I Need People To Hear Me Out:

I need people to hear me out:

Colin Bridgerton is NOT this type of male lead:

He is this type of male lead:

And I love that.

Every time Penelope is off flirting with some other man in Part 1 she’s still wearing Bridgerton Blue and I just think that’s neat. You never had to worry Colin!!!

Penelope & Colin in Season 3 Part 1 🤍

We can all agree we want to see more of Lord Remington, King of Sass, in season 3 right?

I mean, he’s not wrong

Okay, for very real I need everyone acting like Colin didn’t “suffer enough” or whatever to take a breath and like…I dunno, rethink how u treat ur friends or something.

Like, Penelope’s feelings being hurt about the comment he made at the end of S2 is so real, but also her forgiving him as soon as he genuinely apologizes and follows through on being a solid friend is what friendship is??? Have none of you ever been accused by random people you only kinda know about being into ur close friends just bc ur opposite genders and then doing that panicky defense thing where you laugh really loud and go “what r u even saying dude? Hahaha that’s ridiculous they’re my bestie we are The Most Platonic (tm)” just to get them to leave u alone?

Does Colin overcompensate? Yes. Is it understandable, especially given the information we have about Penelope’s feelings, that she feels hurt and made fun of? Also yes. But very obviously, he wasn’t trying to make fun of her because he didn’t know how she felt. Very obviously, he loves talking to her and spending time with her. Very obviously, he values her opinion of him. He just didn’t want other people implying things about their friendship, specifically because it’s so important to him. If it wasn’t important to him, he wouldn’t have kept writing her. He wouldn’t have followed her out if that ball and tried to figure out what was wrong. He wouldn’t have sought her out in her garden, listened to her explanation, and offered to help despite the risk to their reputations. And he wouldn’t have smiled so bashfully when she complimented his writing.

And when he realizes he’s in love with her he gives her the choice. He risks being so fully vulnerable, kneels in front of her and says, “I need you, I crave you, this is torture but I want it cause it’s you, do you want me?” And he’s fully ready to back off when he thinks she’s rejecting him. That’s respect.

Friends to lovers isn’t friends to lovers if they’re punishing each other over mistakes or lack of communication.

Friends to lovers is only good when there’s inherent love and trust and a desire to understand, support, and forgive each other pulling people together. Not despite themselves. If you want love despite themselves watch S2. Friends to lovers is love because they’ll do whatever is necessary to keep it good. Because of themselves. Because they value and love each other enough to keep trying.

That’s friendship bitch 😜. And I love theirs.

#pen’s silly little rabbit 🥰