Whats The Fuss About Comship?

What’s the fuss about comship?

I have a genuine question. Like i looked up the definition of comship and if I’m correct, it’s apparently the belief that complex or toxic or illegal relationships can and should be depicted in media with the acknowledgment that they are not condoned.

So like…media is supposed to be analyzed, right? Disturbing, sad, toxic, or gross relationships between characters exist for a reason. To invoke an emotional reaction or deep discussion, or just to bring light.

Then why is it in people’s DNI lists?? Like I’m not trying to start drama or anything. I just don’t understand what the problem with finding interest in problematic media is. It SHOULD be depicted, right? That’s how we bring this stuff to light.

/genq

Things from Before the OSDDID Realization that now make heaps of sense:

Taking personality tests multiple times because even when I answered them completely honest they’d always come out different

Orientation impossible to pin down (simultaneously aroace/pansexual/lesbian/gay trans guy/queer fucking mess)

Same with gender

Conflicting opinions that somehow exist at once (I love weed/I fucking HATE all drugs and don’t want to be anywhere near them)

Frantic desire to run home and change into something totally different out of nowhere because the clothes I loved this morning are suddenly Awful

Keeps changing name every few months

If I do not journal/scrapbook/take photos of EVERY DAILY EXPERIENCE I WILL FORGET and my whole life will be a blank empty space!!!

“That’s not what you said last time I asked …”

Idk sometimes it’s my Favorite Thing and sometimes I couldn’t care less 🤷

I actually handle trauma really well because right after it happens I don’t even remember! 😇

Hate hypothetical questions because I have no clue how I’d react to any given thing until it happens and any answer feels like a lie

There’s def more but y’all should add your own 💖

sentences of all time

Pixie see yet another person on tumblr actually saying “wish could be nonverbal “ …

Pixie not understand how anybody could actually want that … unless them really not know anything about what is actually like to actually be nonverbal .

Pixie really like being Pixie and yes that include being nonverbal !

but is terribly hard frustrating *expensive* difficult *dangerous* to be actually nonverbal .

is not a joke is not a choice is not fun is not SAFE .

imagine risk being killed by police officer just because . try get AAC out of pocket to answer thems question . because *could* be reaching for gun in pocket … yes this really do happen , too much , too often …

imagine emergency happen to loved person and not be able call get help …

imagine get in money trouble that require calling bank and . it take too long find somebody willing help . so get lots money fines for be late …

imagine just nobody want be friends because . not can communicate fast enough so . people just think “ so rude for not answer “ and just walk away . before can even start a reply …

Pixie have lots more want to say but . fingers hands wrists *hurt* . and . brain exhausted . from using AAC so much today . ( was speech therapy today ) .

somebody please can make this make sense why why why people say this ???

pixie not understand people being so disgustingly ableist .

IMPORTANT

Zionist Jews remind me so much of those Christian Nationalists in America sometimes— like, using their religion to shield being literal Fascists.