I Know This Is Technically A Positivity Blog But Today I Am Full Of Hate. Reblog To Bite An Exclusionist.

I know this is technically a positivity blog but today I am full of hate. reblog to bite an exclusionist.

From a queer elder…

Being queer isn’t supposed to be palatable to non-queers.

We don’t tick little squares on a checklist of “queer enough”, we obliterate the checklist.

We defy societal norms that say our bodies, families or relationships have to look a certain way.

Queer is the insult we took away from oppressors. We’re here, we’re queer, get used to it.

The people who hate us will hate us regardless of how palatable we make ourselves.

Stop licking fascist boots by policing queers who are queer in different ways than you.

Oh, someone is bi/pan trans lesbian with he/him pronouns? So what! They’re welcome on the rainbow. Their identity doesn’t have to make sense to you, it has to make sense to them.

Our identities don’t make sense to non-queers. They see us as unnatural and disgusting, so why are you turning around and crapping that same garbage out at your own community??

Once you drive the visible queers underground, the same people who hate us all will target you next. Nobody will defend you because you drove away everybody who would have.

Enough already!

— sincerely, an old queer.

STOP. moment of gratitude for those precious times of breathing from your nostrils when you don't have a stuffy nose

Queer people are expected to leap out of the closet fully realized.

But closets are full of clothes.

It’s okay to try on outfits, mix and match, revisit old outfits and add new ones. Whatever feels right to you at the time is who you are at the time.

So it’s okay if the outfit you chose first is the one, and it’s also okay if you try out many or change it as time goes by.

There’s no wrong way to be queer and there’s no rule saying you can’t explore your queerness.

Don’t listen to anybody who tries to dictate otherwise to you.

Explore, discover, and embrace YOU.

no you guys don’t get it; it’s so bad on tiktok. everyone on there is so insistent that foxface purposefully killed herself with the berries solely based off the two second clip in the movie (which wasn’t even identifying edible plants it was literally just matching).

like…… the whole point with foxface from the beginning was not to overestimate your competitors. when she talks about cato and foxface in the same passage she explicitly states that it’s just as dangerous to overestimate who you’re facing. in that she was thinking about how she might be overestimating cato’s intelligence, but then foxface goes and does the same with peeta. katniss constantly talked about how smart she was. she had made it to the final four solely off of taking from others just to keep herself alive. she had been doing it the entire games, but she trusted that peeta knew the berries he was grabbing. she probably didn’t even check to see what they looked like, because let’s be real. district five’s industry was ELECTRICITY. do you really think someone from the power district knows anything about edible plants? she saw the berries with the cheese and took some to fuel herself. because she assumed katniss and peeta were literally about to eat them. why on earth would she kill herself when she was three people away from winning? and if she knew they were poisonous and assumed katniss and peeta were about to eat them, she would’ve been final two. she could’ve waited for them to eat the berries, take katniss’s bow and arrows, and she would’ve had at least a fighting chance against cato. not to mention all the other districts HATE THE CAREERS. if she knew they were poisonous, decided to kill herself, and assumed katniss and peeta were going to eat them, that would’ve left cato as victor. there was no one else. she did not know they were poisonous. she overestimated peeta’s intelligence. it’s saying being stupid is dangerous for everyone.

One of the reasons I am so adamant that bodily autonomy extends to children is because I am so upset about the fact that bodily autonomy for children relies on their parents only - that the child ultimately doesn't matter, only that the comfort of the parents does. It endangers so many kids, and I wasn't exempt from that...

When I was younger, my autonomy ultimately rested on my legal guardian, who was my dad. Back when I came out, he was not very accepting. He threatened me with revoking the tiny amount of autonomy I did have - threatening to cease treatment for my gender dysphoria, threatening to contact my trans-accepting school to force them to not recognize my transness, threatening my medical transition, whatever it took whenever I "acted out".

My dad and I have a better relationship, but he never should have had that power over me, I think. While I was under eighteen, I was also old enough that I shouldn't have been living in fear. And I was afraid, and I acted out more, ironically enough for him. I'm medically transitioning, I'm fine, but so many (especially trans) kids live in that same fear I did. They don't deserve that. They are human people. They shouldn't have that taken away from them, and we need to do fucking better by them.