Can You Do A Pluto Trine Ascendant (natal) Please?
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PLUTO TRINE ASCENDANT
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These types are incredibly charismatic. They have a magnetic appeal that garners a lot of attention and intrigue. Their natural allure goes beyond physical appearance, other people are just hoping to be in the presence of their energy. They are deeply passionate, and this intensity comes through readily. On first impression, other people pick up that the native takes themselves seriously and are not to be messed with. They can get away with being blunt and direct, people find this to be charming rather than abrasive. People with this aspect are intuitive and can pick up on the intentions of others easily.Â
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Virgo moon
I just want to first put out there that this is mostly my experience as a person and how I think it connects to my Virgo moon. Not everyone will feel this way because honestly you can't. Lol sorry but I'm just made differently bruh that sounds so cringy and that was a joke just to clarify. So let's get into this tho.
One thing I have always found so interesting in some post about Virgo moons is how 'critical' our mother was of us, but I wanted to kinda add a new perspective lol i guess. I was raised with two out of my three siblings. For reference they both have Taurus suns but one has a sag moon while the other has a Taurus moon. Now the difference between how we were treated was odd in my opinion. For instance, I felt like they would allow themselves to be far more emotionally expressive but mostly their anger. But as I have gotten older it turns out that the core difference was that I didn't feel like one of my mom's kids most times. I logically knew that I was younger than my mom and all that jazz, but something about our dynamic that I find interesting is that my parents in general did not know how to parent me. Now it wasn't like I was entirely on my own but it was limited compared to others. Like my mom would do these kinda punishments for various reasons, but I knew how to adapt to them I guess. Like oh I'm not allowed to leave the house, good cause I like being by myself anyways. Oh now I'm not allowed to play video games...cool I'll just read. What? I can't read now, okay I'll just create my own stories or write songs or even just stare at the wall and daydream. I defeinly feel like I was treated differently than my siblings and as I've talked about previously is that I was kinda the golden child. But to be honest I feel like I was more like a weird mixture of the golden child and the forgotten child.
Another thing I wanted to point out is that both my moon and my mars are in mutable signs so I feel like it was easier for me to adapt to shit than try to fight or whatever. In comparison my two siblings have fixed mars with one in Taurus and the other in Aquarius. The placements went like this:
Sibling one: Sun in Taurus, Moon in Sag, Mercury and Venus in Aries, Mars in Taurus, and Rising in Leo
Me: Sun, Mercury, and Venus in Aries, Moon in Virgo, Mars in Sag, and Rising in Leo (hehe that fourth house in Scorpio really says something doesn't it about my childhood lol)
Sibling #2: Sun, Moon, and Mercury in Taurus, Venus in Aries, Mars in Aquarius, and Rising in Gemini.
We all share one mom whose placements were as follows:
Sun in Sag, Moon in Aquarius, Mercury in Scorpio, Venus in Capricorn, and Mars in Aries (idk know her rising quite yet.) which I think can give you a stronger idea of my childhood lol.
I love talking about astrology but I swear it's weird how much it just brings up random shit that make me feel called out like a mother fucker. Like yes I don't feel good enough but at the same time I feel too much for people so they can only get little bits and pieces of me. I try to be as genuinely me and I can it's just that not all of me is shown. It's a slow process but I am by no means a closed off person entirely. I refer myself more to a closed book but with no lock and key. So I'm not crazy closed off, but I don't count myself as an open book like I'm sure some people do. Lol anyways that went on for a little while kinda longer than I expected. I would love to hear you guy's thoughts and such.
MARS IN THE HOUSES
Things your placement makes me think of â¤ď¸âđĽ
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MARS IN THE 1ST HOUSE: Gorgeous eyebrows, jawline, being competetive, scarring, martial arts, animal magnetism, gymrat, mma, having to do the dirty work, standing up for those who cant stand up for themselves, overly courageus, a need to show you can do it, fitness contests, you are seen as someone whos not to mess with, hard working, red hair, looking good in red, easily irritated, walking fast, bragging, easily irritated when people do things too slowly, blunt, saying it like it is, prefering to hang out with men, fierce look, model body, a strong need to get stuff done everyday, forgetting to rest.
