Libra Venus

Libra Venus

-Some of the prettiest people in a relationship idk how to explain it. They (like an Aries Venus) will be there for you like it's just you and them. You are their bestie pretty much. -Libra is all about balance right? I find it funny because most libra venues I have met (sometimes just libra placements as a whole but it varies) will match the energy in communication but especially through text or any kind of communication that isn't face to face or a call. Like I know two libra Venuses and they have that dynamic of "if I text you and you reply after two hours...I'm going to text you back in two hours.". It is kinda petty imo but I understand the logic behind it. I find it petty but also I respect it because honestly in some situations you gotta remind people that your time and words are precious and that they shouldn't be wasting it ya know?

Unlike my Aries ass (Aries sun, mercury, and Venus) who will double text. I don't care if it took you two hours to reply I will reply when I see it to remind you that I act the way I act because I want to. Cause sometimes people will try to play mind games or whatever with me and then get confused when I don't act the way they thought I would (sometimes people do shit just to get a reaction out of me so I've had to deal with this shit a lot lol). If it takes you two hours to reply to my text, I'll reply quickly then if I remember something else I wanted to say I'll double or even triple text. I'll say something and if you choose to not reply like at all that tells me something about you and how you view me. Or even say you give a reason for why you took so long to text back (imma keep a mental note of it tho) that also tells me something about you and how you view me.

-I bring this up cause talking is person is a completely different thing for me and libra Venus. Like if we are cool with each other I have no issue with talking a lot in person, but sometimes...people got a placement like libra Venus but their mercury sign is in a sign like sag or Virgo. Then it is kinda difficult to talk to them a lot of the time, and I don't know why but something about them makes my brain stop working. Like I swear it isn't me consciously ignoring you like I deadass don't know what to say and my mouth is not moving or making any sense. Yet libra Venuses seem to never have an issue with this shit bro. Like unless I'm the one they are talking to then it would be a mutual thing ya know? It's funny cause most times communication is rough for me but it's for so many reasons and I'll talk about that another time. Like when I post about Aries mercury or something like that.

-Question of the post (I guess lol idk I kinda wanna start doing this out of curiosity): Do you think libra Venus would act differently based on someone's mercury sign in their chart? Like a person with a libra Venus and a sag mercury would express their libra Venus differently than someone with a Leo or Scorpio mercury.

Just a small roast of some placements

If a person has Leo and Aries placements then that Virgo Venus means meh imo. Idk I’ve met so many with that and they don’t act like people with Virgo Venus that I’m used to. The impulsive and dumb manner of us fire signs are a moment. I can roast these motherfuckers cause I got all three fire signs in my chart. Quite literally a fire dominant with a Virgo moon. That Virgo moon is fucked but she is trying her hardest. I think if I didn’t have my Saturn in my tenth house I probably would have a shitter work ethic than I do now. I have no proof but ehh fuck it.

Also cancer placements don’t pack the punch I thought they would have. Scorpios aren’t mysterious they are just dumbasses who know how to keep their mouth shut. Yeah I said it! Plus Pisces I got nothing for you sorry. I got Pisces in my eighth house so you guys are confusing to me. I can’t roast without proper interaction. Like you guys are delusional but so are us Neptune dominants.

All the fixed signs have an odd stubbornness which is to be expected from them. And yet it surprises me how much it’s there. Mutable signs have the fun parts of going with the flow and all the lovely vibes of not properly dealing with their emotions especially mutable moons. I don’t blame us for wanting to try new shit but dealing with our emotions in a “healthy” manner is not one of the ways I’m going to be trying. I have to deal with my trauma first before I even try to grasp the idea of crying in front of people unless I intensely trust them. Don’t even get me started on the idea of comfort while going through a mental breakdown. I try to take care of my shit before I get to that point because it’s either that or having a mental break and being extremely exhausted but still having shit to do. Like bruh how can I get better if I have to depend on others emotionally? The Virgo moon is busting out of me rn. Like I know it sounds dumb asf but I feel like ranting and roasting at the same time. This is how dumb we sound but it’s just the brain functioning like it has to.

To sum it all up emotionally we can deal with it later cause other people need a good/easy time. Sag moons do it by staying positive and fun and I love them for it. They just gotta learn that crying your eyes out can be fun. Just make it a game you fools! Geminis have a similar vibe but idk how to describe them. I think they are more likely to have a decent upbringing compared to sag moons. Idk most sag moons I’ve met have some of the worst upbringings oddly similar to cap moons. The key difference is how they cope with those emotions. Cap moons can be workaholics whereas sag moons probably can but not really ya know?

