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Trans activists are Very Normal about women with short hair.

I wish boobs were detachable. Because sometimes I want to look like a genderless being, other times the outfit needs boobs.

I don’t know how to explain it but as an incredibly GNC woman I hate being described masculine sometimes. Or like I’m emulating male behavior. Men don’t own short hair, comfortable clothes, natural body hair, not wearing makeup. This is womanly because I’m a woman doing these things. Existing comfortably in my natural body is not masculine or feminine

i cant empathise with religious people for real when people start talking abt jesus or muhammed they sound like flat eathers except we all just have to pretend their crazy conspiracy theories and schizophrenic ramblings are coherent for some fucking reason

Look, I know that teen identity crises happen and that there's a cultural influence here, and I *know* that internalized misogyny is hard to get through, but the sheer audacity of a woman to say "I'm nonbinary because I don't feel like a girl [ie, all the preconceived cultural notions of what a girl is like]" is sending a very clear message that that individual sees herself as fundamentally different from, if not superior to, other women who are just as complex and nonconforming as her.

like yall cannot be stupid enough to scream fuck israel all year (rightfully so) and then go happily vote for kamala and meme the fuck out of her like everybody did trump like she didn’t just get up on that debate stage and say israel has the right to blow the entire levant to smithereens, do notttttt piss me off

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I wish it was easier to talk about mobile phone addiction without sounding like a boomer

You won't remember this because you aren't a former TikTok addict like me but mid 2021 there was a trend of people editing characters who they headcanoned as trans (Mostly characters from cartoons, like Luz Noceda as genderfluid or whatever) to GIRLS by Marina.

Specially to this part that looks almost like extracted from a 12-year-old girl's diary. Yes. Unironically.

A song that is literally a SATIRE about how society calls women men for behaving a certain way. Name a least self aware demographic.

people using the I’m just a girl song for their little videos but making them short enough to crop out the part of gwen stephani yelling that’s all you’ll let me be

obsessed with all of the women in Iran and Afghanistan who are standing up for themselves knowing their lives are on the line

The website with the open secret of sex trafficking? The sex trafficking website? The site that was indifferent to the presence of very casual sex trafficking? The sex trafficking website, right?

I'm not even kissing Kamala's ass here. Just in awe of the idea that shutting down Backpage was some terrible event.

Habit shifts - List

- practical actions that can be taken to fight internalized misogyny

#1 - Stop shaving

#2 - Switch to the woman-made alternative

#3 - Sensible shoes

#4 - Embrace your period

#5 - Burn the bra

#6 - Let your inner “old spinster” shine

#7 - Look at your body

#8 - We are women

#9 - Praise the mustache

#10 - Food is not the enemy

#11 - Dump him

#12 - You too can kill god

#13 - No is a full sentence

#14 - Live make-up free

#15 - Be loud

#16 - Touch yourself

#17 - Do you need a partner?

#18 - Trim your nails

#19 - Name it.

#20 - Cultivate your strength.

#21 - Comfortable clothing.

#22 - The rules don’t matter.

#23 - Don’t apologise for existing.

#24 - Stop using porn.

#25 - Ditch the misogynistic slurs.

#26 - Stop being your own voyeur.

#27 - Learn from other women.

#28 - Don’t justify yourself.

#29 - Let yourself age.

Note that this list is permanently evolving, so you can check it periodically here to see the updates.

one of my biggest gripes currently is the amount of people who will get super mad if u point out something that sexualises women and especially things that sexualise girls. like "ew why would u even think a 10 yr old in a crop top or a 4 year old in a bikini is sexual youre such a creep for even thinking that" like ok put ur fucking son in a crop top then. send him out in public wearing tiny little panties that have his ass sticking out. why are girls clothes so much smaller and tighter and more revealing than boys clothes?

“Ecofeminism adds that patriarchy devalues women, and therefore devalues nature, because nature is seen as mother. Women and nature get trashed together. Anything patriarchy associates with women is also trashed: caring, compassion, mothering, emotions, looking after nature, valuing life over money. To survive the climate emergency, we need to know we’re part of Mother Nature. To value nature, we must honour women too, and vice versa.” — Dido Dunlop

Sorry, I don't understand how you're defining "asexuality"? 99% of the people identifying with that term now are still romantically attracted to other people. Do you think the people who are feel romantic attraction are not actually asexual?

Asexuality only makes sense as a sexual orientation if it is defined by its lack of attraction (beyond friendship, if that even needs to be said?) to both sexes. Romance and sexual attraction are not split. If the “romantic attraction” lacks the beyond-friendship (otherwise called sexual) element then it’s platonic. That’s not to say you have to *have* sex, it’s that romantic and sexual attraction involve beyond-friendship feelings that define the attraction (or lack of it) we speak of when we discuss sexual orientation. Someone who responds to both sexes with beyond-friendship feelings is bisexual, for example, not asexual?

straight transidentifing males who call themselves lesbians are predators, full stop.

the term “non binary” is completely redundant. Men and women can act and dress however they want without it needing to be some super special new identity

I cannot believe that anyone would have sensory issues so debilitating that they need to shave, but not so debilitating that they'll swipe a literal razor over their skin multiple times.

I never wanted race to define me as a radical feminist. It has never stopped me from supporting all women. But after October last year, I've seen many so-called gender critics and some "radical feminists" reveal their true colours, explicitly and blatantly racist. They pretend to care about Arab women only when Arab men harm us. But when it's white men causing harm, they stay silent. How many Iraqi women and underage girls were raped by white male soldiers in the Iraq invasion? The same happened in Vietnam and is happening to Palestinian women now. These instances are conveniently ignored because it's white men committing the atrocities.

I care about all women. All women. However, when you are being racist, focusing on us in the most discriminatory ways, I won't tolerate it. Arab women deserve respect and humanity too. We've made numerous inventions and contributions throughout history and have always been relevant. We are not just relevant when some of you want to push a certain narrative, mostly stemming from racism. Unfortunately, we face misogyny both at home and in the West. But we will not be silenced or overlooked. Arab women deserve better.

women can't even talk about our own anatomy without having to caveat every single thing we say with "i think all terfs should die btw!!!" like i find it so interesting that this was her very first thought after posting. she knew how the notes were going to eviscerate her for it so she had to beat them to it. this right here is one of the reasons i peaked. any discussion about our bodies always, inevitably, is boiled down to "bioessentialist rhetoric" despite the very valid points it's making. the fact that any discussion we want to have about female anatomy is somehow a "TERF dogwhistle" for simply talking about body parts that half the human population has. and that every conversation like this has to be prefaced with "TERFS can fuck off and DIE!!!" or else risk being ripped to shreds by the gender freaks is so telling of where liberal feminism is today.