MARS IN THE 2ND HOUSE: From nada to prada, the amount of money you have affects your self esteem, people constantly wanting to borrow from you, the first one in the family to make it, wanting the best looking house in the neighborhood, a need to own a lot, a lot of conflicts in the family, overprotective, envious of others possessions, velvet and silk clothes, if it aint high quality you dont want it, quality over quantity, practical, irritated by people who are irresponsible with money, generous, materialistic, overworking yourself, a harsh tone, putting on a scary voice when angry, people feel safe around you, cozy.
MARS IN THE 3RD HOUSE: Straight to the point, online conflicts, blunt, sibling rivalry, arguing for the sake of arguing, sassy, cursing, driving fast, rapper, rap battle, formidable debater, gossip as a way of fighting, âim gonna tell everyone what you didâ, outspoken, too blunt, looking for conflict, neighbourhood bully, sounding rude when you didnt mean too, passive aggressive digs, an addiction to confrontation, sexy voice, mentally competetive, strong need to defend yourself, dirty talk, being able to convince everyone, beef with the neighbours, honest, extremely alert, hard to to fool.
MARS IN THE 4TH HOUSE: Issues with citizenship,raised by a single mom, being raised by an angry or stressed out parent, having to raise yourself, a mother whos obsessed with rules, a mom who takes anger out on you bc daddy left, home is like a warzone, a family of bullies, hearing your mom talk shit about people on the phone all day, learning early to stand up for yourself, nostalgic, being uncomfortable at home, you can be a patriot or the opposite a dislike for your homecountry and wanting to leave it, being the âman of the houseâ, sensitivity turned into anger, strong desire to move away from home, moving a lot, renovation business, your mother affected your view of women and sex.
MARS IN THE 5TH HOUSE: An obsessive need to feel seen, wanting to be admired, pride, viewing sex as art, wanting to be one of the popular people, gambling, creativity, feeling a strong need to come across as confident, being competetive, very sexual, drama queen, boy/girl crazy, fashionista, lucky, naturally entertaining, not afraid to express your sexuality, not afraid to show off, stage presence, custody battle, having a martian child, attention seeking, needing competition to feel alive, flirty, high libido, bad habits, a style that stands out, glamorous, being a diva.
MARS IN THE 6TH HOUSE: Obsessive need to feel productive, finishing 100 tasks in a day, strong need to be of service, sexy body, gymrat, gym receptionist, sexy maid costume, competing with people in the same business, sabotaged by coworkers, diets, veterinary, irritated by lazy people, being surrounded by lazy coworkers, you are annoyed by people who dont follow the routine, submissive, exhausting yourself, organizing, âlady in the streets, freak in the sheetsâ energy, people expecting you to do it, working 3 different jobs, working until you collaps, refusing to rest until you are done.
MARS IN THE 7TH HOUSE: Dating bad boys, moving in together the same year you meet someone, a strong need to prove who you can get, attracting very sexual relationships, flings that burn bright but quickly, might get involved in more conflicts than others during your life, attracted to arrogant people, attracted to people with a lot of masculine energy, having a lot of enemies, relationships ending on a sour note, wanting to dominate the relationship or wanting a partner who dominates, wanting relationships to move fast, being aggressive towards partners or them being aggressive towards you, needing a relationship thats passionate, breaking up and getting back together a thousand times, constant bickering, passive aggressive comments.
