Theclose Bond-requirement Can Happen Very Quickly Or Very Slowly, Its A Very Individual Thing, And Is
The “close bond”-requirement can happen very quickly or very slowly, it’s a very individual thing, and is different from person to person. There is no time-limit, if it feels right calling yourself “demi”, call yourself that.
I struggled with this myself. I felt like a fraud, because I had experienced primary sexual attraction once a couple of years back. But then it hit me, that it was probably more a case of “the exception confirms the rule”, more than “proof” of allosexuality.
I call myself demisexual, because it feels right, and nobody can tell me, or you, that what you identify with is wrong. It’s really only your decision what you call yourself, and you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone.
Am I still demisexual if I don’t require a super close bond?
Like, what it’s someone I’ve been friends with for a few months?
Would I be gray-asexual then?
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THE CASTIEL EFFECT
My Mum: *S1* Sammy Forever!
My Mum: *S2* Sammy Forever!
My Mum: *S3* Sammy Forever!
My Mum: *S4* Goodbye Sammy.
(@narraukoiel your post about Misha’s lips reminded me of when this happened! And, if I’m remembering correctly, her actual words were: “The angel is mine.”)
so who else gets irrationally afraid and embarrassed about their interests being known to people in real life

So Cas now can’t even carry a human (Dean) alone ?
This is so ridiculous, I can’t even .
i can imagine poor Cas internally screaming at the writers

I love that I knew it was Misha from the back of his head. My heart is melting! <3
Petal Drop!Pooty
Misha playing with Matt Cohen’s baby, Macklin
Thank the Gods for Misha’s intagram account, and all the recent posts about West and Maison visiting the set ❤️ It fills me with so much joy ! I love the Collins-family 💖💖