When Is It My Turn To Sit On A Hot Lesbian Lap To Tell Them About My Day While They Grope Me Shamelessly?!

when is it my turn to sit on a hot lesbian lap to tell them about my day while they grope me shamelessly?!

butches and studs are a blessing. 

especially trans and non-binary butches and studs. you belong here. and I adore you. 

Here is a little piece of advice to the ladies of Tumblr from a girl who has seen it all:

If you find yourself stalking a guy's Tumblr, enthralled with the images he paints in your head of what he would do to you, ask yourself this before you ever hit the DM button or respond.

Would I be okay if I wasn't the only one with his attention?

Am I willing to accept that he might only be in this to get my nudes and never hear from him again?

Is this person safe and genuine?

Why am I honestly at this point? Do I seek attention, mutual attraction, or something else?

Am I taking proper precautions to ensure that I'm not only safe online but that I'll be safe with them?

What am I hoping to get from this interaction?

What are my boundaries and limits for what I am willing to do with this person? Write them down to remember what you set limits on when you're caught up in the moment.

There are a lot of really crappy guys and a lot of creeps out there, ladies. Do yourself a favor and think before you hit respond or get in his inbox.

Someone's Tumblr is the picture they paint and may not accurately reflect the kind of person they are. People have gotten really good at hiding their true identity here, where they can hide behind a username and anonymous photo.

While there are some really amazing people I have been so fortunate to meet here and people who will be in my life, ideally forever, don't get so distracted by the idea of someone that you forget about what you want and deserve.

desperately want to have a butch bend me over a desk and press against me so that i can feel the strap that's tucked into their pants :((

I think people would make much better decisions when it comes to dating if they stopped focusing on things like weddings and babies and instead focused on things like funerals and disappointment. What I mean is when I think about who I want to marry, I can’t just stop at who I want to meet at the altar. Because when you’re thinking about the person you want to spend your natural life with, that means the person who will be by your side when life is hard. When your parents die. When you lose your job. When your child is hurt. When bill can’t get paid. And when all of those painful moments come, you have to think “is this the person i want by my side? Is this the person who will be generous and giving when I’m in need? Is this the person who will find the words to soothe my aching heart? Is this the person that when I look across the room through tearful eyes, I want to, need to see their face?”

What I’m saying is when you’re thinking till death do us part, you really have to listen to the whole vow. The commitment is more than just walking down the isle. Its who you want to walk through life with.