It's Funny Because More Often Than Not, Said Minor Goes Out Of Their Way To Instigate The Argument, Only

it's funny because more often than not, said minor goes out of their way to instigate the argument, only to pull the 'erm I'm actually neurodivergent and a minor' card. Easy way to shrug off any responsibility for their actions.

"im a minor ur arguing with a minor"

ur still wrong

im actually arguing with an idiot

Growing up alterhuman is isolating, even when you have friends who pretend to be animals with you. Because that's all it is to them: pretending.

I'm someone who has felt some level of nonhuman for a huge chunk of their life; much like other kids, I would 'pretend' to be an animal or mythical creature. However, there was always an underlying sense of reality when I would 'pretend' to be a wolf, a leopard, a tiger, a mermaid, or even an ordinary housecat. As I grew, the feeling lingered, and at around 12 or 13 I discovered the otherkin community through cringe compilations.

I immediately felt a kinship to the community and couldn't understand what was so cringe about them. I found myself looking into the community, and I 'came out' as a vampire at 13. It was treated simultaneously as just a phase and something worrying. I started wearing tails at 14 everywhere I went, as I had developed two wolf forms. I stopped doing anything like this around the time when quarantine started.

I am now an adult, 19 years of age, and still nonhuman. I came into understanding of my polymorph identity at 17, and have stuck with it while gathering forms that I also consider to be kintypes; I consider myself to be canine therian despite not identifying as a dog all the time, for example. I still identify as a vampire. It is still isolating.

It is isolating because I know there are people who will see me and say, 'aren't you too old to play pretend like that?' as if I chose to have a lingering sense of nonhumanity from childhood. As if I chose this unshakable disconnect from humanity. As if I am playing pretend. I wish it were that simple, a game of play pretend. But no, this is a part of my identity, and I feel so othered sometimes because ""normal"" adults don't do this. I am a freak adult just as I was a freak child. But I also feel at peace, because I have this part of me and I have community. I know there are adults out there like me. 'Normalcy' isn't some superior state of being and being a 'freak' ain't all that bad.

So yeah, I guess where I'm trying to go with this is that otherkin adults aren't immature for their identities. We deserve to be taken as seriously as the adults who identify as human. We deserve to exist without ridicule, much like otherkin kids deserve the same.

lesbians cant date men. thats the whole point of lesbianism . Are u stupid

I usually just delete these asks because you have beliefs that I won't be able to shake and vice versa, but I'll humor you for a moment. I have made the point before that all you people seem to care about is my support of lesbian men and lesbians who like men, and you appear to be a prime example of that. So I'll ask you, person who was so confident in their ideas that they didn't use anon, how do you feel about lesbians dating man aligned nonbinary people? lesbians dating genderfluid people who are sometimes men? lesbians who date butches who are also men? I would assume, since you are so adamant in your belief that lesbians 'can't' date men in their own life, that your answer would be 'well, those aren't actually lesbians since they're dating men!' to which I would respond 'why does somebody's kinship with the lesbian label while not following the "rules" bother you so much?'

I also implore you to take a gander at queer history, where there are plenty of historical examples of those who identified as lesbians dating men. 'Dykes to Watch Out For' is a good piece of history to look into. I've seen people who are so upset about others using a historical label call history 'outdated' as though that is any reason to discredit the experiences of queer people, so I don't really think pointing you in the direction of educating yourself will help much. I can only hope that you will listen when I say 'look into queer history, and learn to accept that enforcing rules that just won't hold everyone does more harm than good'

So no, I am not 'stupid', but rather have a broader understanding of what it means to be queer.

"if i die of their transphobia forget a funeral drop my body in front of the national assembly"

seen at the official marseille pride parade on 6/7/24

Every time I see 'men DNI' I roll my eyes so hard. Imagine someone had 'women DNI', people would lose their shit lmfao. Like we're not children. Believe it or not, the 'opposite' gender won't give you cooties. Your treehouse won't be contaminated.

edit: I know men are just as immature as women with this, I know there are adults of any gender who still behave as children. I shouldn't have said 'imagine if men did this' because all people can focus on is that tiny bit and be like "BUT MEN DO IT TOO!!!111!11!1". Additionally, read the tags next time before thinking I'm a huge advocate for binary, nonlesbian men interacting with lesbian porn (though the fact that I support lesboys in general is enough to make the people screaming at me think I'm stupid anyway).

this helps a lot. I often feel like I'm wasting my time with testosterone when I've only been on it for two years, especially when I see other people getting 'better' results sooner than myself.

It's honestly crazy that discussion around testosterone HRT skews so much towards the beginning stages of it (to the point that you have dozens of guys thinking their transition is "failed" if they don't pass by like a year in lol) and what the initial changes of the first couple of months to years look like, like the classic laundry list of those early basic changes like bottom growth, voice drop, etc, when IMO literally none of that compares remotely to the depth and intensity of the long term total masculinization you start to experience like 3-5+ years in.