Lets Be Real, That Could Cost Anywhere From 20-80 Dollars In America.

Let’s be real, that could cost anywhere from 20-80 dollars in America.

Declaring bankruptcy after buying 1 sandwich and 2 books

Idk what this is referencing but I love it

the king's pronouns? sir/sire. that's what he tells us to call him :)

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This is how we approach children (mainly toddlers) to avoid tantrums. Setting up an either/or instead of giving them the option to say no (and then have to elaborate on their own) is the number one way to have a smooth conversation where everyone feels like they win.

With toddlers it’s “do you want to eat your Carrots or your Peas first?” Obviously at the end of the day they’re eating both (probably) but more importantly it changed the conversation from “I don’t want to eat my carrots” to “I want to eat my peas first”

This is a really common parenting (& babysitting) technique most commonly called the illusion of choice (ik so original and hard to guess)

But it brings up the really interesting conversation of how many parenting techniques (especially for toddler’s) are great for adult human interactions.

TL,DR: Toddler parenting techniques are great for adult conversations too and I find that fascinating!

probably my most powerful interpersonal communication hack is to, whenever possible, ask either/or questions rather than yes/no questions

for example, when chatting with coworkers, i’ll often ask if they have any fun weekend plans. but let’s be real - we all feel like friendless losers when someone asks that question and we go “uhhhhh… no.” so instead, i phrase it as “so, do you have anything fun planned over the weekend, or are you just going to enjoy having some time to relax?”

phrased like this, there’s rarely any awkwardness. you’ve presented two options & given both equally positive connotations, so your conversational partner has an automatic “out,” so to speak

but it works for higher stakes conversations too!!!! my mom was saying this weekend how she and her neighbor both like walking around the neighborhood & that she wanted to suggest they take a walk together sometime, but was worried about how to approach the conversation

so i said “how about you just say ‘i’ve noticed we both like taking walks! would you be interested in going for one together, or do you use walks for some precious alone time?’”

now Walking Neighbor has an automatic “get out of jail free card” if she wants to say no!!!! which means my mom doesn’t have to worry about the conversation being uncomfortable, because she’s set it up to go smoothly

either/or questions rather than yes/no questions. it is really like magic

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