This Goes For Alllllllll Actors. Just Be A Respectful Human.

This goes for alllllllll actors. Just be a respectful human.

For the love of God, stop asking the BG3 voice actors to say weird stuff for you on Cameo. It is so creepy and such a violation of boundaries. They are not their characters! Yes, do I want more stuff from Rolan's VA? SURE! IN THE GAME! Where it makes SENSE! Where he's consented to it in a logical, safe environment!

People have said such hyper sexual stuff to poor Neil Newborn that he had to issue a polite but firm request to knock it off. That is mortifying. He should never have been made to feel uncomfortable enough to do that. And of all the characters, too! Astarion's story is about him NOT being a fetishized sex object. I think the only thing Neil had legitimate fun with is that video where he's pretending to be Astarion doing a wake up call. That one is amazing and pure and hilarious.

Don't tweet the VAs your NFSW fanart. Don't ask them to read aloud parts of your fanfic. If you absolutely HAVE to have "official" input on your hyperfixations, go talk to Larian and the writers.

Just leave the actors themselves alone unless you're going to tell them something polite, respectful, and kind.

Ok ya’ll drop your insta handles if you have them, I’m going to be deleting my tumbler at the end of the week. Unfortunately the amazing art and aus are just not outweighing the bullshit and pointless arguing that I see in every fandom I’m in on here, it’s reaching Twitter levels and I left that over a year ago. It’s just exhausting and I get so tired of having to block people. But if you have insta for your art or fandom please let me know. I have a bookstagram account over there.

I had no idea how to check this before 🤣 I have 24 and that is so exciting to me 🤣 I literally thought I’d have one and it would be @sterekyrround because she loves me and is my bestie.

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My Neil Josten moment.

I go to the gym 5 days a week and take a Krav Maga class 2 nights a week. Yesterday my back was tight all day but I pushed through my work out then in the middle of Krav my back seized up and as everyone asked me if I was ok I was like “I’m fine! Keep going, I’m fine.” Till my sensei and classmates forced me to leave 🙃😭after ibuprofen, water hot enough to melt your skin off centered on my back and a heating pad I was good to go and back in the gym this morning 🤣

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Tagged by @itsyouitsmeorpheuseurydice !

Last song: Icarus by Bastille

Favorite color: I love greens and purples

Currently watching: always Bob’s Burgers 🤣 but also my husband and I just started Reservation Dogs and it is excellent so far!

Sweet/savory/spicy: yes.

Relationship status: married to an awesome human

Current obsession: BG3, I actually had to take a break from playing it was becoming too much 🤣. Also All For The Game, I need to do some more writing. And Sterek from Teen Wolf though that has calmed down, I still adore and ship them but Andriel from AFTG kinda shoved them out of the way 🤣

Last thing you googled: uuuuuggghhh ok gonna real honest here….”loose skin after weight loss” I’m in the process of losing weight and the goal is (with a trainer and safely and healthfully) 100 pounds by the end of the year.

ftr yallre free to hate thea, it's unrealistic to assume every reader will like every character

bc you're against the 4yr/freshman-senior gap, bc she wasn't well-presented in her scene, bc i cxld the story that would've actually given her more time to breathe, bc you don't want Kevin with a Raven, bc her no-harm-no-foul approach to a man whose first response after any tragedy is "but can you still play", cool cool cool, that's fine by me. i have hated characters for less!

we're only revisiting her now because of the persistent argument that she somehow went out of her way to fuck a 14yo or groom kevin. unsure where or how it started, but at this point I have to assume something in the EC was blindingly unclear. so let's revisit it. not a rewrite or a retcon, but a reword of what we've already talked about before, in hopes it adds a bit of overdue clarification. and then I'mma mute her name, let the conversation die, and keep on keepin' on with my plans for her. thanks, lovies <3

Theodora Muldani "Thea"

Recruited to the Ravens as one of their token women. Advised from the get-go that the master is against both her race and her sex, and that she will have work twice as hard to earn her place. Spends years fighting her way up the ranks until the master finally approves her for starting line-up. Nominates self for vice-captain her senior year (soundly rejected). Had been seeing the captain at the time, but broke things off with him when he laughed off her irritation ("of course he wouldn't pick you, you're a girl"). Spends her senior year in a casual fling with the Ravens' starting goalkeeper.

Summer practices before her 5th year, the perfect Court officially join the lineup. Sees a lot of Jean, who follows her around wanting advice and insight. Sees more of Kevin & Riko (always together, since the two never leave each other alone in a room). Knows Riko is King, but is predisposed to be annoyed with Kevin who has already made snide comments about her goalkeeper and who dispenses nonstop opinions and judgment without invitation. They spend the next several months shit-talking each other's skills until Riko gets tired of it and tells Kevin to just fuck her already. Finding out that's why Kevin has been such a wretched bitch to put up with finally makes him interesting.

Thea drops things with her goalie, but Kevin is leery of actively pursuing her long-term when it puts her under Riko's microscope. They settle for harassing each other on the court and passing notes (sometimes using Jean as the bitter go-between). Kevin fusses at her for turning down the national team; she tells him he's better than Riko is. Bit by bit they see pieces of who they are past the Ravens, his love of history and her dream of climbing Kilimanjaro. Bit by bit they see how much they both want to be the best on the court, to be unchallenged and unstoppable. They're compatible, and Thea knows it, but Kevin has years at Evermore still, has a King!brother in his line-of-sight at all times and a master who is hawking him out to the press on a regular basis.

Thea promises to cut him out when she graduates. She has the national Court calling her back and professional teams trying to sign her to their line; she has enough to keep her busy and new lineups to hone her skills against. She'll focus on her own growth and let Kevin get through Evermore's hurdles. She says "Tell me if I should come back", and Kevin says "Yes". She jokes that he should get some practice in with the ladies while she's gone so he'll be ready for her: a joking insult against his skills to rile him up, a promise she'll wait as long as it takes, and reassurance that he isn't bound to her and can pursue other people if he so desires. Thea graduates, signs with the Houston Sirens and the US Court, and goes on to earn a fearsome reputation.

Almost two years later, the news is out: Kevin has been injured in a skiing accident and has vanished. Thea breaks her promise and tries to reach him, but his number is disconnected. She tries Jean next, and Jean tells her Kevin wants nothing to do with any of them anymore. Then Kevin starts helping at an unworthy scrap of a school, and he joins their lineup like he's not ashamed to be associated with dead-last losers. The future Thea was waiting for is burning; she puts everything she has into her own career and life to try and figure out where to go from here.

And then one day Kevin opens his mouth on live TV and says "Did you know I've never been skiing?"

She can't reach Jean for an explanation. She can't even reach Riko. So Thea breaks her promise a second time, and this time she buys a ticket to South Carolina to get the answers for herself.