So There Is Such Thing Asex Gay

so there is such thing as “ex gay”

people’s orientations can change

it’s fine if your orientation has never changed and never changes again

it’s fine if your orientation changes on a weekly basis, a daily basis, an hourly basis

it’s fine if you understand how your orientation changes

it’s fine if you don’t understand how your orientation changes

none of these things make your orientation any less real

there was a poorly blended Koffing+Eevee on the facebook so I fixed it and did not bother signing because I find this subpar and dosen’t deserve signing of proof I drew it.

Legit’s Character Development Worksheet

There are lots of character development worksheets out there, but in my opinion nothing that really examines a character’s growth and development, which is what I’m aiming to do with mine. You can use this to better understand your character, spot “holes” in their development, or to build a character from scratch! 

_____________________

Ancestry

What is this character’s lineage? 

Are there any genetic factors that may affect them? (Mental illness/disabilities that run in the family, magical lineage, etc.?)

What is/was their parents’ social class? 

What are their parents/caregivers like prior to their being born?

If not raised by their parents, then by whom? Are their caretakers of a different social class than the character? How are they treated as a result?

In the case of non-human characters, what is the status of their “kind” prior to their birth/construction/etc.? (E.g., are they the first generation of a new AI? Are they the first generation of vampires to live in the light?) 

Are there changing social values between prior generations and their own that may affect them?

_____________________

Circumstances at Birth

What is their parental status at birth? (Single mother, both parents, etc.)

What social class is your character born into?

What is expected of your character based on the social class that they are born into? By their parents/caregivers? By the society they live in?

How are they advantaged/disadvantaged at birth? Disability? Poverty? Etc.

Are there any circumstances surrounding their birth that may affect their early childhood? (For example, they were unwanted by their parents/caregivers, they were the long-awaited heir to a kingdom, or they were born (assigned as) a girl when the parents were hoping for a boy?)

_____________________

Childhood 

If they lose a parent/are orphaned/adopted/parents divorce, etc., at what age does this happen? a.) How does the age at which this happened affect them? Do they remember this change? Are they affected by the change?

Does their social status/class change at any point during childhood? Why?

What is their relationship with their parents/caregivers like? How do these interactions affect them in later life? (For example, a perfectionist character may have only received approval from their parents for big achievements.)

Do they have siblings or other close relationships with family members of a similar age? (Do bear in mind that early relationships with siblings can play a strong role in the way that people approach friendships in later years.)

If they have siblings, what is their birth order, and how does this affect them?

What are some of the most impactful moments from their childhood? How do these moments affect them? What do they learn from these experiences? (E.g., “authority figures aren’t to be trusted).

Was their childhood a happy one? If not, how do they see their childhood as an adult? Does this make them angry, do they try to ignore it, or have they moved on?

What are their typical social interactions like as children? Do they have a lot of friends, are they shy, etc.?

Do they exhibit expected behaviors or have difficulty conforming? (Conforming to gender roles or not, for example.)

What are their primary interests as a child?

_____________________

Adolescence

Is there a turning point that moves your characters from childhood and into a more “mature” perspective? (For example, the death of a loved one.) 

Does their social status/class change at any point during adolescence? Why?

How does their relationship with their parents develop from childhood to adolescence?

Do any major changes occur in their life during adolescence? How do these changes affect them?

In the case of MOGAI characters, at what point does your character realize they are “different” than the expected social norm? What are the circumstances surrounding that?

What is your character’s attitude toward sex and sexuality? How does their interaction with their parents/caregivers affect them?

How much independence is your character granted as an adolescent?

Does your character have more/less responsibility than the typical adolescent? In what ways? (For example, having to take care of a younger sibling.

How does their social life change (or not change) from childhood to adolescence?

How are they prepared for adulthood as an adolescent?

When in their society are they expected to become an “adult”?

How do their interests evolve from childhood to adolescence?

Is there a defining moment that transitions them from adolescence into adulthood? (Joining the military, moving out, etc.) 

_____________________

Adulthood

What is their primary attitude towards life based on their experiences in childhood and adolescence?

