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This Makes So Much Sense.

This makes so much sense.

Let me be dramatic for a second here and say that if hypothetically, you, a human, are a bit insecure while growing up, and you suddenly establish a friendly attachment to another person. One that makes you feel safe. When that person then also becomes romantically involved with another person, for you, this new attachment of theirs brings up feelings of abandonment and insecurity.

Now, in this dynamic between the two of you, you yourself don't mind venturing off from this special person to join other friends because that doesn't threaten your bond with this angelic person. You know how long the thether is allowed to be before you need it to snap back again. But when your special person, your angel, ventures off, and not just with friends but with this lover of theirs...well, now that makes you very afraid.

That lover could become more special to your angel person than you. So you seek closeness within this duo. You seek to remain near them in order to be the one to, once again, venture off on your own accord. So in this way you hold the reigns, contol. You're lucky because your special person is very understanding and caring and knows your insecurities even better than you do. They are used to accommodate for your 'irrational' behavior, and they accept your humanity. Their lover, however, while he holds you in their heart like a friend, is less forgiving and understanding. They are only human, after all, and they want this angel to themselves. Not because they are mean or anything, just because this lover needs his space and privacy in order to feel his own sense of safety and control.

Your angel is truly the glue that holds this dynamic together. They accommodate both parties and even have room for their own feelings. This angelic person is no masochist, no weakling. They just care a lot for the people in their life and gives them a lot of space.

So, why should we fault our hypothetical 'someone' just for being insecure? Why should we fault the lover for being human? Why should we fault the angel for being selfless?

Is it because we recognize and hate these traits in ourselves? To be insecure. To be selfish. To be selfless.

People should really deal with their own selves before judging other's for living their own, in this hypothetical instance, lmao 😃, very public lives. Let them keep the particular dynamics of their relationship shrouded in the privacy they deserve because picking it apart from a distance only makes us look like judgemental pricks. šŸ™‚

I hope you have a great day.

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7 months ago

I LOOOVVVEEE THIS! Jikook is my kind of petty! So…I believe it’s safe to say that Jimin and Jungkook are crushing ā€œthe cult’sā€ fantasies, one revelation…one boyfriend shot…one picture at a time!!!

Sorry But HOLY SHIT.

Sorry but HOLY SHIT.

I'm?????? At loss for words.

This is the gayest shit I've ever seen.

AAAAAAAAAAAH.

Park Jimin is devious, he is sneaky, he wants everybody to know JK is HIS and Jungkook just sat or lied there letting him writing his own name ON HIS CHEST and also let him take a picture of his creation while Jungkook smiled like a..a..proud boyfriend? Idk. HIS SMILE???? LIKE HE'S HAPPY HE JUST GOD CLAIMED BY HIS MAN

ALL OF THIS IN FRONT OF STAFF AND TAE.

This is??? I'm baffled.

Sorry But HOLY SHIT.

You can't defend them. You can't. Who agrees to have someone else's name written on their chest? If they are not a couple? NO ONE. IT JUST DOESN'T HAPPEN. I REPEAT THIS SHIT DOESN'T HAPPEN IN REAL LIFE THIS IS NOT A THING

Jimin made sure everybody knew JK his HIS. He claimed his boyfriend as property of The Park Jimin but WE KNEW THAT.

The fact he thought funny to just do it again for good measure AND TAKE A PICTURE FOR HIS PERSONAL ARCHIVE TO REMEMBER. Jimin looking at the picture month later and telling himself "Oh yeah, I took a picture of MY MAN on the boat my little Jungkookie is MINE AND MINE ONLY" while looking at it fondly and a little devilish.

This is surreal.

This is the type of shit that couldn't have been predicted.

IT FEELS REALLY SEXUAL TOO. IDK??? LIKE??

I'm losing my goddamn mind.

Sorry But HOLY SHIT.

Sorry But HOLY SHIT.

Guys guys we have come to this type of insane stuff OK. ok.

This is fine. This is perfectly fine. Let me breathe.

I'M NOT OK???

God couples are so annoying and insufferable.

We get it guys you're really in love in a kinky way. We. get. it.

Sorry But HOLY SHIT.

Do they know some people are single?? Do they not care? No those two lovebirds are too occupied being completely obsessed with each other of course 😐

They are completely insane, those two.

I'M SO DONE. BYE.


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