That Ask Is A Bit Too Relatable

that ask is a bit too relatable 💀💀💀

When I was a kid I associated with the term ‘tomboy’ a lot because I didn’t want to be seen as feminine. Gender ideals had always felt restrictive to me so my 7-year-old rationale was along the lines of ‘tomboys get to do boy stuff while also being girls, so that means if I become a tomboy I can be whatever I want!’

It probably also had something to do with being autistic and unable to relate to the other girls around me or feel included in their gendered social dynamics. The shared experiences and community of being a girl was never something I was a part of, so I sought out something else on my own.

Finding out what being Agender is was honestly really freeing. I can define my identity to myself and pick out my relationships without having to conform to or oppose gender attributes and stereotypes. I’m not a woman or a man or another specified gender, I’m an autistic artist and a bunch of other things too :D

I'm glad you figured it out! Gender norms can be confusing, even if one doesn't have a gender.

Just got this iron ring, does it qualify as an ace ring?

Why does spotify love to fuck ppl over... I can barely listen to the 5 remixes of the same friday night funkin song anymore

Hi Spotify can you go fuck yourself thanks

@ashes-onthewind @not3catsinatrenchcoat Spotify mobile non premium truly is a moment

feeling motivated right now.. i'm going to rewrite the entirety of sonic the comic

wwhat does this mean 😭😭

you can't even call them fruit flies anymore. because of woke

in the mood to have my feelings hurt (in a weeks time) so

unless its like a total 50/50 split or something if im similar to multiple characters then just put the one im most similar to

and btw you dont have to factor in 'but do they behave like that all the time???' because this is based on how i act on tumblr (and discord if you know me there too)