I Have Seen Many Times Discussion Of Double Standards Around Words Like Stud Vs Slut. Its Interesting

I have seen many times discussion of double standards around words like stud vs slut. It’s interesting that to a certain subset of people who are aware of this though, it’s reversed. “Stud” becomes associated with patriarchy and traditional masculinity, while “slut” represents female sexual liberation.

The line drawn between male sexuality, patriarchy and hegemonic masculinity is thick, and in one direction justified, but it encourages male feminists to mentally turn upon their own sexuality.

The worst part about being aroace is when it’s late at the night and the comphet is telling me that I’m betraying myself for not pursuing a sexual and romantic relationship.

I have spent the last couple years meticulously deconstructing all the preconceived notions that my friends had about me and presenting myself as the much more complex person than they had imagined, and I worry that if I ask them to use they/them for me all that effort will be lost and I’ll just be reduced to a pronoun.

i love wikipedia and i think it is good and right to give them money but all their funding drive messages are “well… we’ll be killing ourselves tonight. we asked so little of you and yet it seems that simply nobody cares about lil ol wikipedia anymore….sad…”

Mr Fell's reputation is at risk

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Oops forgot I’m spending six months not labelling my gender and trans is a label. Let’s be real though there is no way I’m cis at this point.

Maybe me finding joy in wearing womens clothing is really a manifestation of my own hegemonic masculinity where I gain a sense of power from controlling a body I perceive as feminine. Or maybe I’m just sorta trans. Idk hard to tell.

In other news leggings with a skirt rocks.