I Dont Know How You, But For Me, Theon's Dream Become Stark Is Painful. Because He Realy Was A Hostage

I dont know how you, but for me, Theon's dream become Stark is painful. Because he realy was a hostage (and that Ned and Robb were good to him dont change this fact). Theon was child when his taken away from real family. And that Balon, Maron and Rodrik were bad to Theon dont reason make Theon from Greyjoy to Stark, remember about Asha (and his uncle Dagmer) and Alannys who has lost much of her mental faculties afrer lost all her sons. They also Theon's famaly (not Starks). And Theon was kid when come to Winterfell, of course he wanted have family. He called Robb brother because wanted be friend with Maron and Rodrik ( maybe get resoct or love from them). The same with Ned and Balon.

( As for me Theon more Harlaw, like his mother).

theon: dream that Ned might marry him to Sansa also theon: speak with Robb about ,,his girls'',  behave arrogant and levity  in front of Ned

Sansa: Theon, why you look at me almost all party yesterday? Theon: I didnt. I just looked at your earrings Sansa: seriusly? earrings? Theon: yes, silver and in the shape of a wolf Sansa: I was without earrings yesterday Theon: ...

I know, that nobody care, but I have some thoughts (headcanon, theory and etc) about asoiaf. And in real life I can’t talk about this, becouse many family members and friends don’t watch/read got/asoiaf. I need talk or write this all. So, started of this day, I am will post this thoughts. (Also, soon I am must write some importent exams/tests, so I need ,,a fresh head’’. And after this I will be absent few weeks).

Lysa Arryn suggest Catelyn marry their childs. And Robert Arryn marry with Arya, but Sansa wih Aegon and they moved to new castels.Fortunately for Arya Robert can’t end their wedlock. But hischildren's behavior and Lysa’s control slowly killed Arya inside and she tryed run. After this Lysa let she get divorced with Robert, but Arya must live in Vale and with time she meet Mya Stone. After Robert’s death new lord of Vale become Harrold Hardyng. Arya meet with his blacksmith, Gendry Waters, who look like Mya. Arya send leter to sister wher she wrote aboute Gendry and her feels. Then Sansa ask Aegon and he declare Gendry as Baratheon (he belived, thet He is Robert’s son) and let him marry with Arya. They become Lord and Lady of Storm End wher build big and lovely famaly.

Maybe Balon loved Alannys. Their first son they called Rodrik, maybe like Alannys brother, but Balon can called him like someone of Greyjoys. Also he had 2 salt wifes, but where their kids? If he had bastards son, they would came to Pyke after Theon go with Starks, but this doesn't happen. Balon raised Asha like his heir.  Also after Alannys moved to Harlaw and they cant have other sons Balon dont take new wifes. So, yes I think that Balon love Alannys, and she loved her husband back. But after rebellion she saw ,,real Balon's face” (stupid egoist) and with time become apathetic to husband ( and maybe some time hated him.)