HELLP IM SOBBING ON MY FLOOR

HELLP IM SOBBING ON MY FLOOR

so i haven’t been able to access tumblr so belas bday is today for me 🤩🤩

What are some donna headcannons you have??

I'm gonna assume you mean resident evil donna so that's what you get

• She is definitely possessive, no doubt about that. If you stand up while talking to her, she's interrogating you. "Where are you going? What are you doing?"

• She probably likes earl gray tea

• Very rarely does she hurt herself while working but when she does she hardly takes care of it/ doesn't notice so there's probably blood stains on her workshop table for more than one reason

• She squeaks when she gets jump scared

• When she's upset the atmosphere around her manor changes and it's very unsettling

• I think she has longer hair than some people anticipate, like shoulder blade length hair. I also think it's wavy

• She definitely has body hair and gets insecure about it until you comfort her

• She has has a library with different sections of books. Botany, herbology, victorian flower meanings, romance(she doesn't read it a whole lot bc it makes her lonely), fiction and mystery

• She's not much of a physical touch person at first due to being alone for so long but eventually she warms up to it and wants it all the time wether it be full out cuddling or resting her hand on top of yours (just don't be too extreme)

• She likes mitski.

• She's to type of person to see something she's scared of, stop in her tracks, and just walk away. "Nope, nevermind"

• I think she has a fear of heights

• Sometimes she makes little toys for angie to keep her busy or when she's having art block (not even she can escape its grasp)

• She made her dress and veil herself and made sure it was textures she could handle all the time

• I know this is probably obvious but she has Social anxiety and general anxiety and the few times when it doesn't affect her are when she's focused on making dolls/clothes

• She and angie are the quiet autism and loud adhd pair

• She prefers to keep her nails short because it interferes with her work (also she's gay)

Thats all I rlly have for her ty for asking 😋😋

This describes the relationship I have with my mom to a tee unfortunately

Look, with very few exceptions no one sets out with the intention of being a shitty abusive parent. A lot of shitty parents think they're doing it right. A lot of shitty parents think they're doing their best. A lot of shitty parents think that abusive shit they do is not really abusive and for the greater good of their child.

A lot of shitty parents love their kids, and would die for them, but they can still be abusive and shitty parents because they do shit they learned from their parents and don't pause a moment to think they may be doing it wrong because "I love my kid, abusive parents don't love their kids, so I can't be an Abusive Parent, not me, I'm good". A lot of shitty parents have their good moments, their good sides, and their kids can love them for it and then be doubly hurt when the good moment ends and things are shitty again.

Shitty parents are complicated people, the kids they raise are complicated people, and human relationships as a whole are a complex hot mess. There is not one right or wrong way to respond to abuse or choose how to handle the relationship to a shitty parent. No we don't wanna hear how you'd personally handle it in our shoes. You're not in our shoes. STFU.

BTW this is not some weird defense of shitty and abusive parents but for Christ's sake, this attitude that Shitty Parents - either real or fictional - are monsters out of a scary story who are contractually obliged to be shitty 100% of the time, all around, in every aspect of their lives, is actually harmful. It's untrue. It's stupid. It will lead kids of Shitty Parents to think that well, THEIR parents are not 100% evil and dastardly all the time, therefore they're not Actually Abusive, I must be exaggerating.

Shitty parents are not old school Disney villains breaking into song about how they love to do evil deeds to hurt their own children. They're people. Learn to tell the two things apart, for fuck's sake.

Yall I have a Dani playlist too lmk if you have any song recommendations 4 it

Throwing up screaming crying maliciously murdering

This is what I think of when my pookies r made of mold bc they're magic and wonderful and alive (they are stinky black mold that killed them and infected their body and I'm delusional)

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