If You're An Artist:

if you're an artist:

imagine your f/o running a hand up your back every now and then to remind you to sit up straight at your desk.

happy juneteenth to all black selfshippers ୧⃛(๑⃙⃘◡̈๑⃙⃘)୨⃛

remember that your f/o loves you and your skin and hair just the way they are !! whether you choose to wear a wig, whatever protective hairstyle you do or do not decide to wear, whether you’re light-skin or dark-skin, your f/o couldn’t love you more! they think you look beautiful in your silk cap or durag 🩵

they wouldn’t love you more if you were lighter, nor do they wish you were! they think you’re divine the way you are 🩵

they wouldn’t love you more with straight hair! they love your natural hair texture no matter what it is! they love to help you with your hair care, if you’d like, and help you figure out whatever keeps your hair moisturised and healthy 🩵

they would learn about your specific culture in any way they could and engage with it in every way you’d like them to.

they love you so much!!!!

to my fellow selfshippers who are hypersexual:

your f/o is not mad at you. whether you're hypersexual because of a disorder, or trauma, or any other reason, your f/o is not and will never hate you for it.

they'd always do their best to help and comfort you, to keep you grounded when you're struggling. they know you so well and want to take care of you in any way they can.

they want to listen to you talk without taboo about how youre feeling and would never judge you for your libido.

You HAVE to imagine your f/os being little dorks about asking you out. you have to imagine them sliding you a stick figure doodle of you that says 'you're pretty'. you HAVE to imagine them passing you a paper like a school boy to ask you to get dinner with them. just trust me

lrb i did the template yay (template by @kits-ships) :3 :3 :3 playing wif my touys

HEY!!! Think about your f/o with a pet! be that a traditional one or more exotic one, just think about catching them with your (or their) pet.

maybe they're asleep on the couch with your cat, bunny, guinea pig or dog on their chest. cradling the soft bundle of fur in their hands and smiling down at them so lovingly...

maybe they're idly holding your snake or lizard, or letting them move over their shoulders while they casually read a book or draw.

maybe they're teaching your bird tricks and taking them on walks!! making sure they get exercise and proper enrichment!

whatever it is, they'd learn everything about your pet to take care of it properly ♡