Our Society Has This Idea That If A Woman Has Sex With Someone, She Loses Her Self-respect.

Our society has this idea that if a woman has sex with someone, she loses her self-respect.

Why is "get fucked" a word for bad things happening to you, or losing something important, or being in a shitty situation, and "fuck you" used as a way to express aggression?

Why are promiscuous women called whores but promiscuous men just being average men?

Having a high sex drive as a woman and wanting to talk about it leads people to flag me as whorish, morally bad, poor, or "rough around the edges", like I'm someone who does drugs and gets bad grades and has no self-respect. Barely even a person. Don't they understand the beauty with which sexual desire colors the world? Don't they know the excitement it gives me, the joy, and the human connection?

I want sex to be natural, positive, and part of life. To be discussed like anything else. Enough of the taboo. And enough of the stigma. It unfairly impacts women.

Sex is seen as a source of pride for men and a source of dishonor for women. That's why I like being able to discuss it in male terms: I jerk off, I got lucky last night, I wanna fuck him, I have blue balls, I wanna get laid, etc.. Words men always use to express their lust, make it obvious that sex is something they're proud of and looking forward to. But I'm just a weak, pathetic whore who's gonna drop out of school because I'm being taken advantage of by boys.

No I'm not. I'm a good student. I have a well-connected social circle of platonic friends. I take care of myself, eat right, sleep at night, and go to the gym. I do my laundry every week. I have hobbies, like playing the guitar. When I have sex, it is because I choose to, because I enjoy it, and because my lover and I have mutual respect for one another and ourselves.

Sexual tension really do be more fun than the sex itself sometimes. I said what I said 🫣

I had a break between classes and I found out that my roommate was going home for the day.

So I did my readings while masturbating my brains out and cumming four times.

(I didn't get very far in the readings....)

Passed out and when I woke up, found out I had to take a major exam I hadn't studied for. (I thought it was on wednesday!)

Whoops!

Hearing a man moan really do turn up the hoe in me 😅

i have a good take

you shouldnt feel ashamed if youre sexually sensitive nor should you feel bad if youre not sensitive enough.

nobody should feel bad about the rate they cum at bc its not a set in stone time and not something you can fully control

your body is perfect as it was, as it is, and as it will be and i think you should be celebrated and cherished for anything you have and supported in the things you choose to change. no part of your body should be mocked and that should include what you cant control.

talk with your partner\partners about it and work out with them about what satisfaction is to them and how you both can work towards it and remember that sex isnt the only way to show love but it is a way of showing love you shouldnt be afraid of doing or shamed for if you have it differently

After all this time of trying to figure out how menstruation affects my sex drive... I think there might be an overarching theme🤔