How My Qprs Going:

How my qprs going:

[for context their allo/demi]

My take, from experience trying to convey it to others:

Crush = I want a romantic relationship with that

Squish = I want strong emotional connection with that

Basically, a crush is wanting romance with someone and a squish is wanting platonic closeness with someone (qpr, or “just” unlabelled super close friends)

...Honestly, yeah, you're right, that might be the best way of summing it up, thank you very much for that!

people act like it’s a flaw that qprs are difficult to define and confusing to allos as if that’s not half the fun! y’know those memes that are like “are you a boy or a girl?” followed by “no” / “yes”??? qprs are that energy but for relationships and for some reason we’ve still got folks trying to pretend that’s not nifty as fuck

Update of this shit storm:

I’ve decided to end thing with my qpp, I’m uncomfortable with them waiting out for a chance my feelings will change

and also the fact that they can’t move when they’re hoping I’ll change

So yay! Tbh I think this whole experience has showed me that I’m much more aromantic then I previously thought

Because the stress of being in a relationship, even a qpr has been weighing on me significantly so yeah, I’ll keep y’all updated on this fucking mess

Just found out my qpp has been waiting to see if I’d eventually develop feelings for them.

Our entire qpr. They’ve been holding out on a chance that I’d change.

It’s not on them at all. I just feel like a cunt that lead them on now fuckkkkk

I don’t know what to do

An aro meme for myself

Just found out my qpp has been waiting to see if I’d eventually develop feelings for them.

Our entire qpr. They’ve been holding out on a chance that I’d change.

It’s not on them at all. I just feel like a cunt that lead them on now fuckkkkk

I don’t know what to do