-I am wondering how people can say moon square moon in synastry shows short term. I can grasp it to a certain degree but general this aspect can stay together. It just seems that the common theme is that they have something shared like a child or a pet. Maybe even a business but ehh. For instance my own parents have squared moons and stayed together for years before their divorce. They argued a lot sure but in the end, shit moved on. Traumatizing a little bit but overall could have been worse for sure imo. Oh and they were together for 20ish years but married for 18 of them I think.

That’s it for now

Moon sign vibes: Sagittarius moon

Peaceful sunsets, Laughing at the most random of jokes, The color yellow but not vibrant but more pastel idk, debates about anything at anytime without the pain of arguments, a bean bag chair or a chair that is shaped in a funny shape like a hand.

Dissociation, dandelions, the joker card, poker, smores, and maybe even jazz from the 30s.

Synastry between me and my parents

I would love to hear you guys' thoughts!

Astrology and my childhood and what I have found funny about it

So let's get into this. In advance I will be talking about my trauma but I will not go too much into detail about it since that feels weird. I figured I'd put this disclaimer because I know this shit isn't what everyone wants to read when they are researching astrology.

My moon squares my mars but my moon also opposes my mercury and my Venus to varying degrees of course. I have a Leo rising so my fourth house is in Scorpio while the two siblings I was raised with for most of my life have a Leo and a Gemini rising. If it helps I was raised with both my parents which I feel kinda lucky for when I think about it. Because considering my father was there to protect me and my sister from my mother's eccentric behavior when the time came. I do wish my brother got the same protection but that is for another time. Anyways I know I have intense mommy issues and maybe some daddy issues. There is no doubt that I am emotionally not the greatest but I feel like if I got it worse I would be even more fucked ya know? Now back to astrology.

My mother has a Sag sun, Aquarius moon, Scorpio mercury, Capricorn Venus, and a Aries mars. So it's always funny to read post that talk about how unemotional Aquarius moons are when my mother is one of the most emotional people I have met. I might as well include my dad's placements as well. He has a Pisces sun and mercury, a Taurus moon and mars, and then an Aries Venus. I'll rehash my placements real quick: Aries sun, mercury, and Venus. Virgo moon, Sag mars, and Leo rising. I was considered my mother's favorite and there is no doubt I did lean into it for my own self interest. I wouldn't say me and my mother were emotionally bonded like most mother and child dynamics go. I simply knew that if I had any emotional problem I would have to rely on myself or even my siblings as opposed to my mom. Nothing against my dad he just had his own problems going on already plus my mom would have gotten mad if I showed favoritism to my dad in any way. I do call it favoritism because it felt like that imo. I do love my dad without a doubt but my mom I'm not too sure of. It's more guilt that I don't love her but I know love isn't something you can force either it's one of those confusing things for me.

Anyways there are some interesting synastry aspects I wanted to talk about though. My dad's Pluto is conjunct my moon while it opposes my mercury. Whereas my Pluto is conjunct my mom's sun and sextile her moon. Her Pluto is opposite my mercury and Venus tho. Her Chiron is conjunct my sun almost to an exact. I'll post a part two since this will go on for a while. I'll post the link in this post (at the bottom) and on my masterlist. I might include a photo of our synastry aspects in that post as well idk tho. Anyways I find it interesting how Pluto acts in synastry but what's even funnier is how Saturn acts in synastry.

Personal planets wise my dad and I only have one Saturn aspect and it's my Saturn sextile his Venus while my mother have a good amount. There is no doubt she has a great effect on me (it's kinda hard to not). Anyways her Saturn is squared my moon, mercury, and Venus while it is also opposite my Chiron and sextile my mc. Then my Saturn is trine her Venus. Funnily enough my Pluto, Mars, and Ascendant is also trine her Chiron. I think some of them are great aspects to have but some feel odd to have with your own mother.

The planet of restrictions and the planet of transformation and obsession. I highlight both because of the difference in the aspects between my mother and father towards me, and the difference in dynamics. To a certain degree I can't be truly upset with how my childhood was because there are certain factors in it that make me sympathize with my parents especially. For instance, we were relatively poor considering we were on food stamps and my mother has mental illnesses. Apparently she has bipolar disorder along with PTSD but I can't exactly say in what way that explains or excuses her past behaviors. Plus she was unmedicated for the most part because she didn't feel great on the pills and she was suicidal at times so it was just better to overall have her unmedicated at that time in her life. Does that excuse her abusive tendencies? No and yet I can't help but wonder if certain things weren't the way they were, would my childhood have been different? Idk and I can't focus on the what ifs in this situation because realistically it does nothing for me in the end.

Anyways I'll talk more about this another time because this post has gone on for a long time. Here is the links for more info:

Pt 2

Another post in case you just want to see the synastry aspect photos.