This Is Such A Random Thing To Struggle With But I Think Having Arfid Makes It Harder For Me To Write

this is such a random thing to struggle with but i think having arfid makes it harder for me to write scenes with food whenever i write?? like what do normal people eat... how do normal people eat..... it makes me want to just gracefully dance around the topic every time

you know as disabled people it's actually pretty scary that you can't trust your doctors. like people who have medical trauma or distrust or dislike doctors and nurses aren't doing it for fun. we need these guys to help with our lives. we need healthcare to stay alive or to stop from getting worse, or to function at all. but often when you're dismissed and not communicated with you're left floundering and often have to make decisions yourself without that specialist knowledge. sometimes doctors know less than you about your disability anyway. sometimes they're wrong and give you advice that's detrimental to what you need or want, and you kinda have to just trust that the next guy is also not wrong. i think we're pretty lucky if we can find other people with our condition who are well researched in it. but i still think that uncertainty is something that disabled people shouldn't have to navigate

As a fat person, one thing that would be awesome is if thin people could just get over it. People are fat sometimes. It's fine. Chill. We're not a problem you need to solve, we're just a bunch of people who deserve social equality.

I'm not saying you should be all "I don't see size", just that I'm tired of being met with some form of "but I can't just let you be this way". Yes, you can! I can be fat all day and you can just not worry about it! Look at us go!

fat people don’t have to be attractive either to deserve basic love and respect

'universal trans experience' and it's only applicable to perisex alloromantic allosexual middle class thin abled white americans

Literally nothing worse than having ARFID and being sick