MARS IN THE 8TH HOUSE: People with masculine energy becoming obsessed with you, sex appeal, being a victim of violence from men, early painful experiences with men, men you dated coming back years later to get with you again, trauma surrounding sex, a bad first time, taboo relationships, attracted to the forbidden, attracting envy from masculine energy people, vengeful, intense anger, threaths, seeing the worst side of men, animal magnetism, attracting people wherever you go, people being innappropriate with you, people seeing you as someone whos good in bed, sexually charged, oozing it, enjoying scary movies and documentaries.
MARS IN THE 9TH HOUSE: Forcing your opinion on people, a lot of enemies at school, people attacking bc of your cultural background or religion, not liking people who disagree with you, strong opinions, comedian, disliked by teachers and students, having to change schools, you come across as ditzy, people constantly asking you where you are from, well known at school, funny stuff in the school bathroom, people underestimating your intelligence, getting into heated discussions about religion, gambler, breaking tradition.
MARS IN THE 10TH HOUSE: Top model, CEO, sex symbol, models stealing eachothers outfits backstage, go hard or go home, dog eat dog, seen as someone bitchy, everybody knows who you are, posting gym selfies, being forced into sports as a kid, a parent who shamed you for being a pussy, wearing the latest, intimidating people without doing snything, catcalling, fitnessinfluenser, fitspo, only one can win, leaked sex tape, a reputation for being sexy, it girl, sex symbol, baddest b in town, public fights, the best at whatever you do, raised by a single mother, afraid of not being seen as high status.
MARS IN THE 11TH HOUSE: Protesting, fitnessinsta, posting pictures at the gym, âhaters make me famousâ, teamplayer, being cancelled, attracting anger on the internet, cyber bullying, humanitarian, people love to hate you, a striking look, friendships ending on bad terms, leader of a group, activist, rally starter, cheerleader, it girl, Regina George energy, hanging out with the guys, exposing the bad guys, friends with benefits, from enemies to friends, befriending someone you disliked at first sign, a friendscircle of bitches, onlyfans, needing the latest technology, the power of knowing everyone, wanting to know everyone, rebel without a cause.
MARS IN THE 12TH HOUSE: Passive aggressive, men playing you for a fool, being decieved by men, dating the town drugdealer, being surrounded by men who lie and drink, passive aggressive comments, afraid of confrontation, finding comfort in an addiction, men turning you against other women, wanting to be the saviour, making someone else fight for you, working at a mental hospital, working with addicts, not knowing who the enemy is, a good actor, being used by men, men giving you compliments to get something from you, repressing your sexuality, secret relationships, isolation, unknowingly being the side chick, scared of standing up for yourself.
Š 2023 Zeldas Notes
solar return guide
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㥠hiiiii everyone i am back with some more solar return content ! in this guide, i will dive more into everything iâve learned about solar return âĄ
disclaimer. not a professional astrologer, just passionate about astrology <3 iâm still learning but i want to share what i know with yall (*´âď˝*) + these are not my photos and gifs
⤠i highly recommend you check out my âintroduction to solar returnâ post before reading this if you havenât Ęâ˘á´Ľâ˘Ę
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what is a solar return chart ?
a solar return chart can give you insights on the general themes & events that might happen in the year ahead
itâs only valid for a year when the sun returns to the exact degree of your natal sun until it goes another round and returns there once again the next year (in which youâll have to generate another chart)
some things to keep in mind #
since the planetsâ movements through the signs are limited (except for mars) & outer planets move sooo slow, house placements are seen more important as they bring more significant differences each year
remember !! planets are energies, signs are qualities, and house are areas
planets show what kinds of energy
signs that the planets fall in show how those energies are expressed
houses where theyâre at show which areas of life those energies are applied to
you can already feel your SR year during three months prior to your SR birthday. for some it might be a bit later, but generally what happens near the start of your SR year can predict the overall theme of that year
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ascendant
your approach to life, first/immediate reaction to situations and people, suggests the main theme of the year, health issues, problems and matters throughout the year, the part of your personality that will rise to the surface
your ascendant will be the first energy/change that youâd feel when entering a new SR year. SR and natal planets in 1H and/or conjunct with SR ascendant will influence this as well
the natal houses that the SR ascendant falls into will show some issues from the area that will be highlighted, as well as the types of people that would be prominent in your year
ex. 3H siblings, 6H coworkers, 7H relationships & business partners
itâs important to note the SR chart ruler, aka ruler of the ascendant.
