Cuddles Are Just Important As Sex And Kink

Cuddles are just important as sex and kink

Hey boys and Sirs. Hope your week is going well. Mine is doing ok. This will be my first full week back to work after my vacation. Sigh it can be hard to get back into the swing of things but Sir certainly helps with that and I can help him with the same :) Sir picked me up on Saturday from my house to take me to the club. That was very sweet of him and very much appreciated. I like having that extra 15 minutes with Sir where we can chat and hang :). We got to the club and settled in. Maybe a little too much since Sir forgot his phone in the car which was too bad since he was going to show me a little that he had been talking to. I got to see the pic later in the day and he is super cute. We’ll have to see if we get to play with him sometime hehehe. So we got into the room which the club has newly remodeled and they kind of suck since they took out the floor length mirrors next to the beds and replaced them with more “elegant” framed mirrors that you can’t see shit from when you are playing. The top may be able to see his face while he is plowing but that is it. It’s pretty sad since that was one of the perks of getting the bigger room…besides the full-sized bed hehehe.

Sir stripped me and saw that I was wearing my tighty whities so I was in for hard a great spanking hehehe. I really needed a good spanking and boy did Sir deliver. He put me over his knee with my head facing the wall while he swatted my ass with his hand for a little bit. Then he moved n to the brush which felt fantastic! My ass was reacting sooo well to each swat that Sir was uping his game with each swat. This lead to the second spanking tool that has broken on my ass, the brush. Split it right down the middle of the brush head lol. Sir was quite impressed and thanked me for breaking the brush by getting out the wooden paddle and beating my ass hard with it hehehe. grrrrrr I’m shuddering right now thinking of it hehehe.

After my ass was well taken care off with the spanking and Sir fingering my hole grrrrr, I hopped on his dick and went to town. Sucking slow and then fast. keeping up the intensity till he popped hehehe. Sir and I needed to recharge so we went to lounge by the pool. We talked for a bit and then Sir saw that the sling in the gazebo had been put back up and their wasn’t many people about to disturb us hehehe. So he had me go get his cock ring and the lube and we were going to test out the sling for the first time hehehe. The sling was way too big for both of us lol. My head couldn’t stay in the headrest but man did I enjoy myself. Sir was able to get his dick in me very easily and my dick was pressed HAR against my stomach. I have never seen him that hard while we were playing there hehehe. Then Sir and I switched places. That was fun but I couldn’t get into Sir but that was for medical reasons but Sir was really enjoying himself too hehehe. After getting out of the sling we were discussing it while we lounged in the hot tub. We both decided that a sling is on our must need to get list hehehe. We will be very wild went that happens lol. 

We went back to the room and Sir was starting to feel down and anxious and he didn’t know why. We are very connected so I could feel his energy too. So we stopped playing and settled in for a cuddle fest. Sir needed love and affection with no demands on him :). Remember boys your Sir is human too and some days he needs his boy for emotional support. Give him what he needs and he will return it to you 100 fold :) Cuddling builds bonds just like sex and kink. Cuddles are integral to the other too. They allow downtime and checking in time. You can discuss what has happened or what you would like to happen. Cuddles allow both the boy and the Sir to recharge and recenter. Do not discount cuddling. It helps heal wounds and builds trust :). 

After Sir was feeling more upbeat we started playing again hehehe. He was playing with my cock while I was working my nips. I have found that this helps get the juices following so to speak lol. I really like my nips worked lightly when I am trying to get off hehehe. But Sir had other plans. Each time I got close to cumming Sir would pull his hand away. He is such a tease lol. He did that several times. Each time I was whining for him to not stop. I NEEDED to get off. So he let me pop but then kept going! and going and going. He said that I told him to not stop so he kept at it lol. Man was it painful. If you have never experienced someone continuing to jack you after you have cum man you should try it. It is where one can turn pure pleasure into exquisite pain lol Sir’s partner told him that I need to cum every time Sir and I play. Little did he know that Sir could turn that benevolent request into a source of such pain lol. I am happy that I am getting off but i have to go thru major pain afterwards hehehe. Worth it….I think LOL. That got him so excited that he needed to take matters into his own hands hehehe. Sir climbed on top of my chest and jacked himself why I worked his nips and chest. Worked them till he shot all over my chest hehehe. We lost all tract of time and actually were at the club almost the full 8 hrs. Rarely do we make it all the way but it was super fun. Can’t wait till tomorrow when we get to play again hehehe.

