If I Get Shit On By Other Members Of My Communities One More Time For Not Conforming The Way They Want,

if I get shit on by other members of my communities one more time for not “conforming” the way they want, I will genuinely lose my marbles

happy pride month! even if your identity does bring fear and shame sometimes, it's a beautiful identity. you deserve to feel pride in it, and we as a community will feel prideful with you.

you are loved, and your identity is important, it's part of you. no matter the set of labels and experiences, you are valid. do something nice for yourself this month. your unique experience and perspective is important, and deserves to be cherished.

leave people who have identities you don't agree with alone. it's their month too. discourse helps no one. be safe <3

The effects of June are hitting. I’m feeling very lesbian today. Might go do some wild shit like hold hands with my girlfriend.

hi because it’s pride month i want to say

if you’re homophobic or transphobic you’re a freak and i hate you and you’re not welcome here

There are two basic arguments for shutting the fuck up about cishets at Pride.

First: What if a trans kid asks their parents to show their support by attending Pride with them? What if a lesbian can only attend pride if she gets a ride from someone and the only person willing and able to drive her is her straight brother? What if a bi disabled person can't attend a large outdoor event without hands-on assistance from their straight partner? What if someone just wants to bring their fucking friends? What if, contrary to popular tumblr discourse, most queers don't inhabit perfectly pure social bubbles populated only by other queers? What if it's none of your business?

Second and perhaps more important: If you think you can tell that someone is CIS, let alone HET, by LOOKING at them, you are a cop and an idiot.