Just The Eldest Child Things!

Just the eldest child things!

I’m such a “nah I got it” and suffer in silence type of person.

"To love, and lose and still be Kind."

I quote these beautiful words of Warsan Shire to myself, every time I feel displeased.

This was something i once read and felt like it was engraved in my mind. Flowing through my veins was a passion, to never let go of this and to always live by this.

In the era we are living in, Kindness, compassion, tenderness, empathy, affection, all these artistic sensibilities are becoming extinct like they are some variety of flora and fauna, disappearing because of climatic conditions except it's because of the changing tendency of human beings.

You don't have to think, you don't ever think that i did this, i did that and this is how im paid. You give and give because life and love is about giving and giving as much as you have got. Because someone is always watching, and that reflects upon them. We often fail to notice but the kindness we show towards someone, it reflects upon people around you too, not only on you and person you have been kind to. I have felt this urge to become cold, to never be nice to anyone but that's not who I am. The world is cruel, therefore, I won't be.

Your generosity can never be your enemy. It takes strength to be tender in the wild. And I'm proud of everyone who's brave enough to smile and be empathetic towards the other, regardless of the situation of his heart. Respecting others' feeling is as important as respecting yours. But it doesn't mean that you can't put yourself first. It's okay to let go of toxic friends and partners. It's okay to let go if it's hurts too much in holding on. But when you do it, do it on good terms, forgive them and never speak to them. End it, for once & all. Don't carry that within you so that it can hinder your future bonds.

On my way through life, i have let go of people and some have let me go. Each time i learnt a new lesson. I have never regretted the love that i gave away, instead i thought, "If i could love the wrong person with such intensity then what do i have in store for the right person?"

This is why, you give and give because one day, all this love will come back to you in the way you never imagined. Someone would be kind to you, or your family or your friends and you'll realize that, you also had a lil contribution in that because you always held on to that thread.

Your Compassion, your affection and your generosity is your strength. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Aww thanks my lil cutiee!! 🎀🥰sending it back to you, and love you more 🌸🫶🏻✨

fellow kotlc blogs, i think today we should show our appreciation for our favorite mutuals 🤭

reblog and tag your favorite mutuals!! for fun and sillies!!

“Ab dil nahi karta is such a harsh reality when you realise that you lost energy for doing those things that you used to love.”

Mujhe wo ishara q nahi mil raha jo samjhdar ke liye kaafi hota hai

“It's just a bad day, not a bad life.”

Dear mutuals I know sometimes we are sad over little things and cry how miserable our life is and we pity ourselves and we start feeling awful about everything and complains how worse our life is , but sometimes we should look from a different perspective we have a far better life, many people struggle for food , housing , love of family and basic needs. We should feel blessed we got enough on our side and we should be thankful for that .

Little problems don't mean that our life is worse, we all deserve a good life ! Start appreciating your life