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ok so im trying to draw every ii character that only competed in season 2 because most of them didn't get enough screen time, so here's microphone. so happy microphone time.

I was looking at different "____-culture-is" blogs and like I've been questioning my gender for a while. like I experimented with the label nonbinary for a while but that just wasn't it. and this ask describes exactly how my relationship with my gender is. down to the using she/her because its just what i always used.

Hi! So, uhm. I have a question and since we're supposed to start every ask/submission with “agender culture is” I'm not even sure if this is the right place to ask. But I also don't know where else or whom else I'm supposed to ask. So here goes nothing, I suppose. :')

I was thinking whether I'm agender, something else or just cis. (A friend of mine mentioned feeling “girly” and since then I have to think about that. But not even because it bothers me, more because I'm just... curious?)

I'm assigned female at birth and have absolutely no problem with that. If someone was to ask me what gender I am I would answer female without hesitation. It's my sex and I have, like I said, no problem with that. I don't have gender dysphoria or anything like that either. I don't wish to have another gender in any way. But at the same time I don't think I would care waking up tomorrow as a boy?

I use she/her. Those are the pronouns I'm used to. I don't have a problem with that. But I also don't think that I would care if someone would use a different set of pronouns? It would feel weird at first probably, but not because that's not me but rather because I'm not used to that? Pronouns are nothing more then words to me, if that makes sense.

I think I don't really... feel gender?

I don't feel “girly”. (How do you feel that in the first place?)

But I also don't feel boy-ish? (How am I supposed to feel that? Or to know how that would feel?)

But it's not like I feel like I'm neither. I don't feel non binary for example because, again, how do you feel that?

But at the same time I don't feel like I'm lacking gender. I don't feel like I'm missing anything. I just don't have a sense of gender, I guess. I'm just me. I don't know whether I act more like a girl, boy, both or neither. And I don't really care. My gender doesn't change who I am. It doesn't affect me. And I couldn't care less about my gender.

I'm sorry for that long-ass text. ._.

And for probably just wasting your time.

But, uh... Help? Pretty please?

You're not wasting my time, so don't worry about that. It definitely sounds like you could be agender because you said that you're just you, and you don't have to feel like you're lacking gender to be agender. I would also recommend looking into gender-neutrois (it's a very similar label to agender). I don't know if that was helpful, but I hope it was.

i was drawing airy and like. why is he shaped like that. he is built like a chess piece. it's so odd. maybe that's just me tho.

Wow I was just looking at your addition on your reblog from “agender-culture-is” and forgot to click back on that account before sending in an ask 🤦‍♀️ God that’s embarrassing. Welp. You can ignore that ask if you want lol. Or respond if you have advice. I don’t care either way lol. 😅

Wow! My first ask and it's an accident! I might respond if I think of good advice, but I'm not the best at that kind of stuff. this situation gave me a little giggle.

I really enjoy talking to grey-ace / grey-aro people because like we can bond over wanting to destroy amatonormativity but like they can tell me about a person they like and im like "good for you! :D" and then I passionately talk about this new character I found and how I would like to be their best friend and they deserve the whole world but like it's /p