I Hope It All Works Out For You!

I hope it all works out for you!

I hope you find answers to all your trouble and your workflow gets smoother!

I hope you find cheatsheets to help you and manage to write notes that helps you remember!

bitch java is so fucking annoying why does the S in String need to be capitalized but the i in int has to be in lowercase??? why do you need to import a whole ass module just to take an input from the user??? why are all the commands so fucking long and hard to remember??? JUST DIE

Honestly? Write Hank about this.

Like. I promise you, he WILL care

The fact that that scishow hrt video kind of quips outright about no one on the writing team taking feminizing hormones is what baffles me like was that not embarrassing to say? I feel like if a big science youtube channel made a video about a more general health topic and half way through implied that there were no women on the writing team you'd be like. "okay why are you joking about that. That kind of calls into question the accuracy of the information you're presenting and also the kind of workplace that is going on behind the scenes". But when it's specially about trans stuff they can just be like yeah we didn't speak to any trans women about that first part lol.

"If voting changed anything they wouldn't let people do it-" grabs your face THEY DIDN'T JUST "LET" PEOPLE DO IT, MOST PEOPLE COULDN'T VOTE FOR HUNDREDS OF YEARS. PEOPLE OF COLOR ONLY GOT THE FULL RIGHT TO VOTE 50 YEARS AGO IN THE US, THATS BARELY A GENERATION.

IF IT DIDNT MATTER AT ALL WHY WOULD THEY SPEND SO MUCH TIME GERRYMANDERING THE SHIT OUT OF EVERYWHERE?? WHY CAN'T FELONS VOTE?? WHY CANT PUERTO RICO VOTE? WHY DO THEY KEEP SWITCHING DATES AND LAWS AND TIMES AND WHATEVER THEY POSSIBLY CAN TO STOP PEOPLE FROM VOTING?? WHY DO THEY MAKE EFFORT AT ALL??

BEING DISILLUSIONED IS A REASONABLE RESPONSE. BUT PEOPLE FOUGHT AND DIED AND ARE STILL FUCKING DYING FOR THAT RIGHT, DONT SPIT IN THEIR FACE.

Burnout should... not be a thing that happens to you very often :s I hope you meant it more as "When I am busy" otherwise you may want to avoid to limit whatever gives you burnout if possible :s I hope I do not sound preachy. I say it because I am worrying because you seem nice, not because I want to dictate to you how to be, or pretend I know your life and situation. I DO like a mid day nap around 12 if I can get away with it. I will sleep under my desk if need be. But they are usually 30 min or so Means I am way more productive the last half of the day

Do any other autistics nap like...a lot?? On the weekends, I can easily nap 4+ hours and then still go to bed on time.

When I'm in burnout, I sometimes can nap repeatedly and then go to bed on-time.

Jealousy is like pain.

When you or your friends feel pain, you do 2 things.

1. You deal with the pain here and now. Taking painkillers for example.

2: You try to figure out why there is pain. Did your turn around wrong? Did you touch something sharp?

Do the exact same for jealousy

1: Treat it here and now. Tell your partners and when told, tell them they are loved, that they are safe. Hug them, comfort them.

2: Try to figure out why you are jealous. Are you afraid of getting left behind? Are you scared of loosing control over your partner?

Once you have an idea, you and your partners can take the time to reassure those fears. Having a rule about writing a message at certain times when going on a date with someone else. Having as many date nights with you as with anyone else.

But most importantly. TALKING about your jealousy with your partners.

Because that makes it slowly go away.

In monogamous OR polygamous relationships.

You can write object oriented in C, functional in Java. Mono-paradime is bad.

The real world is complex, and picking 1 solution to everything means picking a bad solution.

Right tool for the right job.

"So you know how C is procedural, Haskell is functional, and Java is object-oriented? You may ask: 'what about Python?'

Well, Python is bullshit-oriented."

My friend, teaching me Python.