aries & scorpio ruled by mars
taurus & libra by venus
gemini & virgo by mercury
cancer by moon; leo by sun
sagittarius & pisces by jupiter
capricorn & aquarius by saturn
those are traditional rulers. for modern rulers, the only changes are scorpio by pluto, aquarius by uranus, pisces by neptune, and the rest are the same. again a preference thing, see what relates to you more
ASCENDANTS THROUGH THE SIGNS !! BLURBS
aries ⢠new beginnings, initiative, pioneering, courageous, impulsive, impatient, action-oriented, energetic, straightforward, fiery, argumentative
taurus ⢠financial security, material possessions, self worth, value, patient, beauty, commitment, stubborn, chill and calm
gemini ⢠communicative, learning, picking up many interests, sociable, curious, nervous, overthinking, exchanging information, restless, adaptable, hard to pin down/commit
cancer ⢠more affectionate and emotional, fluctuating moods, caring, feelings, family, responsive to othersâ needs, need for comfort
leo ⢠being confident, hobbies, having fun, being yourself, creativity, romance, children, attracting fame, more self-expression
virgo ⢠work, routine and habits, health, analytical, planning, be careful of worrying too much or thinking too negatively, tendency to overthink, wanting to be helpful to others, attentive to details
libra ⢠negotiations, diplomatic, glow up/looking good all year, beauty, aesthetics, lawsuits, partnerships, socializing, maintaining peace in relationships
scorpio ⢠going through transformations, getting rid of old habits, intense emotions, powerful, shared resources, legacies, obsessive tendencies, having control, occult, sex, psychic, extreme
sagittarius ⢠traveling, higher education, faith and beliefs, adventurous, freedom, carefree, fun, spirituality, philosophy, exploring, optimistic, deeper understanding, higher knowledge
capricorn ⢠working towards personal goals, hardworking, responsibilities and burdens, serious, mature, focus on career & reputation, public image
aquarius ⢠networking, independent, rebellious, innovative, technology, groups and communities, friends, hopes and dreams, revolutionary, unique, online activities, non-conforming
pisces ⢠dreamy, creative, escapism tendencies, spirituality, sensitive to energies, letting go of habits/relationships/things that donât serve you anymore, mental health, imagination, selfless, transitioning
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houses
AND THE AREAS OF LIFE THEY REPRESENT !!
1ST HOUSE. yourself, your personality, identity, ego, self perception, how you view yourself, how you present yourself
2ND HOUSE. your values, finances, income, possessions, money & material life, self-worth, self-esteem, your surroundings
3RD HOUSE. your communication, ideas, learning style, school life, how you interact with others, relationships with your immediate surroundings (siblings, relatives, neighbors, etc), short trips, transportation
4TH HOUSE. your home situation, family, retreat, emotional life, relationship with parents, whatâs hidden from the public eye, comfort place
5TH HOUSE. your self-expression, romance, love affairs, creativity, flirting, pleasure, sex, relationship with children, fun, gambles
6TH HOUSE. your daily routine, health, work, habits, responsibilities, service to others, relationship with coworkers
7TH HOUSE. your one on one relationships, marriage, love that is with commitment, business partnerships, co-operation, negotiation, legal matters, open enemies
8TH HOUSE. your transformation, shared resources, inheritance, death, rebirth, regeneration, sex, privacy, finances, other peopleâs money, intimacy, debt, the occult
9TH HOUSE. your beliefs, opinions, higher education, long-distance traveling, deeper knowledge, mental exploration, public expression of ideas
10TH HOUSE. your career, public life, public image, how others view you, personal aims and goals, profession, reputation, power, status
11TH HOUSE. your long-term dreams and goals, hopes, social groups, friends, acquaintances, organizations
12TH HOUSE. your solitude, spirituality, mental health, peace, foreign lands, secrets, limitations, hidden enemies
planets
SUN. your main focus for the upcoming year, shows where you shine the most, where most of your energy is at
