I Keep Seeing Discourse Abt This On Here So I Wanted To Add My Take And Ik This Wont Be A Super Popular

i keep seeing discourse abt this on here so i wanted to add my take and ik this won’t be a super popular opinion:

kink does not belong in public pride events.

public, all ages allowed, pride events should not have kink in it. yes, i understand that kink is an important part of life for a lot of people, but just because someone’s at a pride event doesn’t mean they consent to see things of sexual nature. and the implication that you cannot express queerness in public without kink furthers the stereotype that queer people are nothing but sexual beings.

and i understand that kink is not inherently sexual, but the average person associates kink with sex and physical intimacy

certain things, such as revealing clothing or even certain types of body harnesses can be appropriate as they are also seen as fashion choices. things such as puppy hoods, bdsm impact gear, leashes, explicitly sexual clothing (i.e. a shirt that says cumslut on it) should not be worn in a space that is supposed to be inclusive of everyone, INCLUDING QUEER CHILDREN

there are many underage people who attend public pride events, like parades and meet ups, and they should not be exposed to kink in a public space.

kink and public play should only be allowed in pride events that are adult only where everyone can actually consent to seeing kink

EDITING FOR CLARIFICATION

bodies are not inherently sexual, and you can wear what you want. what i’m saying is that clothing that is sexually explicit or ACTIONS that are typically linked with sex and adult play, should not be at public pride events for respect for queer children, those who are repulsed by sex, those who are uncomfortable around kink, etc

emo boys making out and dry humping and their smoky eyeliner gets messy and their black skinny jeans cling tight to their asses. pants chains clashing. big black boots stomping on each other. holding each other's face with their black painted nails

Freaky t4t sex might not fix me but it might calm me down a little or something

innocently being pet while laying my head in their lap -> having my mouth used while they tug on my hair and tell me to keep taking it

i’ve been having a Not Good Time™ the past week but hitting 200 followers AND getting tons of love on my posts has made me feel a bit better :3 it’s nice to know that even when i’m sad, horny tumblr has my back <3

what if you just tied my hands and legs up so i couldn’t move and i was spread out and and and what if then you just kept using toys on me, teasing me, edging me, making me cum, using me however you want but just experiment with my body because it’s not really mine is it? i belong to you after all, sir, im nothing but your good little toy <3