2024:

2024:

Work on letting go of the guilt and shame related from situations you never had no control over;

You aren’t any more special than others, but the same applies to them, we are all equals. You’re no lesser than anyone, so remember this. If everyone is equal then you’re just as deserving of good things as everyone else is;

People are probably too busy with their lives to be judging you for the smallest details, but if they are overcritical to the point of humiliating you, they are the ones wrong, so try to avoid those types of people if you can;

Enjoy life with your loved ones. Find joy in the smallest of things;

Whenever life is hard, don’t restrict on things that bring you happiness. You need too add more of those things if it is possible. You don’t have to earn joy by working so hard. Those little happy moments build up. They allow you to take a break, and when you go back to trying to work on your issues, your mind will feel clearer, calmer. Don’t focus only on negativity when you need to remember that even though life is pushing you too hard, there are also good things out there, so you don’t give up.

Get into the habit of saying no when you need to, when you know that saying yes to certain things affects your health, when you’re already not doing well and have very low spoons;

Don’t give all you’ve got to people-please everyone;

Do the things you want to do, no matter how small, silly, or cringe. It’s not too late to have fun;

If it didn’t work out at first, please remember people get better at things by trial and error. Messing up is how you learn;

It’s not too late to dream. If you want to do something different with your life, but you don’t want to make a sudden change that could bring instability, try to take smaller steps to get there;

Give yourself grace. You’re still here and you’re still trying;

You don’t need to have it all figured out for the rest of your life;

Accept that there are things you don’t have control over;

Don’t compare yourself to others;

Reach out to people you like and who treat you well, instead of pursuing the ones who you just want to prove yourself to;

Please, eat and rest well;

Being imperfect is completely okay;

Don’t be so afraid of disappointing people that you stop living your life the way you wanted to;

Look at the clouds more often during the day. Look at the stars at night. There is beauty everywhere.

Carpe diem, everyone. Have a happy 2024 ✨🩵

Playing with Sangmen/嗓门 (“Voice”/“Windpipe”)

English added by me :)

I figured the Jolene loving site needed to see this