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Let me be dramatic for a second here and say that if hypothetically, you, a human, are a bit insecure while growing up, and you suddenly establish a friendly attachment to another person. One that makes you feel safe. When that person then also becomes romantically involved with another person, for you, this new attachment of theirs brings up feelings of abandonment and insecurity.

Now, in this dynamic between the two of you, you yourself don't mind venturing off from this special person to join other friends because that doesn't threaten your bond with this angelic person. You know how long the thether is allowed to be before you need it to snap back again. But when your special person, your angel, ventures off, and not just with friends but with this lover of theirs...well, now that makes you very afraid.

That lover could become more special to your angel person than you. So you seek closeness within this duo. You seek to remain near them in order to be the one to, once again, venture off on your own accord. So in this way you hold the reigns, contol. You're lucky because your special person is very understanding and caring and knows your insecurities even better than you do. They are used to accommodate for your 'irrational' behavior, and they accept your humanity. Their lover, however, while he holds you in their heart like a friend, is less forgiving and understanding. They are only human, after all, and they want this angel to themselves. Not because they are mean or anything, just because this lover needs his space and privacy in order to feel his own sense of safety and control.

Your angel is truly the glue that holds this dynamic together. They accommodate both parties and even have room for their own feelings. This angelic person is no masochist, no weakling. They just care a lot for the people in their life and gives them a lot of space.

So, why should we fault our hypothetical 'someone' just for being insecure? Why should we fault the lover for being human? Why should we fault the angel for being selfless?

Is it because we recognize and hate these traits in ourselves? To be insecure. To be selfish. To be selfless.

People should really deal with their own selves before judging other's for living their own, in this hypothetical instance, lmao 😃, very public lives. Let them keep the particular dynamics of their relationship shrouded in the privacy they deserve because picking it apart from a distance only makes us look like judgemental pricks. 🙂

I hope you have a great day.

This makes so much sense.

Let me be dramatic for a second here and say that if hypothetically, you, a human, are a bit insecure while growing up, and you suddenly establish a friendly attachment to another person. One that makes you feel safe. When that person then also becomes romantically involved with another person, for you, this new attachment of theirs brings up feelings of abandonment and insecurity.

Now, in this dynamic between the two of you, you yourself don't mind venturing off from this special person to join other friends because that doesn't threaten your bond with this angelic person. You know how long the thether is allowed to be before you need it to snap back again. But when your special person, your angel, ventures off, and not just with friends but with this lover of theirs...well, now that makes you very afraid.

That lover could become more special to your angel person than you. So you seek closeness within this duo. You seek to remain near them in order to be the one to, once again, venture off on your own accord. So in this way you hold the reigns, contol. You're lucky because your special person is very understanding and caring and knows your insecurities even better than you do. They are used to accommodate for your 'irrational' behavior, and they accept your humanity. Their lover, however, while he holds you in their heart like a friend, is less forgiving and understanding. They are only human, after all, and they want this angel to themselves. Not because they are mean or anything, just because this lover needs his space and privacy in order to feel his own sense of safety and control.

Your angel is truly the glue that holds this dynamic together. They accommodate both parties and even have room for their own feelings. This angelic person is no masochist, no weakling. They just care a lot for the people in their life and gives them a lot of space.

So, why should we fault our hypothetical 'someone' just for being insecure? Why should we fault the lover for being human? Why should we fault the angel for being selfless?

Is it because we recognize and hate these traits in ourselves? To be insecure. To be selfish. To be selfless.

People should really deal with their own selves before judging other's for living their own, in this hypothetical instance, lmao 😃, very public lives. Let them keep the particular dynamics of their relationship shrouded in the privacy they deserve because picking it apart from a distance only makes us look like judgemental pricks. 🙂

I hope you have a great day.