A Small Rant

A small rant

Destroy the idea that digital art isn’t art, or is somehow lesser than traditional mediums. 

You are a painter of light.

You delicately move data and photons into images of hope, horror, love, pain. 

Your hard earned skills are not lesser because your work cannot be touched by physical hands. 

Your ideas, which you painstakingly execute with those skills and all that experience, touch the minds and hearts of the thousands who may come across it. 

Their impact is not lesser for having been absent a physical body during their creation.

Get your hands dirty with traditional media or delve into the possibilities of digital media.  Do both!  But don’t let anyone convince you that your work is lesser because of the medium.  I think we as an art community should be long past that archaic idea.

NB Me: *exists*

Asshole: UhHH you can't be nonbinary c0s nonBinary iSn't rEEal

NB Me: ...

NB Me: *EXISTS HARDER*

thanks for this post OP, I legit get this all the time but I find talking to people difficult so it’s difficult for me to explain this stuff to people, also didn’t know that being demisexual was common in autistic folks, makes sense to me tho given that I am autistic

Demisexual “So you mean a normal person?” Don’t hate on things you don’t understand.

Person: What’s demisexuality?

Demisexual: It means you don’t get attracted to people unless there’s an emotional bond.

Person: Oh, so like, a normal person?

Demisexual: Actually, no, although I can see how you’d think that. Most people don’t have sex with people unless they have an emotional bond with them but that’s not really to do with sexuality, that’s just staying safe and having common sense.

’Normal’ people, although not intending to sleep with someone right away, still know, usually, whether they would be interested in doing that within a short amount of time, sometimes immediately. People come up to me and say “You’re attractive, can I have your number?” after just seeing me from across a bar. They’ve never spoken to me, don’t know who I am but still found me attractive and are thus interested in getting to know me more to see if they’d like to start a relationship.

Demisexuals don’t experience that. We don’t see underwear adverts and find the actors desirable. We don’t look at someone from across a room and think “they’re hot, I wonder if they’re single”. ‘Sex sells’ goes over our heads. Dating apps where you swipe pictures across the screen are useless. We literally don’t get attracted to people that quickly.

Person: Oh, I see. So it’s not just being picky or abstaining from sex, it’s literal lack of attraction?

Demisexual: Yes, you’ve got it.

Person: That must make dating difficult.

Demisexual: It does. Many of us are interested in dating but are limited to people we know emotionally. If someone asks for my number I then have to say to them ‘can we be friends for roughly two to three years, by then I should know whether I find you physically attractive and if I do we can start dating’. It’s sad because I don’t want to get people’s hopes up or seem like I’m leading them on. But I literally do have to know them for a while before I can get attracted to them if I do at all. It also meant growing up was a strange experience because everyone would be pointing out attractive people on TV, in magazines and when walking down the street and I just didn’t understand.

Person: Well thank you for taking the time to explain that to me. I understand now that there is a difference between abstaining from sex and actually lacking attraction.

Demisexual: No problem. It’s nice to be accepted and understood.

Demisexuals, you are real and valid. Just because people don’t understand what you go through that doesn’t mean what you go through is fake. Pride is about respecting and celebrating all sexualities and their nuances. 

You should also note that demisexuality is common among those on the autism spectrum. To deny demisexuality is not only illogical but it’s also ableism. You’re erasing people’s symptoms because its convenient for you and because you don’t understand them. 

Demisexuals just want to chill and exist. They don’t want fame and to be mollycoddled. They just want awareness and acceptance. 

Let’s not hate on people just because we don’t understand. 

found this old abandoned mansion in subcon forest, I’m gonna break in lol

Listen up. There is literally an app that can help you avoid self harm and I don’t know why we aren’t talking about it.

Calm Harm can be tailored to your needs and will provide strategies to help you get past those crucial moments of wanting to harm.

It’s also totally FREE.

once again, it’s called CALM HARM

I feel so called out right now lol

[ID: At the top, text reads “Me before I knew I was non-binary:” Below is the Marge meme. Marge Simpson looks at a potato, labelled “They/them pronouns”, and says “I just think they’re neat.”. End ID]