My Take On Jimins Doc That No One Asked For:

My Take on Jimin’s Doc That No One Asked For:

I will never be someone who tells people how to feel. I have seen a lot of discourse from fans of Jimin voicing how upset they are that Jimin’s doc is not launching on Disney Plus or Netflix or in theaters. While I have no doubt that Jimin’s album release experienced certain levels of sabotage, I don’t really think this documentary being on Weverse is part of that story.

Remember, this album was extremely personal to Jimin. He even included a hidden track, and only those that bought his CD could hear it. Also take a look at his schedule for this doc. Every single time listed is in KST with no conversions to western times. Jimin isn’t trying to promote this to a global market. And with how he has been treated in the west by fans and the industry itself why would he? Of course, this is just my opinion. I’m not going to tell someone that they can’t be upset that he isn’t getting the same audience reach that the other members had. But, I’d be willing to bet that was his choice to some extent. We know Jimin loves his privacy and this album was personal to him, so it makes sense that he would want to keep it that way. Just my two cents.

My. Thoughts. Exactly.

So called “Army” on TikTok are the worst and I will never never stop preaching it. The blatant disregard for JK as anything but a tool for their sexual y/n fantasies has to stop. This fandom is very vocal about hating shipping between members but is complexly mute about pushing their own perverted y/n agenda on the members especially Jungkook. I’m sick of these people aimlessly thirsting and not actually listening to this man and what he has to say. It’s awful and needs to be talked about more. And I’ll go out and say it I don’t care, this was my exact reason for my weariness in Jungkook to branching out into this Western Cis/Het macho heartthrob “I have sex” genre. It only makes these people worse. I frequently call these people out in the comments on TikTok before I block them. Continue spreading awareness for this. It’s unacceptable behavior.

Seek help.

Please read this as i'm trying to spread awareness. Before you continue, if this landed randomly on your page, i'm a Jikook blog, you do not have to follow me or disregard this post simply because of that as my goal here is to speak up for Jungkook.

Now back to all of you who know me already, it is nothing new to you that i complained many times before about Tiktok Army. Today however for some reason i'm at my breaking point.

When i tell you that Jungkook is but a sexual fantasy to a lot of "Army" i'm not even joking. This image they're trying to give to Jungkook as him being a fuckboy, a player, yada yada, is getting out of hand. The boy is doing his best to get out of that "baby" image many stick to him but that also doesn't mean it gives you the right to objectify him, some people here are forgetting that objectifying doesn't only happen with women so let that be a reminder to you that it can happen to anyone.

Yes Jungkook is exploring different genre, exploring mature concepts but this does not mean that you can use him for your own sexual fantasies, or make comments about him making him sound/look like a pervert.

It's already bad enough that hater made up a rumor about him that many dumbasses believed without checking how they were trending that Jungkook was a SA'er and now "Army" making comments that aren't helping this sick agenda either.

In KBS the photocards that were gifted to those who attended had "Our Army whom i want to see in 3D" written at the back of it, it should be cute considering how much Jungkook would remind us that he really appreciates Army and is so thankful towards them. The expression simply meant that he wants to see Army in real life, but going ahead and linking it to the meaning of the song.. I don't know if people are aware of the shit they are insinuating with that.

And if you still don't know let me spell it out for you: You are insinuating that Jungkook is asking random people to see them in compromising positions, see them sexually, the people aka the fans. A gentle reminder that some idols had scandals when it comes to ACTUALLY indulging in sexual acts with fans or sexual remarks towards fans that made them uncomfortable. So you over here mindlessly making comments about Jungkook that might be taken so wrongly by people is insane.

Be mindful of what you say, i feel like whatever Jungkook decides to you many people here makes him regret his decision. He decided to share snippets of him at the gym, did a live there: Stalked. He decided to do lives from home: Stalked. He decided to try to interact more with Army's comments: Disrespectful comments. He decided to explore mature concepts for his solos: Overly sexualized and objectified.

There's a difference between being open minded about sex and sexy concepts and actually only seeing a person as that, making it their whole personality. Need i remind you that Jungkook is an artist too? Before you forget that he's just your sexual fantasy, your out of a manhwa wet dream, he is also a singer, an artist, a performer, someone who works hard not for you to only see his dick.

And it's funny to me because these same people would call you close-minded simply for seeing him as a human, you know, something he himself have said before that he too is a human. These same people would call you immature for actually seeing more than just "sex" in him, these same people would call you a kid or a grandma for not making sick comments about him.

All that and they still do not realize that being mature is being completely okay with the fact that Jungkook is a grown ass man and isn't the virgin weeb many can't help but think he is, that he is an adult who knows what sex is and can sing about it if that's what he wants to, that he is capable of choosing the mature concept without making him a player.