I get threesomes now LOL

Hey everyone. Hope you all are having a great week. I certainly had a fantastic one last week. After Sir and I played on Tuesday I figured that we were using that as our midweek plaay day and not doing Wednesday. To my suprise we were not. Sir wanted to do Wednesday and was bringing his partner with him for daddies night at the club. I got the room and they got to get discounted lockers since they are both over the age of 40. We got to scare the club attendant since he thought my Sir was MUCH younger then he really is hehehe. Sir looks fantastic for his age hehehe. Sirs partner has know me from the beinging of Sir and I playing together. We have a friendly relationship with eachother but I have to say it was never really sexual. Well this night that all changed hehehe. We went to the room and all striped. Sir took my cage off and we sat on the bed with me in the middle. Sadly they had no deluxe rooms available so we three grown men were on a twin mattress. While we were talking I was fondling Sir’s partner’s dick. He is thicker than Sir but his dick head is smaller then his shaft hehehe. He seemed to enjoy the attention hehehe. Then it was me who got all the attention. Both Sir and his partner were working a nipple while either woeking my shaft or my balls. I have to say that I was in boy heaven! Lol my dick got soooo hard that my sex drive was catapulted back into full existence hehehe. I was horny and raring to go grrrrrr. Sir and his partner laid down and made out while I flitted between the two. Licking a nipple here and a duck there. Trying to balance my time so no one got jealous :) got Sirs partner so going that he had to tell me to stop lol. He is a cum and done kind of guy I found out from Sir so he wasn’t ready to be done yet hehehe. So he got up and Sir turned over so that I could mount him. I have to say that my dick wasn’t at full mast to penetrate but he was having fun hehehe. He was humpinf on Sirs ass where out of no where Sirs partner starts working my asshole! He lubes up his fingers and pushes into me making me stretch and feel fantastic. I couldn’t help but keep humping Sir and pushing against his fingers. It felt so good and then it got unexpectedly even better. Sirs partner then mounted me and stuck his dick in my ass!!!!!! OMGS I wanst expecting that I a million years lol but man was I overjoyed with it hehehe. His dick popped right in with like no resistance. My ass was ready and wanting to swalloe his dick hehehe. He trusted a couple of times and then pulled out. I hope it was because my ass would have made him cum and not because my ass likes to fight dick. I don’t think it was since my ass was in a very happy place at that moment hehehe.

To recover from that awesome moment we all went to soak in the hot tub and check out the meat that was around us. Sir and I don’t really look for others but his partner was looking for a little fun I found out later hehehe. After soaking we went back to the room and cuddled for a bit before Sirs partner went to find a cute boy to suck him off while Sir and I got to have some Sir/boy time. Thanks you soo much for that Sirs partner. It is a part of our time that we do need to feel whole but we love having you just as much hehehe. I got to suck Sir off while his partner got sucked off by someone else hehehe. He even had competition for his load hehehe. I will be part of that competition too mister hehehe. We reconvened after they got off and created a huge cuddle pile on the bed. Cuddling for a bit before we decided to go soak in the hot tub again. There was nothing but smiles in the hot tub hehehe. We headed baxk to the room for me to get off but instead we got into a great political discussion and Sirs partner and I got to have a really cool talk and I got to find out about parts of his life I had no idea about. It was a great bonding moment. It went soooo well that we lost tract of time and there was no time for me to get off LOL be careful boys or your mouth will keep you from getting the chance to get off LOL I had such a great time and I hope we get to do it again. Threesomes with people who know tye importance of balance and giving as well as taking can create a really hot and memorable day HUGS. Love you all BYES

OH! I’m Good!

Hey boys and Sirs. Hope all of you have been having a good week so far. I certainly had a VERY fun weekend. Sir and I got to play most of the weekend hehehe. We had a back o school party to go to for a friend so Sir and his partner were able to pick me up from my house and take me to the party too. :) The party was super fun. There was food and games and a great bunch of people to hang with. We were there for a couple of hours and then Sir and his partner took me back to my house so we could Chinese fire drill with the cars :P. Sir was coming with me so his partner could take one of their friends home while I took Sir down to his house. Luckily Sirs niece was out of town so we could play at the house and this time I decided after being offered to stay at the house and cuddle with Sir and his partner. I usually don’t care at all for their bed, It is super soft for me and my back regrets it the next day. But I really wanted to play with Sir and I LOVE hanging out at their house. So I got to take Sir home which was a lot of fun. We got to talk and he didn’t freak out about my driving this time LOL It seems that driving in the dark with Sir is better because he then can’t see a lot of the things that make him nervous lol.

