
Stays silent,
Or gives him a blatant rejection.
He knows she has deep feelings for him too. There's no way that she doesn't love him back. But since he's not receiving a clear-cut answer, he just satisfies himself with the fact that she's his anyway, regardless of what she feels.
But then until her last breath, Deok Im sealed her heart. She just imparted a subtle response on her true feelings about him. He wasn't able to obtain the ultimate thing he wanted from her – a direct love confirmation – and he beat himself up for that to his deathbed.
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Deok Im's love language: Acts of service
Something that Deok Im cannot demand from him as he is not in the position to do so.
Deok Im saved him a lot of times, putting her own life on the line.
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She frantically looks for solutions when he's in trouble.
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However, sadly, San cannot do the same for her.
Remember that time when Deok Im was wrongfully accused of stealing Lady Yeong's book, the least he could do for her was to send her to exile.
When she was defamed for supposedly having a relationship with a royal guard, he chose not succumb to his personal feelings and go against the rules to save her, even if it means her death.
Poor Deok Im excitedly waited for him to arrive to celebrate the news of her pregnancy, hinting that she's ready to confess her hidden feelings for him (remember the yellow pouch she made with San's sisters which they intend to give to their husbands? It was at this point when I thought Deok Im considered him his husband, the father of her child, her family. This very pouch symbolizes her love🥺) But he never came; instead, he went to comfort his queen. And so she snapped out of reality that he was never hers.
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He scolded her instead of comforting her for the loss of their child. But Deok Im took the initiative to compose her shattered self and went to him to cheer him up.
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He couldn't even save her best friend from the death row, despite having the power to do so.
She's always there whenever he needs her, but he always makes her wait.
She's already contented to be by his side and serve him as a court lady, even if the thought of him being with another woman kills her inside. There's this line in the novel, "As expected, the distance between us is just right. Being further away is somehow hurtful, yet to go closer there is fear. He is there, and I am here. It’s just enough to make the heart flutter a bit. Nothing too sad, nothing too much." But he cornered her by saying she won't see him ever if she rejects him again. I bet she thought, "How can I live without seeing him? Merely seeing him living well is already enough for me." So our girl made the toughest decision. She sacrificed her entire freedom just to be with him. If that is not love then I don't know anymore.
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Disregarding the afterlife scene, their love story is just so poignant. How ironic. They love each other so much, but weren't able to meet each other's needs. I can't help but cry thinking about this.
Hah~ I just wanted to write this as I'm preparing to let go of my lingering attachments towards this drama. My heart really aches for these two. I read Junho's interview yesterday and looks like our boy is also not functioning well after the drama ended. Good to know, we shouldn't be the only ones to suffer you know. Kidding!
And so, here's The Red Sleeve in a nutshell:
And oh by the way, I'm officially sending off this drama through this 2 FMVs I've made. Care to watch? 😊
The Red Sleeve FMV - San x Deok Im - Troublemaker
The Red Sleeve FMV - San x Deok Im - Shouldn't Be