Yeah Honestly We're All Over The Place Most Of The Time Too. I Deadass Thought I Was A Singlet For An

Yeah honestly we're all over the place most of the time too. I deadass thought I was a singlet for an uncomfortably lengthy amount of time, because being pluralflux sucks™️/hj

It's even worse (/lh) considering we are rarely anything more than a median system, all of our fronts are co-conscious cuz I'm ALWAYS HERE, and I constantly have imposter syndrome because none of us can seem to communicate with each other lmfao

-Mephiles

something thats been helping us a lot recently has been letting alters just exist. i see a lot of systems who have strict roles and distinct alters, and it can be stressful to see that be the “norm” when our system isnt like that.

we’ve tried forcing individuality, but it only let to more dormancy. we tried figuring out everyones role, but there are too many alters who front just to do very specific things.

now, we are just letting ourselves exist as we are and communicating is way easier. we dont lose so much time anymore. i can remember a lot more (even if i still have emotional detachment).

i guess im just saying that as a system, do what helps you.

tracking fronts? go for it. assigning roles? pop off. making picrews and profiles for every person? thats so awesome.

if you can’t do any of that? you aren’t less of a system.

Aaaa I want to that person for some random kid one day, too jedbjdb

i work at what's essentially a day camp.

a child came out of the closet to me today. he said he's aroace like me. I saw the smile arc across his face when he heard me get excited at what he said. he's not a shy boy, but he's soft spoken and doesn't really hang out with many of the other kids. but he's gotten comfortable with me. and when he whispered in my ear today that he's known he's queer and aroace for two years, it made me happy to be the adult that he could rely on. I'm becoming the queer adult that little queer me needed. it's healing. and its making sure that the damage is never done to him in the first place.

protect queer children.

Extremely dangerous how "grooming" in the context of child sexual abuse went from being a very specific pattern of isolation and trust-building with the aim of abusing someone to "telling children anything that contradicts their parents' ultra-conservative worldview is grooming" to "selling rainbow flags in a store is grooming" to "literally anyone I don't like is a groomer".

These days the word seems to most often be used by people who don't care about what it actually means and just want an easy "this person is irredeemably evil, kill them now" button.

I'm a mean lesboy personally. :)<-unintentionally ominous smiley lmfao

mean & nice lesboy flags!!

meanings:

original darker shaded mean lesboy flag. I changed it bc it lost the original blue it had in favor for white

original nice lesboy flag. I changed it bc I felt like it didn't potray the "nice" part enough

I'm working on making a twibbon for it, the site is just being uncooperative at the moment!

Fr.

the broadness of the terms aromantic and asexual is great because they can literally mean whatever they want to mean for you it's so unrestrictive.

the fall