â check which natal house does SR sun falls into
MOON. your emotional side, needs, where you seek comfort, how you express your feelings, habits, the house itâs in shows which area of life youâre emotionally tied to
â check which natal house does SR moon falls into
MERCURY. focused thoughts, what you think and talk about, your way of learning, how you communicate, mental condition
VENUS. love and romance, beauty, your aesthetics, how you spend money, attraction, where you indulge/find pleasure in, financial situation
MARS. where energy is released/lost, what youâre passionate about, where lots of efforts are poured into
JUPITER. brings expansion, growth, exploration, higher understanding, luck and opportunities
SATURN. karmic lessons, brings delays and restrictions, responsibilities, challenges, brings rewards if you keep working hard on it
URANUS. unexpected/sudden changes, out of our control, lessons from attachments and separations
NEPTUNE. illusions, possible deceptions, brings confusion, creativity, service, brings escapism tendencies
PLUTO. brings major transformations, obsession, desires, power and control
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RETROGRADE PLANETS. planets that are more internally focused, need review & reflection, need to pay attention to
mercury rx â pay attention and review how you communicate and learn, process information gathered, how you transport (by car, train, etc)
venus rx â review how you love, your values, self-worth, how you indulge in pleasure
other planets take longer to go in retrogradation, so take notice when it changes direction in your SR chart (direct to retrograde/retrograde to direct)
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timing
the sun stays in a sign for approximately a month. check the transitioning sun to see which house and sign its in, as well as the planets it conjuncts, to see when an event may occur
for example,
this (non-existent) person has their solar return birthday start when the sun transits into libra, making late september & early october the first month of their SR year
letâs say they SR saturn is in scorpio, which means they will encounter a karmic experience around the next month when sun transits into scorpio, especially when it conjuncts SR saturn
and it would be in regards to the area of life determined by the house that SR saturn is in. so 7H SR saturn = karmic lesson in relationship or business partnerships, 11H SR saturn = lesson in friend groups or social network
tips and resources
SOME TIPS THAT NOBODY ASKED FOR !!
reading a solar return chart is just similar to interpreting a natal chart. the more you learn and know about general astrology the easier it is to read a solar return chart
instead of changing the settings to generate a solar return chart everytime, create a natal chart using your solar return info so you can compare them to the transits and also make a synastry chart between your natal and SR charts (to see aspects easier)
look into past solar return charts to see in which way does the planets personally affect you
RESOURCES BECAUSE THEY SCARCE ASF !!
solar return observations on tumblr ofc tho remember that theyâre just observations
solar return interpretations made by other astrologers and that is posted online, such as cafeastrology
my solar return tag - with reblogs of wonderful solar return posts made by amazing astrologers and astro content creators <3 (oh and my SR content as well hehe)
intro to solar returns: a thread by @/austral_taur on twitter
a guide to solar returns by @/tinybluewiitch on twitter
solar return lesson by astrobabie on wordpress
solar return FAQS by mary shea
your solar return: a breakdown by adjust your sails
solar returns: understanding the houses made easy by starcrazypie
solar return read & learn by starsmoonandsun
interpreting the solar return by llewellyn
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Moon sign vibes: Sagittarius moon
Peaceful sunsets, Laughing at the most random of jokes, The color yellow but not vibrant but more pastel idk, debates about anything at anytime without the pain of arguments, a bean bag chair or a chair that is shaped in a funny shape like a hand.
Dissociation, dandelions, the joker card, poker, smores, and maybe even jazz from the 30s.