So we made it to the house and Sirs partner made it a few minutes after that. Sir let me out of my age yay! He was probably thingking that we would get to play before bed but  we were all pretty tired so we decide to crash in the bed. I usually sleep naked at home but I have a hard time sleeping naked with other people. It just seems odd to me. I’m not use to it. So I dropped to my undies in bed and crawled in hehe. Sir was of course naked and was asking me why I wasn’t lol. His partner stuck up for me in my choice but I did take my undies off and I have to say best decision ever lol. I was sooo much cooler being completely naked and it gave Sir better access hehehe. For awhile we were all trying to get some sleep but Sirs mind gets very overactive in bed and I needed to help take care of that hehehe. I sucked Sir off which was a lot of fun. He came in no time flat. He must have been very full hehehehe. So after that he finally was drifting off to sleep with the rest of us :)

I woke up really early the next morning compared to when we got up. I might have gotten I’d say 6 hours of sleep but it was great sleep. My back didn’t hurt and I felt rested. I did manage to tear the sheet off the corner of the bed tho so I don’t know how much I tossed and turned in the night but I woke up with a massive hardon. It was full mast and hungry. He wanted Sir ass. And to make matters worse Sirs ass was just inches from him. If his ass had been prepped he would have had such a fun morning wake up fuck grrrrrrrrrrr. But that was sadly not in the cards. But what was was humping Sir and giving him a bj hehehe. Best way to start the morning ever :)  And then what made the day even better is that we were going out for breakfast yay! All three of us got up and we went to waffle house. mmmmmmmm waffles. I LOVE waffle house waffles. Can’t go there without getting two waffles mmmmmmmmm. So I certainly wasn’t keeping my low carb diet but neither was Sir :P He got a peanut butter waffle hehehe. So we had breakfast and then went grocery shopping. That certainly opened my eyes lol. Sir is a very pampered person :P we are going on a camping retreat together next month and I can’t help but call it glamping all the time these days. He wanted to bring a big screen TV and his playstation with him lol. We are already going to have carpeted floors,a towel rack, an air mattress, matching sheets, and a heater lol. I have NEVER camped like this before lol. Should be a really fun experience :) So we got a few things. Apparently grocery shopping counts as 4 food items and 12 non-food items :P hehehe. We headed home and brought everything in. I was supposed to clean the floors in exchange for Sirs partner to give me a hair cut but we didn’t get that far. Sir and I went upstairs to have some fun while his partner rested hehehe. I was wearing my tighty whities so Sir knew that I needed a good hard spanking and man did he deliver grrrrrrrr. He had me take off my undies and put me into the wheelbarrow position. For those of you who don’t know what this is it is when the spankee is has his head and knees on the ground while his legs are on either side of Sirs hips.  This way the spankee’s ass is right on top of and in front of Sirs cock hehehe. So Sir has apple access to the boys ass and this position has the added benifit that I found out that one cannot clench your ass muscles in this position. Therefore the smack is falling on a totally lose and unguarded ass hehehe. It hurts a lot hehehe. Man it was sooooo much fun. Sir got me speaking in tongues in no time flat lol. After the spanking Sir and I cuddled a bit so that i could come down and recover from the spanking. I have such a thoughtful Sir :) After coming down I sucked Sirs nips really hard. They hadn’t gotten any action up to this point and I needed to rectify that hehehe. Got Sir more horny and then went to town on his cock. hehehe didn’t take me long to get him off. Sir made the comment that he needs to change the time for the challenege of getting him off from 15 minutes to 3 LOL I am getting really good at getting him offf. I can make it last or drive him really fast to orgasms hehehe. So many choices not enough time hehehe. Any way I do it I still get rewarded with delicious Sir cum grrrrrrrrr. I diffidently need more of it in my life hehehe. After Sir got off and before he started snoring we invited his parter to come nap with us and man did we nap HARD I slept like 4 hours and I woke up after I was planning on leaving lol. Not a bad change of plans tho since I did get to have a steak dinner with Sir and his partner :). Sirs partner makes FANTASTIC steak. I never liked steak before having his streak. MMMMMMMMM thank you for the food you two :) Then it was of to work for me lol.

