GUYS I HAVE A RECENT EXAMPLE OF THIS

GUYS I HAVE A RECENT EXAMPLE OF THIS

Apparently I've been using the can opener wrongly this whole time??? But it still worked for me????

Through the power of my autism and ADHD, I do everything wrong and somehow still succeed

[Pt: through the power of my autism and ADHD, I do everything wrong and somehow still succeed. End pt]

I know I'm going to hate myself for responding to this with anything but disgust, but it's very important to me that I do this. Zoophile doesn't instantly mean you're going to abuse an animal. Some zoophiles are therians, and feel like their therian identity is tied with their zoophilia (this is by no means saying all therians are zoos and vice versa, nor is it justifying acting on one's zoophilia). I'm tired of beings treating paraphiles as though they're all horrible beings that are offenders cuz that's not true at all. I don't know the origins of this flag, but it seems like this is a general acceptance flag, yes? Believe it or not, paraphiles deserve acceptance and to not be stigmatized, because as things are going those who need help for paraphilic disorders are often too afraid to get help because of the stigma.

Edit: TW mentions of zoophiles (I’m newish to tumblr and don’t know the proper post stuff)

Zoo’s are using this flag to group zoophiles and therians together, DO NOT use this flag. Real therians WILL NEVER support zoophiles

Deer kin lesboy moment

DEER LESBOY

[PT: deer lesboy]

— deer themed lesboy flag! for lesboys who like deers, deergender lesboys, deerkin lesboys, etc.

[ID: a rectangular flag with six equal-width horizontal stripes; (top-to-bottom) brownish-red, orange-red, orange, light yellow, light purple, and dull purple. END ID]

Butches can wear nail polish. Butches can wear makeup. Butches can like 'feminine' things. Butches can be men. Butches can be genderless. Butches can be non-lesbians.

a friendly reminder from your local NPD/ASPD wolf:

you don't need empathy, whether emotional or cognitive, to be a "good person", and you don't need sympathy, either.

you don't need remorse, guilt, shame, or even regret to be a "good person".

you don't need to have anything else that "makes up for" any of the above to be a "good person".

those of us who don't have some or all of these things still deserve support. we should not have to strive to gain or emulate these things in any fashion in order to be worthy of the same decency you offer to those who do not need to try to gain these things on account of already having them.

it is a form of violence to demand that we change or hide parts of ourselves in order to fit into your definition of "good person" before you'll offer decency and humanity. decency and humanity is not an incentive for change, it is not a reward for doing what you want, it is a basic right that everyone--no matter who they are or what they've done or what they feel--is entitled to and is worthy of having.

if you want us to change in any way, you must first give us the room and support we need to do so, even if we choose not to change in the end. if your support is conditional, if there is a risk of losing it if we do not fit into your box, there is no point in us trying to gain it anyway.

Your name is so real

"I'm fem-presenting!" "My presentation is masculine!" "I present androginously!" well I forgot there was a presentation today and it's too late to put anything together