Happy Juneteenth To All Black Selfshippers ()

happy juneteenth to all black selfshippers ୧⃛(๑⃙⃘◡̈๑⃙⃘)୨⃛

remember that your f/o loves you and your skin and hair just the way they are !! whether you choose to wear a wig, whatever protective hairstyle you do or do not decide to wear, whether you’re light-skin or dark-skin, your f/o couldn’t love you more! they think you look beautiful in your silk cap or durag 🩵

they wouldn’t love you more if you were lighter, nor do they wish you were! they think you’re divine the way you are 🩵

they wouldn’t love you more with straight hair! they love your natural hair texture no matter what it is! they love to help you with your hair care, if you’d like, and help you figure out whatever keeps your hair moisturised and healthy 🩵

they would learn about your specific culture in any way they could and engage with it in every way you’d like them to.

they love you so much!!!!

lrb i did the template yay (template by @kits-ships) :3 :3 :3 playing wif my touys

if you're an artist:

imagine your f/o running a hand up your back every now and then to remind you to sit up straight at your desk.

btw ur f/os just told me they want to dip you low n kiss u so sweetly. whatever

hey black selfshippers. remember that your f/o loves you and wouldn't change anything about you for the world ♡. they would not love you more if you were lighter-skinned, they would not love you more if your hair was 'easier' or 'more convenient' because your natural hair texture and its needs are not an inconvenience to them. they couldn't love you more because you're already their everything ♡

sphynx + calico for the secret f/o teehee <3

I ACCIDENTALLY DELETED MY REBLOG anyway

Sphynx: Who prefers wearing sweaters the most? Neither, both? Do either of you knit? Would you ever wear matching sweaters?

i prefer to wear and make the sweaters :3 he's more of a shirtless or compression shirt guy but i think i could put him in a sweater like a cat. he doesn't knit but i probably can get him into matching sweaters with me

Calico:Do you consider yourself lucky that you met your f/o? Do they consider themselves lucky that they met you? Why?

yes :3 hes my little wife :3 and i HOPE HE CONSIDERS HIMSELF LUCKY. he better. little shit