It was such a fun weekend. I caan’t wait to experience another one soon :) You have a fun day you naughty boys and Sirs BYES             

I think we made awesome progress and your ass is so heavenly. :) and funny cause I see guys now and think of fucking them, not usually the case. Grrrr Saturday can't get here soon enough.

Heaven is two inches past the cheeks hehehe

Hey boys and Sirs. Hope everyone enjoyed their week. I CERTAINLY did. Sir and I played on Wednesday at it was AMAZING. We made sooooooo much progress that it is hard for me to comprehend just how far we have come in just three days since we had last played hehehe. The play day started out kind of stressful because of the traffic in town. There was soooooooo much traffic on every road and freeway that it took me twice as long as normal to get to the club. Sir got there first and got a room. Apparently all of the attendants at the club were wondering where I was lol. I didn’t get there too much past Sir but we did lose half an hr to our play time so we skipped the gym and man was that worth it grrrrrrr.

When I got in the room Sir was already naked and ready for fun hehehe. Before I even got my clothes off he was kneeling on the bed ass up teasing me with it. Grrrrrrrrr I couldn’t help myself hehehe. Sir let me eat that sweet set of cake till I was horned up and I mean SUPER horned up. My dick was hard after having a full meal of Sir ass that he was looking for some tight hole fun hehehe. I actually got to mount Sir while he was kneeling on the bed ass up hehehe. We have tried this position before and it was no dice time and time again. I just couldn’t get my dick to breach his hole. It would always slip down past his hole and frustrate me. Well I am happy to report that did not happen this time. I pushed in and felt heaven open up to me. I can still feel Sirs ass squeezing my dick hard as it went in. GODS i want that feeling again grrrrrrrrrrrrr. My knees were on the bed and i was grasping his sides as i thrusted in and for the first time out hehehe. Before I was always nervous about my dick popping of his ass and not going back in. Porn seemed like such a unrealistic fantasy to me. How do guys with dicks my length (average sized) truly get to thrust with abandon. Well I found that out Wednesday grrrrrr. By being able to keep my torso straight up I was able to have more control over my dick and thrust how and where I wanted to go hehehe. Even when i would bend over to caress Sirs back I was bale to keep humping his ass and working his hole sooooo good hehehe. I was hitting all the right spots for Sir grrrrrr He was moaning sooo much which of course made me want to keep going. Give him as much pleasure as my body could physically do and man did I succeed hehehe Sir said afterwards that if I had kept it up he would have cum from my fucking him hehehe. He was starting to lose control of what his dick was doing and could almost shoot hands free grrrrrrrr. A near goal that I will make happen. Hopefully Saturday hehehe. I know I have the motivation to make that happen. Man nothing would encourage me more then making Sir cum hands free grrrrrrrr.  My dick did that hehehe.

We rested after that since both our hips needed some rest hehehe. I need to look up exercises to help me last longer since my hips get sore after a while and I was having a hard time breathing while in that position. I think that was just because I was sooooo excited and was enjoying myself soo much that i was forgetting to breath lol. Well that and my body isn’t use to thrusting that way do was being bad. I don’t think this will be a problem for very long tho hehehe. I am going to make that position my best one. I will make Sir cum every time from fucking his sexy ass! Hehehe so since Sir was already most of the way there I sucked the cum right out of him hehehe. It didn’t take long espically since I was fingering him HARD. I mean i was merciless on his prostate hehehe. Right as he was cumming I pressed down on it hard. Making him scream in ecstasy hehehe. I love that I know what I am doing now. I sooo enjoy that I can make Sir fill with pleasure :)

and speaking of filling with pleasure grrrrrrr. After the hot tub and some lounging by the pool Sir fucked my tight ass GOOD. I mean REAL FUCKING GOOD! My ass was begging for a fucking and Sir delivered. Unlike before where my ass would put up as much of a fight as possible when Sir found my hole and pushed to enter my hole opened right up for hm. I mean it just parted and let his HUGE cock go all the way to the base hehehe. It fekt soooooooooooooooo FUCKING GOOD! I was backing up on his dick trying to get even further into my ass. I was a bitch in heat lol. And what was even better was my ass was letting him be in there thrusting around giving me pleasure. It wasn’t perfect but man did my ass let him in and there to stay for the longest time so far :) hehehe and Sir was able to enter and fuck my ass several times. There was no pain and I was feeling soooooooooooooo good that i even got hard. Hard enough that Sir and I for the first time flip fucked. He fucked me and then I fucked him. One after another grrrrrrrrrr. It as SO hot. This has been a goal of ours for a long time. Ever since Sir started training me to top we have wanted to flip fuck and we finally did it YAY! Cant wait to do it again grrrrrrrrrrr. Saturday can’t come fast enough! Now the complementary goal will be to have both of us cum while either fucking or getting fucked. Sir has approved both of these as ways for me to cum. I am not allowed to get off any other way then thru fucking and man am I now really happy for that rule. I feel so close to this goal that I will have to be pealed off the wall when it happens grrrrrrrr. Stay tuned for even more kinky fun guys HUGS    