What kinds of events would be necessary to change these attitudes? 

Does their social status/class change as they reach adulthood, or at any point after? Why?

Are they generally independent as an adult? Why/why not?

Do they retain their relationship with their family on reaching adulthood?

Do they retain their social group from adolescence?

How/where do they meet new friends/love interests?

What is their attitude toward romance/love/family? What are their main goals regarding this as they enter adulthood?

What is their main goal as an adult? (A high-paying career, romance, family, to have fun, to survive, etc.) 

How do their goals change over time? As they meet old goals and set new ones?

How do their interests mature from adolescence to adulthood? (For example, an interest in writing as a teen may lead them to a career in publishing.)

_____________________

Older Age

Do they accomplish their goals as set out in earlier adulthood? How do they feel if these goals are not met?

As they approach older age, what is their social class?

Do they build a family in their adulthood? What is this family like?

If they become a parent, how is their relationship with their children affected by the relationship they had with their own parents?

What do they want to “leave behind” in the world?

Do they become a mentor/teacher to others?

As they grow older, how do they feel about the concepts of aging? Weakening? Death?

Think outside the box as you answer these. Remember that if you bend and stretch them enough, these questions can fit into virtually any world. 

yush

Why Fictionkin Need to STOP

Hi.  I’m a transgendered, asexual black boy.  I’m a tad bitter.

Why?  Because of fictionkin.

People of Color such as myself have been ridiculed by several different cultures for decades.  We’ve been forced into slavery and segregated.  Genderqueer people have fought to be recognized by their preferred pronouns.  Gay, bi, asexual, etc have suffered for the way they love.

That is why it makes me upset that fictionkin are a thing.

Otherkin?  I don’t mind them!  It has religious reasons–reincarnation, past lives, etc.  If you think you have the soul of a wolf, go for it.  Your identity is unique and special.  Have fun.

But it drives me ABSOLUTELY MAD to see fictionkin for reasons like this:

1. “PLEASE USE GEM/GEMSELF PRONOUNS!  IM KIN WITH PERIDOT FROM STEVEN UNIVERSE.”

2.  "well… im kin with percy jackson and my favorite color is orange.  so that means his favorite color is orange too : ) “

3.  *sees fanart of a character from a tv show/book/movie/anything* "THANKS FOR DRAWING ME!  X3333”

4.  I swear to the gods I have seen some fictionkin CLAIM FANART AS THEIR OWN BECAUSE “its of me and was drawn w/o permission”

5.  Fictionkin are childish.  They want to be speshial lil snowflakes uwu.  You’re not a fictional character.  Get over yourself.  You have no life, I get it; you’ll never be as cool as that anime character that you claim to have the soul of.  Do something with your life!  Make yourself special! Do something spectacular and change the world rather than whining about your tigerself pronouns!

6.  Fiction means fake.  FICTIONAL LITERALLY MEANS FAKE.  FANTASY.  NOT REAL.  

7.  You’re just looking to be hated.  You’re looking to be discriminated against.  Stop it.

It’s not fun.  It’s not quirky.  It’s annoying and childish.  Do something important for once, would you?  Thanks.

it’s genetic you buttswaffer

http://www.popsci.com/science/article/2013-06/fyi-are-people-born-tolerance-spicy-food

http://blogs.scientificamerican.com/anthropology-in-practice/why-do-some-like-it-hot/

well obviously all those non whites know it’s genetic. that, I supposed it’s scientiflcy proven some races can handle spicy food better than others.

which reminds me, didn’t some people used to think some races processed pain differenty? that they had a higher tolerance, or perhaps they were to primitive, making it like when some ask “can a clam feel pain?”

do some races feed their babies super hot food? do they give their children spicy food if they need yucky medication, while white people use sugar?

and what about the rare white person who does like hot food? are you going to call it cultural appropriation?

for a website that has people say shit like “PSTD from past lives as a cartoon character is valid” you all should know better

also

http://www.news.cornell.edu/stories/1998/03/food-bacteria-spice-survey-shows-why-some-cultures-it-hot