Georgia Warr

Georgia Warr

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I think a reason that I’m intent on pursuing the gender issue is a recognition that as an aroace person, I need to be able to find joy in myself to a level that many other people don’t. So many allos treat their partners as extensions of themselves that they love, so to meet that same need I’m going to have to love myself as deeply as allos love their partners. If changing my perspective on my own experience of gender will get me closer to this, then it is worth it.

The worst part about being aroace is when it’s late at the night and the comphet is telling me that I’m betraying myself for not pursuing a sexual and romantic relationship.

I have spent the last couple years meticulously deconstructing all the preconceived notions that my friends had about me and presenting myself as the much more complex person than they had imagined, and I worry that if I ask them to use they/them for me all that effort will be lost and I’ll just be reduced to a pronoun.

New style where your clothes are covered in little pieces of paper as if you left a tissue in one of your pockets when you did the washing. Call it tissue core.

I was feeling shit today and then I decided to scroll through a terf aphobic blog and now my head just feels like it’s full of cotton and I hate myself and I vaguely want to die.