Happy New Year!

Happy New Year!

𝓐𝓽𝓸𝓶 𝓑𝓸𝓶𝓫 𝓑𝓪𝓫𝔂

------------🌿Exercising Positivity🌿------------

Years are hard. Months are hard. Weeks are hard. Days are hard. Minutes to seconds are HARD.

They don't come easier by allowing yourself the falsehood that the last was just bad luck.

Difficult is difficult, no matter what we blanket that in. Difficult will always be present. Difficult will never not be a factor.

🌿It is important to practice MINDFULNESS in your Positivity. 🌿

To not let this missed step, that cold bite of food, those calls that didn't go through to be the end of you. To not let the known and very real negative of the world rule what could be better. Brighter. More positive. Even if it feels fleeting, you deserve moments of awareness it's not all as bad as that, and You can be the good of it. What feels fleeting becomes a consistent effort. A practice. A ritual, even.

• Do you tell someone their life is over for missing that step? Why do you tell you that? Breathe. Forgive yourself. We all make mistakes. Sure, sometimes they stack together, but you made it this far, and it's from struggling through the hard things to forever believe in a better good. Today is that day to do it again. And again. And again.

• Do you scream at someone who didn't like their food cold? Why are you? You deserve what makes you feel better. Try again, and remember it's sustenance, and it's yours, however you want it. Not everything is in our control. Some things we do all we needed to do to know we did it right, and it still comes back like the microwave went. It probably did. That doesn't mean you didn't try or it's your fault the technology finally went belly up. It means you tried, and the world, in its indifference, recognized your efforts and things still happened. It wasn't against you. It wasn't because of you. It wasn't because you just needed that food that one time in that one instance and NO. No, no, no. Everything has a life span. Don't spend yours blaming yourself for other things reaching their end before you reach yours. Take the opportunity to make it Better this round. Maybe add that seasoning you skipped the first time. More cheese. A cooking method that makes it a bit better with the added little effort. I know you wanted to eat ten minutes ago, but you can either dwell in ten minutes ago or make this one the best of the last ten. For you. Because you deserve that food hot and delicious and the way you like it, even if how you get there isnt always a sure thing.

• Do you punish others for a missed call? Why are you punishing yourself for it? Sometimes, people are just busy. Not too busy with you. Not too busy to care,. Just busy trying to heal and hold some of these same awarenesses in their own ways, at their own ready. Healing isn't Linear. Be that our call missed or someone's missed call of ours., reaching out to do the things you want or need to do aren't wholly reliant on availability. On work hours. On if you started the day right with a nutritious meal and a soft affirmation. It's okay others are doing them. Keep focusing on doing you so when they're ready, you aren't chomping at the bit for crumbs when you assured yourself to the whole meal discussed. You are worth attention from and to give it to those you feel hold you best. Sometimes, a call doesn't go through because there just wasn't the time someone would have really wanted to dedicate to ensure you feel complete in that time., sometimes it's because They feel unready to answer. You do not always have to call, but you do if you want to say you tried for what you wanted or needed. You do not always have to answer. Not all calls are for you, but you are the only one to assess that, no matter how often the ring., to discern if the energy being given is one that has your whole meal in its subjects or if it's crumbs. To do the work for you to know the difference when the call comes. When you slip on that step. When the microwave breaks. It's not your fault.

Regardless, you are the ONLY ONE who will do the work in you to realize it and help to ensure even what isn't in your hands, doesn't have to be atop you. Assess, Evaluate, and let that shit Go.

Seconds are hard.. not all of them.. some seconds come easy in the space of sudden awareness it's not that anythings better or worse, but could be made better and not worse by making the active consistent effort to work on seeing and trying for the good in All things. Even the hard truths. Even the indifference we want to shake a fist at and call bias. Impatient and unkind. It can be hard if we let it.

Dont let it anymore. Exercise Positivity.

Exercise your brain for healthier perspectives.

Exercise your determination to see a way through.

Exercise your soul to strengthen that drive and see the results of your effort in motion.

Exercise your right to live with Power You Control. It's very real and very capable.

Just like you. 🌿 Thank you for being here today.

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You’re going to look into my big brown eyes and tell me no? Unbelievable

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