I Think About This All The Time

I think about this all the time

peter pettigrew headcanons because he was relevant

his favourite colour was orange

had a lot of orange hats, scarves, coats, gloves - because his friends knew that colour and they ran with it for ten years

big denim guy

always points out that denim would stop a zombie from biting you and everyone groans in unison

geology nerd

he wasn't the kindest marauder, but he was the nicest. said hello and thank you and please to everyone he met, always smiled and called his friends' parents "sir" and "ma'am"

had pollen allergies

he had a few jokes he keeps circling back to, because he knows they'll get laughs and he's quite insecure about his sense of humour (as you would be, hanging out with the marauders)

studied his arse off for the OWLs and got mostly E's, and two A's.

grew a beard after school

remus hated it and begged him to shave it off (he did)

his dad did believe in pretty traditional masculine values, so he was raised pretty harsh

never went without in terms of material stuff

was incredibly disappointed that he was a rat

he thinks crocheting is just a copy of knitting and will yell about it if you get him drunk enough

he knitted stuff in first and second year before his dad found out and stopped him from doing it

half-blood, his dad was a muggle and his mum a half-blood witch

in his later hogwarts years he genuinely thought he was being brave for joining the Order, but he was just joining because everyone else was doing it

i keep seeing misinformation about this, so: queerplatonic relationships do not have a set definition. the name comes from the idea that it's "queering" the platonic relationship, tailoring it to the individual relationships' own desires. it isn't necessarily romance lite, but it also isn't necessarily whatever definition you want to impose on it. the point of queering the platonic relationship is to break away from strict allonormative views on friendship, romance, and sex, not to make a new categorical box to fit in.

the answer to "what is a qpr?" is "whatever you want it to be." sometimes that is romance lite. sometimes it's a deeply committed friendship. sometimes it's friends who have a sexual relationship. sometimes it's based on an entirely different mode of attraction. sometimes it's fluid and impossible to put into words. it's whatever you want it to be. it's queer.

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