CW// Vent, Transphobia,

CW// Vent, transphobia,

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Me: I’m genderfluid and my pronouns are They/Them

Mom: This is my daughter she uses they/them

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My mom recently told me she sees herself as a women who uses She/They but they are NOT nonbinary they are a cis-women who “just exists.”

Thats vaild, im happy she found a comfy spot her her to exist!

However, she also sees me as a women who uses they/them (even though she pretty much only uses she/her for me)

I am not a women. I am nonbinary/genderfluid with an ever-changing and fluid presentation.

She’s typically respectful of pronouns, except for with me. With me in private she has deadnamed/misgendered people many many times.

I’ve been out to her for so long, and I understand she doesn’t fully get it, but I wish she would at least use the correct pronouns for me.

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(I love my mom so much I’m just frustrated) 

wee woo wee woo

How can I be dysphoric all day that I’m not a guy and the be dysphoric because I’m not enough of a woman? What the actual fuck brain?

That feeling when you’re not necessarily sad, but you just feel really empty.

Even when the lights in my eyes are fading remember that I love you more than anything.