Theclose Bond-requirement Can Happen Very Quickly Or Very Slowly, Its A Very Individual Thing, And Is

The “close bond”-requirement can happen very quickly or very slowly, it’s a very individual thing, and is different from person to person. There is no time-limit, if it feels right calling yourself “demi”, call yourself that. 

I struggled with this myself. I felt like a fraud, because I had experienced primary sexual attraction once a couple of years back. But then it hit me, that it was probably more a case of “the exception confirms the rule”, more than “proof” of allosexuality. 

I call myself demisexual, because  it feels right, and nobody can tell me, or you, that what you identify with is wrong. It’s really only your decision what you call yourself, and you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone. 

Am I still demisexual if I don’t require a super close bond?

Like, what it’s someone I’ve been friends with for a few months?

Would I be gray-asexual then?

sexual attraction: wow I wanna fuck that

romantic attraction: wow I wanna date that

sensual attraction: wow I wanna cuddle that

aesthetic attraction: wow that exists

oldschool deancas: overwhelming sexual tension

newschool deancas: overwhelming romantic tension

happy anniversary, dean & cas / september 18th, 2008

I love that I knew it was Misha from the back of his  head. My heart is melting! <3

Petal Drop!Pooty

Misha playing with Matt Cohen’s baby, Macklin

misha “all genders (and not just binary!)” “felt a little heteronormative” “your phrasing is irking non-binary people” “stay strong and stay gay” collins reblog if you agree