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I've Entered A New Phase With My Client, Hope (not Her Real Name) That I'm Trying To Understand. The

I've entered a new phase with my client, Hope (not her real name) that I'm trying to understand. The first day I came was rough. I was eager to do the things I'd be placed with her to do: get her up, help her shower, get dressed, have breakfast, and so on. She reacted by resisting strongly, so I quickly learned never to push her and let her choose what we do and when as much as possible. We had a couple of weeks where most of the time, we got along very well. We even had a couple of touching moments of sincere connection. Hope has very limited language but she's not cognitively impaired and can say no and ok. So when I phrase things as yes or no questions I can find out what she wants.

For about a week now, though, she's been very resistant and angry. I don't know why, exactly, of if this represents a true change. Could be we had a kind of honeymoon period and now that's worn off. Or maybe she's now comfortable enough with me to express anger and unhappiness. Or, as it presents, she's angry at me for real and I've done or am doing something that's bothering her.

Meanwhile I'm getting better with all the techniques, so the last option isn't easy to pinpoint, if that's the true cause of her resistance and frustration. Of course I've tried asking her but this sort of guessing game, where I exhaust all the most likely problems and move on to wild speculation, has always annoyed the hell out of her.

Right now she needs a change and the bed is only going to get wetter and less comfortable, but she won't let me do anything. I've offered every option I can think of and she says no to everything.

I hope I figure this out soon.

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