Astrology and my childhood and what I have found funny about it
So let's get into this. In advance I will be talking about my trauma but I will not go too much into detail about it since that feels weird. I figured I'd put this disclaimer because I know this shit isn't what everyone wants to read when they are researching astrology.
My moon squares my mars but my moon also opposes my mercury and my Venus to varying degrees of course. I have a Leo rising so my fourth house is in Scorpio while the two siblings I was raised with for most of my life have a Leo and a Gemini rising. If it helps I was raised with both my parents which I feel kinda lucky for when I think about it. Because considering my father was there to protect me and my sister from my mother's eccentric behavior when the time came. I do wish my brother got the same protection but that is for another time. Anyways I know I have intense mommy issues and maybe some daddy issues. There is no doubt that I am emotionally not the greatest but I feel like if I got it worse I would be even more fucked ya know? Now back to astrology.
My mother has a Sag sun, Aquarius moon, Scorpio mercury, Capricorn Venus, and a Aries mars. So it's always funny to read post that talk about how unemotional Aquarius moons are when my mother is one of the most emotional people I have met. I might as well include my dad's placements as well. He has a Pisces sun and mercury, a Taurus moon and mars, and then an Aries Venus. I'll rehash my placements real quick: Aries sun, mercury, and Venus. Virgo moon, Sag mars, and Leo rising. I was considered my mother's favorite and there is no doubt I did lean into it for my own self interest. I wouldn't say me and my mother were emotionally bonded like most mother and child dynamics go. I simply knew that if I had any emotional problem I would have to rely on myself or even my siblings as opposed to my mom. Nothing against my dad he just had his own problems going on already plus my mom would have gotten mad if I showed favoritism to my dad in any way. I do call it favoritism because it felt like that imo. I do love my dad without a doubt but my mom I'm not too sure of. It's more guilt that I don't love her but I know love isn't something you can force either it's one of those confusing things for me.
Anyways there are some interesting synastry aspects I wanted to talk about though. My dad's Pluto is conjunct my moon while it opposes my mercury. Whereas my Pluto is conjunct my mom's sun and sextile her moon. Her Pluto is opposite my mercury and Venus tho. Her Chiron is conjunct my sun almost to an exact. I'll post a part two since this will go on for a while. I'll post the link in this post (at the bottom) and on my masterlist. I might include a photo of our synastry aspects in that post as well idk tho. Anyways I find it interesting how Pluto acts in synastry but what's even funnier is how Saturn acts in synastry.
Personal planets wise my dad and I only have one Saturn aspect and it's my Saturn sextile his Venus while my mother have a good amount. There is no doubt she has a great effect on me (it's kinda hard to not). Anyways her Saturn is squared my moon, mercury, and Venus while it is also opposite my Chiron and sextile my mc. Then my Saturn is trine her Venus. Funnily enough my Pluto, Mars, and Ascendant is also trine her Chiron. I think some of them are great aspects to have but some feel odd to have with your own mother.
The planet of restrictions and the planet of transformation and obsession. I highlight both because of the difference in the aspects between my mother and father towards me, and the difference in dynamics. To a certain degree I can't be truly upset with how my childhood was because there are certain factors in it that make me sympathize with my parents especially. For instance, we were relatively poor considering we were on food stamps and my mother has mental illnesses. Apparently she has bipolar disorder along with PTSD but I can't exactly say in what way that explains or excuses her past behaviors. Plus she was unmedicated for the most part because she didn't feel great on the pills and she was suicidal at times so it was just better to overall have her unmedicated at that time in her life. Does that excuse her abusive tendencies? No and yet I can't help but wonder if certain things weren't the way they were, would my childhood have been different? Idk and I can't focus on the what ifs in this situation because realistically it does nothing for me in the end.
Anyways I'll talk more about this another time because this post has gone on for a long time. Here is the links for more info:
Pt 2
Another post in case you just want to see the synastry aspect photos.