The Nine Degrees Of Submission

The Nine Degrees Of Submission

1)  The outright non-submissive masochist or kinky sensualist Not into servitude, humiliation or giving up of control; just pain and/or spiced-up sensuality, on the masochist’s own terms for the masochist’s own pleasure (ie: being turned on solely or mainly by one’s own bodily sensations, rather than being turned on by being “used” to gratify one’s partner’s sadism).

2) Pseudo-submissive non-slave Not into even playing “slave”, but into other “submissive” role-playing, e.g.: schoolteacher scenes, infantilism, “forced” transvestism. Usually into humiliation, but NOT into servitude, even in play. Dictates the scene to a large degree.

3) Pseudo-submissive PLAY slave Likes to play at being slave. Likes to *feel* subservient; may in some cases like to *feel* that one is being “used” to gratify one’s partner’s sadism; and may even really serve the dominant in some ways, but only on the “slave’s” own terms. Dictates the scene to a large degree; often fetishistic (e.g. foot worshippers).

4) True submissive non-slave Really gives up control (though only temporarily and within agreed upon limits), but gets his main satisfaction from aspects of submission *other than* serving or being used by the dominant. Usually turned on by suspense, vulnerability, and/or giving up of responsibility. Doesn’t dictate the scene except in very general terms, but still seeks mainly his own *direct* pleasure (rather than getting one’s pleasure mainly from pleasing the dominant).

5) True submissive PLAY slave Really gives up control (though only temporarily; only during brief “scenes” and within limits) and gets his main satisfaction from serving and being used by the dominant - but only for FUN purposes, usually erotic. (May or may not be into pain, but if so, is turned on by pain *indirectly*, ie: enjoys being the objects of one’s partner’s sadism, on which the submissive places few requirements or restrictions.)

6) Uncommitted short-term but more-than-play semi-slave Really gives up control (though usually within limits); wants to serve and be used by the dominant; wants to provide practical, non-erotic as well as fun,  erotic services; but only when the “slave” is in the mood. May even act as a full-time slave for, say, several days at a time, but is free to quit at any time (or at the end of the agreed upon several days). May or may not have a long-term relationship with one’s Master, but, either way, the “slave” has the final say over when he will serve.

7) Part-time consensual but REAL slave Has ongoing commitment to an owner/slave relationship, and regards oneself as the Master’s “property” at all times. Wants to obey and please him in all aspects of life - practical/non-erotic as well as fun/erotic. Devotes most of one’s time to other commitments (eg: job) but the Master has first pick of the slave’s free time.

8) Full-time live-in consensual slave Within no more than a few broad limits/requirements, the slave regards himself as existing solely for the Master’s use, pleasure and well- being. The slave in turn expects to be regarded as a prized possession. Not much different from the situation of the traditional housewife, except that within the S/M world the slave’s position is more likely to be fully consensual, especially if the slave is male (since men certainly aren’t socially pressured into this kind of lifestyle). Within the S/M world, a full-time “slave” arrangement is entered into with an explicit awareness of the magnitude of power that is being given up, and hence is usually entered into much more carefully, with more awareness of the possible dangers, and with much clearer and more specific agreements than usually precede the traditional marriage.

9) Consensual total slave with no limits A common fantasy ideal which probably doesn’t exist in real life (except in authoritarian religious cults and other situations where the “consent” is induced by brainwashing and/or social or economic pressures, and hence isn’t fully consensual). A few S/M purists will insist that you aren’t really a slave unless you’re willing to do absolutely *anything* for your Master, with no limits at all. There are a few who claim to be no-limits slaves, but in all cases it would be reasonable to doubt the claim.

- Diane Vera