That Barbie Meme But It's Actually Just Barbie And Ken In My Weird Style ()

That Barbie meme but it's actually just Barbie and Ken in my weird style (；・∀・)

To burn the witch is to admit that magic exists.

~ Erin Anastasia

Unpopular opinion: I love the asexual community, but often I feel really alone because I'm sex repulsed.

I remember this moment when I saw this romance book about a sex-repulsed ace girl and wanted to read it. But when I told my friend (also asexual but likes sex) about that, and how I felt really represented and happy to see a repulsed person in a loving relationship, they went 'oh there are plenty of books like that, I've yet to see a book talking about aces who like sex tho' and I remember feeling really hurt about that statement.

Yeah sure, that is probably true, and I'm sorry that there is no representation of that.

But that was the first time I had ever seen a book where one of the main characters was stated to be ace. And that too, repulsed by sex. Everywhere I looked, it was allosexual people in those books.

That too, I always thought (still do, tbh) that I would probably never find a romantic partner because a lot of people like sex or want that in their relationship. There's a lot of people who like that within the asexual community as well. As much as I would love being in a qpr, the thought of never finding a romantic partner always made me feel bad about myself. So I felt really hopeful when I heard that the repulsed girl found a healthy romance.

Another time I was watching another video about asexuality today. It covered everything about asexuality, but it never mentioned sex-repulsed aces. It made me feel kind of mad, actually. We're a solid part of the community as much as aces who like sex. Or aces whose sexual attraction fluctuates. Why is it that so many other repulsed aces feel so underrepresented?

It feels like no one understands how I feel about it. Most people in my friend group are allosexual. A lot of kids at my school are allosexual. The few asexual people I've met like sex. They wouldn't understand why I have to cover my eyes everytime a sex scene comes. I do make sex jokes, and I don't mind when other people talk about sex. But I still feel like an oddity.

SPOOK AND COZY OCTOBER (AMBIENCE)

WITCHY VIBES

Medieval Apothecary Shop;

Brewing Potions at Night;

Enchanted  Forest;

Gryffindor Common Room;

Herbalist Cabin;

Witch House;

Potion Shop;

VAMPIRE VIBES

Riding With a Vampire;

Crackling fire in the Old Mansion;

Haunted Forest;

Dining with a Vampire;

Victorian London;

Dark Tomb;

Vampire Court;

obsessed with this specific subset of classic novels

a spell for finals week

It’s that time of year again! Not Christmas. Not tax day. Finals. 

 But here’s a spell to help get you through it! 

 First: you’ll need to actually do some studying. This spell isn’t to make you learn a semester’s worth of material in a night. It’s to help you remember the material on test day. So crack open your book and get to work. 

 Second: at bedtime, place your textbook or notes under your pillow with a clear quartz crystal and a sprig of rosemary. Rosemary is closely tied to memory, and the quartz will help stimulate your brain through the night. You may also want to add a sleep crystal such as amethyst to help you get a good night’s sleep. 

 Lastly: wake up, kill your exam.