I feel like more than other members Jungkook is always the target of so many fucked up things, whether it's rumors, or stalking, or nasty comments, or or or. I've talked previously about how i was surprised during TMA seeing how many people didn't even bother with Jungkook from the beginning, and i'll say it again i thought that i'll have a hard time with both my biases i thought that it'll be a tough competition and i'll be left there not knowing which direction to take just for me to realize that many people never even bothered to vote for him to begin with.

Many people would rather read fictions about him, very sick fictions actually, would rather make Y/N povs on tiktok, make edits about him that would gather some very nasty comments than actually properly support him.

Many people don't even want to support him on what HE himself literally said, spelled out from his own mouth. Many people want to make decisions for him and would fight people who truly care for him and defend him and what he said because apparently to these people what Jungkook said himself is not good enough so they feel the entitlement to decide for him all while telling those who care to "Not decide for him" Ah.. The irony.

Because one more reminder, i will not let you forget that some people are up until this day, still negotiating Jungkook's enlistment and how he can still go later maybe even in 2028 ignoring the many times Jungkook himself said that he will enlist soon, that he can't wait to reunite with the members in 2025.

I don't know where the disrespect, where the audacity, where the bravery is coming from, but seriously Jungkook is way too kind for some people, like.. WAY TOO DAMN KIND. Just because he said he wanted us to be friends with him it doesn't mean that some boundaries are meant to be crossed. Just because he is a man, it doesn't mean it gives you the right to treat him like something that you own, if he was a woman i want to see if those same people would still make comments about him that way.

Men can be harassed too, men can be sexualized too, men can be objectified too. Him wanting to be the grown up that he is doesn't give you the right to mold him into a filthy image out of your own fetishes.

Please have some respect for that man, support him for who he is, not who you want him to be.

I’ll admit, I’ve never watched this movie. This year, I’ll change that.

JIMTOBER COUNTDOWN POLL!!!

In honor of our spooky king, and major Christmas enthusiast, would you say that 🎃🎄

And yes it could be both, but I wanna see people choose 1

One thing you’ll never catch me saying on my blog:

Yep, I’m going there. Because while I haven’t gotten an ask of this type (hopefully never) I’ve been on Tumblr and Twitter spaces in the Jikook community enough to see this recycled phrasing enough to address it.

You’ll never see me perpetuate stereotypes like:

“You must never get laid if you can’t see the intimacy of Jikook. They definitely fuck so you are either young or a virgin” or “you’ve never been in a serious relationship to not see their bond as one that is romantic”

I’ve seen this type of commentary from both anons and bloggers as some kind of “gotcha” moment.

If you have stopped by my blog before and read my pinned about me section, you’ll see that I stated that I’m asexual.

These rhetorics are not only insulting to someone who is ace like me but also bogus. I haven’t been in an intimate relationship in ten years (shock and awe because that’s by choice) but I’m still a jikooker. I can read body language cues and notice patterns in behavior that suggest intimacy even if that is something I don’t want for myself.

I think the rampant heteronormative society and engrained homophobia are much more to blame as the reason people deny the possibility of Jikook constantly.

I’d be remiss to admit that I still follow some of these bloggers that say this type of rhetoric or post asks that say things similar and don’t call them out. Not that any of those bloggers follow me back probably, but I’m putting it out there in case they see this post. Can we stop with this? It’s not even true and it’s demeaning. I’ve thought many times about commenting and saying my thoughts on it, but I’m generally a non confrontational person (mommy issues) so I just keep it moving.

No one literally thinks about asexuals existing. People forget that people exist who could care less about having sex, so they use it as some sort of insult which is gross. Let’s stop making these assumptions. My ability to perceive Jikook’s special bond as what I think is a very romantic and yes, sexual relationship has nothing to do with my own sexual experiences. That’s not a barrier for getting someone to notice their intimacy. Let’s stick to what we know are. Heteronormativity and Homophobia. All my fellow ace people, this is a safe space. We don’t put those that have sex and people in relationships on a pedestal here.

Thank you for speaking about ace jikookers! I feel like I’m being gaslighted in a way that I can’t even have an opinion on the relationship if I didn’t have sex (and didn’t want to have it) being 23 yo. Like if I’m not discussing in which poses and how often km might have sex why suddenly my sex experience matter at all. There are so many other aspects that would describe rs between people. Feelings and what bonds people on deeper level can of course include sex but it won’t end there.

