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so I still need help lmao

My last post was getting very long so I’m making a new shorter one to consolidate info

on october 17th, my car spun out and I hit a pole on my way to work, leaving it totaled and forcing me to get a new used car, which I need help paying for and fixing up since I was already barely skirting by financially and my last car was already paid off when it was signed over to me

Payments need to start being made in december. The car was roughly $9000 but I’ve lowered my goal to account for money we got by scrapping the car and from donations received outside of GFM. I work minimum wage and am already drowning under student loan payments for a degree I regret that have skyrocketed to over $500 a month as of the start of november. In addition, the cost of my insurance has gone up so in total the car payments will put me at over $800 a month spent on JUST these three bills. THIS IS NOT FEASIBLE WHEN I MAKE $1200 A MONTH IF I’M LUCKY. THE CAR ALSO NEEDS MAINTENANCE AND NEW TIRES FOR WINTER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.

WAYS TO HELP (warning for accident photos on the gfm link):

https://www.gofundme.com/f/finch-needs-to-pay-for-their-new-car p@yp/al: finch.shininglatios@gmail.com ko-fi: galahawk (ko-fi.com/galahawk)

4465/8400 as of november 18th 2022

You were good enough for them. They were not good enough for you.

The memories that you have, they have them too. The fun you had, they had that with you too. The love you gave, they have felt it. I know it seems like you didn't mean anything to them, but that's not true. They loved you too. But… not all love is the same. Your love was strong. You gave and gave and gave. You wanted them to be happy. You worked hard for the relationship to work. You put them first. You have grown a heart so big, you kept loving them even though you didn't get the same kind of love in return. You would never give up on them, and that's beautiful. And again, they loved you too. But… their love wasn't selfless like yours. It wasn't unconditional love like yours. It wasn't powerful enough to work through difficulties. They loved you in that moment, but they never grew a heart like yours. They put themself first. They thought of their own needs before yours. Most of all, they turned blind for all the love that you gave.

Right now you feel like you didn't do enough. That you were not good enough. That if you would try hard enough working on yourself, then you could fix this. Please hear me out. YOU were the strong one, YOU were the selfless one, YOU were investing all you could, YOU saw through their flaws and loved them anyway. You weren't perfect, but your mindset was. And now you're hoping that they will come back, that they have realised they made a mistake. That if you decide to move on and not wait for that to happen, that you would then be the one giving up on the relationship. That you would give up on them. But you are not. THEY ARE THE ONE GIVING UP, not you.

You will lose a person that wasn't selfless, that wasn't strong, that wasn't investing all they could, that didn't know how to love you the way you deserve to be loved. Their love is the one with shortcomings, not yours. They are losing the person that would have sticked with them through everything, the person that was much more than what they deserved. You were good enough for them. They were not good enough for you.

sometimes u just need a witchy frog

men go to venice to suck more penice