Everyone Go Report This Post For Suicidal Idealization Right Now So That The Police Can Find Their IP

“everyone go report this post for suicidal idealization right now so that the police can find their IP address and go to their house . you have no excuse not to reblog this and if you ignore it you are a bad person” do you actually know how messed up that wording is ?? I know you are trying to help , but you are both making people with OCD heavily uncomfortable and you could potentially be putting someone’s life at risk . some of us need to vent online because we cannot afford a therapist and we live in abusive households . our abusers would act all sad in front of the police to us dealing with suicidal thoughts , but you don’t want to know how our abusers would react once the police left . it can be heavily dangerous for both minors and even adults . the fact that we can’t even trust people online to keep us and our secrets safe due to a vent post is disheartening . don’t make our safe place into an unsafe place .

“why don’t you contact any of your irl friends or an association that can help you ?” I did . for years in a row . and you know what ? I only wasted my time and energy because a lot of people love to pretend they care , but they won’t even check in your direction when you are hanging between life or death . “just get a job to afford your own house” well , what do you think I am trying to do ? as if getting my own place will actively stop abusers anyway . even if people like me do manage to leave , a whole bunch of us is currently dealing with trauma bonding , which will most likely make us regret leaving and we may go back to our source of pain because the abuse is familiar and our brain doesn’t know what to do or who we are if we are not actively being abused . for the record , most of us are not allowed to go away in the first place .

may I mention , a lot of people will suicide bait you , so please be careful who you put your energy into . there’s people who enjoy themselves when they see you suffering for them , and they will keep the act for as long as you allow them to . if you genuinely feel that someone is lying about suicide , take care of yourself first . I am begging you .

also , tag your stuff correctly . I sometimes forget to tag triggers when reposting something , but I always check later if it’s necessary to tag anything that I might have missed . if I have missed an important tag in a post , let me know . anyway , if you wouldn’t like to accidentally get triggered , well , then don’t do something you know will trigger others on purpose just because you didn’t bother taking five seconds of your time to add a couple of hashtags . I am tired of seeing posts about suicide when I am not in the mood .

Why are the swifties not only misusing the term manic episode but also comparing taylor's garbage "I'm crazyyy 🤪" album to fall out boy's album Mania which was actually written by someone with bipolar disorder about his experiences with his actual mental illness that he has in real life. I can't do this. Don't insult pete wentz like that

First step to supporting survivors is by understanding that we all come with different reactions towards our trauma and/or abusers.

Understand that if you meet one survivor, you have only met one survivor and that we aren’t monoliths. You cannot compare one survivor to another. We’re all incredibly different.

Understand that one survivor can be incredibly complex, and have conflicting/contradicting feelings and thoughts.

Understand that brains are an incredibly complex organ that we still don’t fully understand, and that trauma and/or abuse can heavily impact our brain and who we are as people. This isn’t something that someone can just “get over,” because it has impacted the very organ we navigate every corner of our existence with.

Understand sometimes people look fondly on their most traumatic years/moments, this is normal and absolutely not indicative that the individual isn’t suffering.

Understand some survivors still love the people who traumatized them and some may be uncomfortable with you insulting the people who have hurt them. We all have different boundaries when it comes to our abusers.

Understand that survivors often swing between love and hatred, and overall have complicated feelings about their abusers.

Understand that everyone’s circumstances are different and that not every survivor can readily leave their traumatic/abusive environments. Some of us will never escape for a multitude of reasons.

Understand that some of us will never lead a “normal” life because of what happened.

Understand that you’re not going to fully ‘understand’ but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t offer your support and a listening ear. You don’t have to ‘get’ something to be compassionate towards someone who has suffered and is still suffering.

There should be an equivalent to asking "how's the wife and kids?" that's like "so how's that fictional man of yours doing?"