Youre Valid If Your Grief And Trauma Doesnt Follow Societys Expected Timeline. Youre Valid If The Things

You’re valid if your grief and trauma doesn’t follow society’s expected timeline. You’re valid if the things people would expect to be “less bad” affect you more or for longer than the things that people consider “worse”. There’s no timeline and there’s no standardized scale of trauma.

So apparently some people don’t trust @/stop-tsams-shippers-harassment because they mostly reblog stuff from @/biased-tsams-confessions and don’t view it as an accurate source.

I’m sorry, but that’s where most of this information is coming from.

Did you ever think about that?/genq

Yeah, sure, biased mod is BIASED, but everyone else is too, by nature.

Alex talks about us like we’re horrible, then goes and says that them and their group doesn’t think we are. They think that we need to “grow and change and realize the impact we have made”.

I don’t deny that these people are suffering in some way, but they have done more damage that we supposedly have.

About Molten (SaMS and LaES spoilers!)

(Disclaimer: I don't know much about Molten before Old Moon came back, so I don't know how accurate this will be)

Augh... I had this written SO WELL yesterday and I can't match up to it now. I'm just going to be short and sweet.

I think Molten arrived at the house at the perfect time.

After what happened to Moon and how he felt during yesterday's episode, I have a feeling that it's going to be Molten who will at least start the process of pulling Moon back to his feet.

Moon thinks he's irredeemable, but he's been growing by leaps and bounds since he came back. He's still got a lot of himself to improve, but Molten is living proof that he has a legitimate chance. Molten wanted to be better, he wanted to be more than what he was programmed to be, and he's been doing a great job.

We've seen Moon be very, genuinely kind towards Molten. He not only gave Molten a chance, but he behaves in a very parent-like way towards him. He's endlessly patient, answers his questions with respect, and even fusses over his well-being.

Maybe today's episode will be Molten returning that kindness.

umm i need reassurance that my presence is wanted but i can’t ask for reassurance because that’s really Embarrassing and it wouldn’t feel genuine if i asked for it

PFFT--Reverse psychology for the win, once again! XD

Um, I hope this counts.

I have a headcanon that Solar (and, by extension, Eclipse) are the type to try to hide their reaction to something really funny. Like Ryan Stiles and the "tapiooooca~!" joke on Whose Line is it Anyway.

I'm just imagining Lunar and Earth roping Solar into playing Gang Beasts and their antics are just making him fight SO HARD to keep his composure. Then they get to the street level and Buffy the Flying Walrus gets hit by signs. Many, many times.

I'd imagine Solar would be dumbfounded at first, but as it keeps going he's eventually just trying (and failing) to hide his laughter through breathing. He's trying to take steady inhales, and then disguise his laughing with long exhales.

Earth and Lunar know this and they are NOT HELPING. THEY WANT TO BREAK HIM WITH SILLINESS. XD

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