I Dont Know How You, But For Me, Theon's Dream Become Stark Is Painful. Because He Realy Was A Hostage

I dont know how you, but for me, Theon's dream become Stark is painful. Because he realy was a hostage (and that Ned and Robb were good to him dont change this fact). Theon was child when his taken away from real family. And that Balon, Maron and Rodrik were bad to Theon dont reason make Theon from Greyjoy to Stark, remember about Asha (and his uncle Dagmer) and Alannys who has lost much of her mental faculties afrer lost all her sons. They also Theon's famaly (not Starks). And Theon was kid when come to Winterfell, of course he wanted have family. He called Robb brother because wanted be friend with Maron and Rodrik ( maybe get resoct or love from them). The same with Ned and Balon.

( As for me Theon more Harlaw, like his mother).

Remember, Alannys sometimes wanted ki/l Balon? Maybe it is because Balon often thought/planed his new rebellion, which mean Theon's death. So, she always stopped her husband to save Theon.

Theon: this girl looks like you

Sansa: is she beautiful?

Theon: ...

Just imagine that Theon have cousin(Euron’s bastard). Named, for example, Dagon. And Jeyne Poole marry with Dagon and Sansa with Theon on the same day. Jeyne and Sansa called each other ,,sister’’.There is neither Joffrey nor Ramsay nor anyone else in this story And this big famaly is happy.

I know, that nobody care, but I have some thoughts (headcanon, theory and etc) about asoiaf. And in real life I can’t talk about this, becouse many family members and friends don’t watch/read got/asoiaf. I need talk or write this all. So, started of this day, I am will post this thoughts. (Also, soon I am must write some importent exams/tests, so I need ,,a fresh head’’. And after this I will be absent few weeks).

theon: dream that Ned might marry him to Sansa also theon: speak with Robb about ,,his girls'',  behave arrogant and levity  in front of Ned