Hi anon! I won’t lie, I’m a bit emotional knowing that you know you are asexual at 23. It took me a longgg time to figure it out. Try like 29. Asexuality is so misunderstood and often shunned as something “made up”. It’s not the same thing as having no or low libido. It’s a lack of sexual attraction. I never thought I was different. I watched all of my friends hook up with different guys in college. Obsess over boyfriends and crushes and sex, and I just sat there like 🤷🏻‍♀️ while listening and trying to fit in. I dated someone in college thought okay I’ll want to have sex now! And we did… but I didn’t find it special. I didn’t look at him ever and just want to do it. After that guy and I broke up, I haven’t had a boyfriend or sex since. And I wasn’t bothered by it in the slightest. I didn’t really learn about asexuality until a year ago. And of course, like all things gender and sexual orientation, it’s a spectrum. I like the fantasy of sex and arousal and romance. But I don’t crave that type of connection in real life. I don’t know where you are on the spectrum anon, but it’s so nice to finally know yourself. It makes me emotional thinking of it. And don’t let anyone gaslight you into thinking that “you just haven’t had good sex. Once you do, you’ll be obsessed” I’ve gotten that before 😒 or “you’ll never have a long term relationship if you don’t have sex” 😒 this isn’t true either. Maybe I could find someone if I was willing to put myself out there and date, but I also think I like the concept of romance more in the abstract too. I am almost 31 and am not feeling any innate need to find a partner. I don’t want children, so I could care less about my biological clock (which isn’t an actual scientific thing btw just societal pressure don’t let any red pill idiot try to convince you otherwise). And it takes me a long time to warm up to someone, looking at you cis-het men.

This really became a whole tangent to say that no, your sexual experience or identity does not dictate your ability to see sexual tension or recognize relationships with sexual intimacy like that of Jikook. You don’t need experience to be a part of that conversation. You have a spot at the table, especially on my blog.

Quick facts about me that no one asked for:

Figured since I’ve posted more here and answered some asks, I would share some facts about me on my blog both BTS/Jikook related and non related.

1.) I became ARMY during quarantine era. A friend got me into them. After I watched their MMA 2019 performance I was blown away. She was a Yoongi bias so that is whose content I initially watched and gravitated towards. When I ventured out on my own and watched more performance stages and Run BTS I knew immediately that I was drawn to Jimin. Everything from his stage presence, gorgeous vocals and dance lines, funny and sassy personality, but also super empathetic and caring. He was it for me and still is. But I do love all seven of them. I could probably rank them in order of my “favorites” but Jimin would be number 1 without a doubt.

***super fun fact is that I actually first was exposed to BTS in 2017 :( that’s right, I could have stanned back then. I frequently kind of kidding but not really refer to this as my biggest regret. An undergrad in my research group was obsessed with them. She showed me a clip of them dancing and probably because I didn’t like her that much (she was friends with someone toxic) I chalked it up as so they sing and dance? Who cares. I ended up reconnecting with her later when I stanned and found out that she was a low-key TKK shipper and loved reading their fanfics. By that point, I was already sus of Jikook so we clashed and I don’t talk to her. 🤣

2.) That brings me to point number two. The most important: Jikook. I wish I could remember the first time I was like yep this is a thing but I don’t. I do remember the first Jikook moment that I was exposed to was their Black Swan pas de deux. I remember finding their chemistry palpable and bold of them to perform a romantic dance together but that was it. The more I watched Run BTS and being a Jimin bias I couldn’t help but notice JK too and their closeness. What was the nail in the coffin so to speak? The cliches. GCF Tokyo and Rosebowl did it for me and I’ve been endeared by them ever since.

3.) I’m a sort of Jikook fanfic writer on A03 who I guess is on a hiatus and has been for awhile now. I love fanfiction and have been reading it and writing it a little since I was like 12. I was never a RPF girlie until BTS but I view them as characters in a story because that is what they are when I’m reading or writing fics. Not the actual people.

4.) I’m asexual and probably aromatic to some extent too. Asexuality is so misunderstood, I could go on about it for days, but I’m not the authority on it by any means. I like the idea of sex in the abstract. Fanfics, great. M/M where I don’t feel inserted in the act, even better. I’m not a prude, I just don’t experience sexual attraction. The idea of looking at someone even the tannies and wanting to fuck them makes me uncomfortable and it’s something I can’t relate to and have never felt. I’ve had sex of course, but it’s never lived up to the hype for me. I can definitely live without it. As far as being aromantic that I’m not sure. I love the idea of romance or I wouldn’t be so smitten with Jikook and other cute couples. I don’t actively seek romance in my life. I don’t date or want to date. I haven’t had a crush on someone in like 10 years. I’m not opposed to it. Their gender wouldn’t matter to me but it’s not something I feel like I need in my life. If you are anywhere on the ace spectrum or are LGBTQIA+, hi you are more than welcome here.

5.) I’m educated! I have a PhD in chemistry. I am on the Professor track and I teach organic chemistry. I spent 7 years in grad school combined for my masters and PhD.

So yeah! This way you know a little about me when you send in asks. I am terrible at formatting and use my phone only for Tumblr, so my blog probably won’t ever be pretty. I’m just here for connections and content that is more in depth than Twitter. Yes, I’m still calling it twitter. Sorry not sorry Elon.