This Describes The Relationship I Have With My Mom To A Tee Unfortunately

This describes the relationship I have with my mom to a tee unfortunately

Look, with very few exceptions no one sets out with the intention of being a shitty abusive parent. A lot of shitty parents think they're doing it right. A lot of shitty parents think they're doing their best. A lot of shitty parents think that abusive shit they do is not really abusive and for the greater good of their child.

A lot of shitty parents love their kids, and would die for them, but they can still be abusive and shitty parents because they do shit they learned from their parents and don't pause a moment to think they may be doing it wrong because "I love my kid, abusive parents don't love their kids, so I can't be an Abusive Parent, not me, I'm good". A lot of shitty parents have their good moments, their good sides, and their kids can love them for it and then be doubly hurt when the good moment ends and things are shitty again.

Shitty parents are complicated people, the kids they raise are complicated people, and human relationships as a whole are a complex hot mess. There is not one right or wrong way to respond to abuse or choose how to handle the relationship to a shitty parent. No we don't wanna hear how you'd personally handle it in our shoes. You're not in our shoes. STFU.

BTW this is not some weird defense of shitty and abusive parents but for Christ's sake, this attitude that Shitty Parents - either real or fictional - are monsters out of a scary story who are contractually obliged to be shitty 100% of the time, all around, in every aspect of their lives, is actually harmful. It's untrue. It's stupid. It will lead kids of Shitty Parents to think that well, THEIR parents are not 100% evil and dastardly all the time, therefore they're not Actually Abusive, I must be exaggerating.

Shitty parents are not old school Disney villains breaking into song about how they love to do evil deeds to hurt their own children. They're people. Learn to tell the two things apart, for fuck's sake.

This is what I think of when my pookies r made of mold bc they're magic and wonderful and alive (they are stinky black mold that killed them and infected their body and I'm delusional)

by dashaplesen

I open up tumblr and immediately see girls kissing.

Life is great.

can we talk about the way she looks at dina’s lips and then pushing her down as she kisses her ?? dina is lucky in this oh my

Need to watch this movie now

Dario Argento’s 1975 giallo horror film, Profondo Rosso (or Deep Red), side by side comparison with House Beneviento’s level

I find this very interesting. Did someone in Capcom have watched this movie? And took inspirations from it?

Also….here’s a thing of a nightmare, that will definitely ring your bell:

(yes, the note containing a drawing of a girl with a knife was taken from Shadows of Rose DLC)

STOP WHY WOULD YOU DO THIS

do you think miranda plays that during her nights with mc

Margot Quan Knight: A Girl's Best Friend (2002)