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fyi the entire pines family is on the aroace spectrum

mabel: - cupioromantic/sexual - no romantic/sexual attraction but fantasies about it - she jumps from crush to crush because of societal expectations of young girls having crushes on boy dipper: - lithoromantic/sexual - loses romatic/sexual attraction for anyone when it's reciprocated - i mean. cmon. he crushed on wendy (totally unattainable) for a whole summer stan: - aromantic bisexual - absolutely just flirts with women because that's whats expected of older men - dont personally see him as acespec ford: - gay grayromantic/sexual - only feels romantic/sexual attraction occasionally - he fucked that research assistant and triangle - the only relationship (i won't count bill) hes had imo

some gravity falls highschool twins headcanons 😮 i kept dipper midwest emo hope thats okay

yes, i am aroace. yes, that person is hot. no, i did not mean that platonically

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i idenitify as aroallo slut (pos) not aroallo slut (neg) !! this post gets it

I really wish so much of the AlloAro positivity posts by non-AlloAros wouldn't keep saying "you aren't sluts!" as positive reassurance.

What about the AlloAros who are sluts? What about the ones that do like to have a lot of sex? Who like to have one-night-stands? Are they not worth your positivity? Are they not worth your support?

I get that a lot of AroAllos are called sluts as an insult, and for them, it may feel good to be reassured that that isn't true. But what I think would be better is to take away the negative connotations of the word slut.

While I personally don't like to use the term slut for myself, and I understand any other person who doesn't like the term, there are a lot of AroAllos who do identify themselves as sluts, or call themselves sluts. That's not a bad thing. It's not immoral or evil to be a slut. No matter the reason they use that term.

If you don't include those of us who do fit the "negative" stereotypes, you exclude all of us. I do not feel safe with a person who tries to reassure me in my identity by saying "you aren't a slut" even if I'm not and what they're saying is true to me. Because what always swings with it is a silent "but if you were..."

So that then makes me wonder, what goes "too far"? Where's the line? When am I one of the "bad ones" and left in the dust?

If you only support AroAllos based on some arbitrary standards set by your own discomfort around sex, you support none of us.

Support all AlloAros, no matter their personal stance on sex. Wether they only want to have sex in commited relationships, only in the context of explicit long-term sexual relationships, only with friends, or with strangers, or if they want a lot of one-night-stands, if they want multiple sexual or different types of relationships at the same time, multiple of those, or if they don't want sex at all, or anything else.