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Pride flags. Second edition ! (I have one flag left, and it's missing me off) (please suggest more so i can live in peace)
Sick of my aroace identity being ignored by my friends because I’m in a romantic leaning qpr
Like yes I am aware that they have romantic feelings for me but I do not have those feelings for them
Like I feel strongly towards them and I’m committed to them but I do not feel romantic or sexual attraction to them at all
The only person who doesn’t question my identity is ironically enough my partner who knows I do not have these feelings towards them and has said that if these feelings change they change and if they don’t they don’t like????
I’m aroace this is the label I use like?? Can we not erase aroace identities because someone is in a romantic looking relationship
[check out the gofundme on my pinned post!]
Howdy howdy!
welcome to my blog:
I’m a disabled aroace wheelchair user and I am full of bad ideas and artistic mistakes
I DRAW / I DOODLE ARTISTIC FAULTS:
Furry art (nsfw / sfw)
Mermaids are my specialty!
Cute / neon art
I draw fantasy characters
I will draw NSFW / SFW commissions depending on how graphic will effect pricing
PRICING FOR COMMISSIONS!:
Flat sketch: £15
Base coloured sketch: £25
Coloured piece: £35
Half piece: £45
Full piece: £65
The money I get is to pay my rent and save up for a new wheelchair (I broke mine, do not ask how)
Bruh I had my dietitian appointment that I’ve been waiting 6 months for just to get told to go back to the gp bc it’s “not a food issue”
YEAH NO SHIT LADY
Literally everything I eat makes me feel sick / throw up and or other really fun bodily functions that I don’t want to even think about
I had to fill out so many forms of invasive and incredibly personal information about my body and the reactions it had, for this lady to NOT EVEN LOOK AT THEM
She saw I filled out the food diary (everything I ate made me sick / ill / uncomfortable) but told me that I will still getting the nutrients I need despite it making me so sick so I should continue doing that
The only reason that food log was filled out our properly was because I was told to, otherwise it wouldn’t be
She said that because I have nice skin (I have hEDS my skin will always look a certain way because of this condition) and the fact that I’m not malnourished (and am not underweight) that there’s nothing wrong with me
So great. I’m back to the start, triggered (she told me my weight even after I asked her not to) and told me she sees sicker people then me and therefore it’s not a food issue and I’m fine.
So yay. I’m completely fucked.
If anyone has any advice or suggestions I would love to hear them because I’m desperate at this point.
Ace mermaid!!
DM for commission requests!
[im so new at this it’s painful — money goes towards my new wheelchair and rent]
AroAce mermaid! — one of my favourite pieces!
Commissions are open! [so new at this it’s like trying to do a wheelie on ice — money goes towards a new wheelchair and rent]
Ngl just putting this online makes me feel like shit but I need the help:
Any donations help me so much it’s actually ridiculous, I also draw digital art and have commissions open in my DMs!
Again this suck ass that I have to turn to strangers for help but here I am because I’m desperate :)
[share around my page and gofundme if you want reposts are appreciated]
While I mainly draw mermaids I I do dabble in other aspects of artistic license!
[me and my partner as Frieren and Himmel from the Fieren anime!
How my qprs going:
[for context their allo/demi]
Just found out my qpp has been waiting to see if I’d eventually develop feelings for them.
Our entire qpr. They’ve been holding out on a chance that I’d change.
It’s not on them at all. I just feel like a cunt that lead them on now fuckkkkk
I don’t know what to do
Update of this shit storm:
I’ve decided to end thing with my qpp, I’m uncomfortable with them waiting out for a chance my feelings will change
and also the fact that they can’t move when they’re hoping I’ll change
So yay! Tbh I think this whole experience has showed me that I’m much more aromantic then I previously thought
Because the stress of being in a relationship, even a qpr has been weighing on me significantly so yeah, I’ll keep y’all updated on this fucking mess
Just found out my qpp has been waiting to see if I’d eventually develop feelings for them.
Our entire qpr. They’ve been holding out on a chance that I’d change.
It’s not on them at all. I just feel like a cunt that lead them on now fuckkkkk
I don’t know what to do
Be officially ended things.
It went as well as expected ig
Definitely broke their heart though
Just found out my qpp has been waiting to see if I’d eventually develop feelings for them.
Our entire qpr. They’ve been holding out on a chance that I’d change.
It’s not on them at all. I just feel like a cunt that lead them on now fuckkkkk
I don’t know what to do
would anyone else play that “fuck, marry, kill” or “kiss, marry, kill” game when they were younger and just feel so… odd? it was so easy for everyone else to decide who they’d want to fuck, kiss, or marry, and meanwhile you’re just sitting there wanting to say none of them! no one at all! leave me be!
and then you get older and it finally clicks why.
Someone teach this man about Asexuality it would change his life
LITERALLY i told a coworker that dating just isn’t something i’m interested in (she didn’t know that i’m aroace) and she was like “that doesn’t make sense. don’t you get lonely?” and i was like BITCH
“i support aros!!” you can’t even handle alloromantic people saying they’re happy single
First thing that came into my mind before looking at the tags:
Lmao does everyone know izuku's aromantic exept himself?
Deku giving himself a mid-fight pep talk: If I die now, I'll never get to meet my soulmate!
Dynamight as he shoots an explosion over his shoulder, covering Deku’s back: Ever think that maybe you just don’t have one, shitty nerd?
Cellophane looks around wildly: Who’s gonna tell him?
Chargebolt exasperatedly: Which one!?
10/15/2024
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Today I went to Walmart with my mom to get some groceries, and while we were in the bakery section, I saw some really pretty flowers. Roses, sunflowers, I think a couple of lilacs.. Just beautiful ones.
I know I'm aromantic, but I really wish a boy bought me a bouquet of flowers to make me feel special. I wished they kissed me on the cheek too while they were at it.
Why can't I get that kind of love without something coming in and fucking it up?
god I hate being single....
Rather frequently I find myself asking "Will I maybe ever have kids?" And the vast majority of the time the answer is, "No, it's just not suited to me." But every so often I'll get the vague image of an idyllic family picnic in my head and be like "I guess possibly maybe."
Except whenever I ponder this I just completely overlook the Aromantic part of everything I have going on. Like Mr. Husband Guy is just a concept who will surely pop into existence like an unlockable NPC once I accept the "I guess have kids?" quest. He has the same level of detail as Sam Supernatural's blurry out-of-focus epilogue wife and is a tulpa of sorts who will materialize in order to smile in a polo shirt and perhaps say "atta boy champ!" to a son at a baseball game. As husbands are wont to do.
And then I go "well I'm 28 and tbh it's not even that weird to have kids in your mid-30s. I've got time." and then peacefully shut the book on the thought because 7 years is plenty enough time to learn husband homunculus magic.
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