A Few Reminders Because Im Tired And Angry

a few reminders because i’m tired and angry

fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism

adult women aren’t inherently creepy for being in fandom and having hobbies apart from raising babies and doing taxes

the vast majority of people pushing back against the worrying trend of instigating harassment over fictional characters and relationships aren’t incest supporters or pedophiles, actually

liking a m/f ship doesn’t make someone a dirty heterosexual invading your space

preferring gay ships doesn’t make you ‘’woke’’ and good

no one owes you a disclaimer that they are a good person who recognizes that their favorite fictional villain’s actions are evil and that they don’t condone those actions irl

liking a fictional villain is in no way comparable to advocating abuse/murder/genocide/etc and you’re a fucking idiot if you believe that

just because a woman is attracted to a fictional villain doesn’t mean she’s promoting toxic relationships or going to end up in a toxic relationship. assuming women can’t tell fiction and reality apart stinks of internalized misogyny 

some rando’s a/b/o fanfics have none of the level of influence that popular tv shows and movies spreading propaganda have

no one owes you a detailed description of their traumas and mental health problems

abusive relationships are not the same as enemies to lovers ships

y’all need to chill the fuck out over people, relationships, actions and events that don’t actually exist and learn how to enjoy and discuss them like normal people

fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism

feel free to add more

Look me in the eye and tell me Red Robin isn't a sociopath 👀 

Dick, reading a post online: 'Daddy issues make you a people pleaser but mommy issues make you a sociopath.'

Tim: ok that explains you and Damian. Doesn't explain Jason though.

I'M A FUCKING VIRGO NOW?!?!?!?!?

If irish twins are kids born with the (almost) same birthday a year apart, what would jaygrant's kids qualify as? Because i DEFINETLY headcanon that they'd go into labor together

Jaygrant is the type of male omega/ male omega couple that would get each other pregnant on accident. “We’re both omegas we don’t need protection” <- famous last words. Bonus if it’s something that’s almost medically impossible so they’re just extremely unlucky

I INCLUDED THIS IN THE LAST ASK I GOT ABOUT THEM IN THE OMEGAVERSE!!! They don't even think about it part of the reason they started hooking up is because neither of them can get each other pregnant. Grant was already in the 10% of people that suppressants never fully worked for - combination of a meta gene and his heats are particularly heavy anyway - and Jason was advised not to take them because of the adverse effects they can have with all the chemicals he gets exposed to.

Jason thinks it's weird when he doesn't get his heat as usual, and he gets nervous the longer time passes without it. Grant calls him about it, he's having the same problem. Double weird because their last heats had synced up and they assumed they'd keep getting them at the same time.

Before any of the side effects show up, he knows something is different. Not about himself but about Grant. Something about his smell... something warm and homey that softens the smell of hazelnut and woodsmoke Jason has become so accustomed to. It's all he can do to keep himself from burying his nose in Grant's scent gland for the next few weeks, Grant is delighted, he almost obsessively covers Jason in his scent - it's a habit stereotypically associated with Alphas but Grant's possessive streak could blow any knotheaded alpha out of the water.

They can hardly stand to be away from each other, Grant completely stops taking jobs in favor of patrolling with Jason.

It's when the morning sickness starts, for both of them, that they finally drag themselves to Leslie's clinic. They're not sure what to expect, maybe a stomach virus one of them got and spread to the other or a new side effect of drinking the tap water. They're not expecting to BOTH be pregnant. There is no doubt in either of their minds about the parentage at least, but that's really the least of their problems.

OOOOOHH LOOKY WHAT I FOUND

Google Docs

BatPham Server Ship Names

my birth year starts with a 19, i still remember beepers, of-freaking-course i'm gonna still have my VHS player

saw this exact post but about DVDs by not-a-space-alien and felt the need to check something