Trans - Tumblr Posts
So i mentioned to my sibling (they/she/he) that i have very bad body dysphoria and that that makes it very shitty to shower which is why i usually shower in the dark. And like now that it's spring it's getting harder to do that bc the blinds don't fully work when it's light outside.
So they put something over the windows so that i can shower in the dark i-
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IT’S NOT OKAY TO DEADNAME YOUR KIDS WHEN YOU’RE MAD AT THEM
Straight trans ppl are awesome
you can be straight and lgbt, and straight lgbt people deserve respect. this community is your community too
Queer Native Americans and indigenous people are beautiful and deserving of affection and respect. Queer BIPOC make the LGBTQ+ community better by being in it.
Trans women and intersex women (and trans intersex women!!!!) deserve a world where we are completely accepted for who we are and never questioned or made to feel like we are “cheating”
We deserve to be unashamed, respected, safe, and to be loved, unequivocally and without qualifications
Transgender-1
I hate hearing that being transgender is a mental illness. I know that it is a fact, but it just makes it sound like what I am doing and saying is wrong. As if it were a problem. Something that needs to be fixed. I also hate that people doubt discrimination against them. That is what leads most trans people to commit suicide. The discrimination. The mental torture. They give up on their dreams to be who they want to be, and for what...? To appease the uneducated bastards who refuse to let them be who they are. I have never understood the bullying against them- against anyone. Whether they are gay, transgender, gender fluid, or even a normal, average child, I can't understand the mindset behind bullying. What is the point of hurting someone just because you don't understand them? Just because you have a negative opinion of them? If you are the person who acts this way towards anyone, listen to what I say next very carefully. DIE. Why don't you kill yourself, you bastard? You aren't worth anything. Your life is meaningless. You shouldn't have been born. Kill yourself. Do the world a favor and die. ... How does that feel? Would you like to hear everyone in school scream that at you every day? Would you like trash and food to be thrown at you? Would you like to be beaten? No? That's fucking funny. Ironic. Hypocritical. Expected. If you don't want that to be done to you, don't do it to someone else. For all the bullied, Get help. In any way you can. Get strong and hit back. Tell your parents. Tell the principal. All of your teachers. Anything is better that giving up and giving in. -MadaraManiac
The amount of transphobia that's been thrown at me irl recently is actually insane.
(I am a somewhat masculine cis woman)
old ladies commenting on the "guy looking at women's clothing," people telling me I'm in the wrong bathroom or staring at me, and classmates calling me every pronoun at once in a condescending way.. it never ends
Anybody who doesn't believe transphobia affects EVERYBODY is actually an idiot.
This also makes me realize how many problems could be solved if people minded their damn business.
Spidey bros au
LGBT+ Headcanonsssssss
(Trying something new so these are head canons in an au I made up so if you don't agree/have a better idea just make your own. thank you!)
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Andrew was the first to come out (bisexual cis). Technically, Tobey was the first person he told because he mentioned finding other boys attractive when they were a lot younger (both thought nothing of it).
When he had the label for it he poked around at Uncle Ben and aunt may, casually bringing LGBT things up in conversation.
“How’s your coffee, Uncle Ben?”
“It’s nic-”
“You know gay people really like it iced, that’s weird right?” :/
“...”
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Uncle Ben and Aunt May were incredibly accepting of course, and did their best to keep teachers in line if bullying occurred.
It occurred.
Tobey stepped up as his big brother and main protector.
Glasses were broken.
Hair was pulled.
Uncle Ben tried not to be too upset at finding them in the principal's office. Bruised cheeks, broken skateboard and cracked glasses (Glasses are expensive).
The teachers would tell him to discipline them and he would take them out for ice cream every damn time.
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Cue Peter coming out as a trans boy at 12 years old. About to go into middle school in less than a month.Middle school is hard enough without being attracted to the same sex, now Andrews darling youngest sibling has come out as the opposite sex.
Peter had already chosen his name, having talked to his friend Ned about everything before he came to Andrew and Tobey.
And yeah, he was a bit jealous of Peter going to his school friends before his older brothers, but such was life.
May and Ben obviously took Peter to change his legal name and get him a haircut.
Tobey upped the roughness with his little brother.
Peter began wearing a helmet because of how many noogies and wet willies he’d receive. Don't even get him started on the time he got clotheslined on his 14th birthday,
reasons why marvel peter parker is trans
1. it’s more fun than cis peter parker
2. bc i said so
3. getting bullied for being a nerd doesn’t really happen and definitely not at the fucking nerd school he goes to but getting bullied for being trans does
(this does not include flash bc they don’t bully people with the correct name and pronouns)
4. this is not a reason but i just wanted to say that he’s also pan (or bi ive seen both and idc what you head cannon him as)
5. cis people loose their shit when you say this and i only exist to piss off cis people
6. he gets more defensive when someone calls him a girl or says something about his voice than a cis guy would
7. by 15 cis guy’s voice cracks will start to reduce and their voice would be deeper so it would make sense if he recently started T
8. i didnt come up with this but flash doesn’t only call him penis parker bc his initials are pp but also bc when he first started packing it fell out of his pants and flash won’t let him live it down
9. this isn’t mine either but ned asked peter if he lays eggs knowing that only female spiders lay eggs
10. into the spider verse is a thing
every single one of them is trans (that includes nonbinary just in case y’all forgot thats under the trans umbrella)
and specifically peter was miles’ trans mentor
you cant tell me that doesn’t make sense
11. this once again isn’t a reason but he has ADHD and you can’t convince me otherwise
i don’t feel like thinking of more so just take that and get out
The Barbie movie is waking up a truth inside me: I want to be a Ken. The idea of being a Ken gives me gender envy and gender euphoria at the same time. This will be the beginning of a new era idc
Ohio Anti-Trans Laws (and what you can do about it!)
AND WHAT YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT!
Please educate yourself on the contents of Ohio House Bill 68 and other related Ohio Anti-Trans laws before giving into propaganda from either side. At first, I gave in to the propaganda without reading the bill itself; people told me the most outrageous and outlandish stuff. I've heard that it would: make people who have already medically transitioned de-transition, and just a lot of misinformation. These are not related to the bill, rather some other recent Ohio laws that will be detailed later.
I read the entirety of the bill, and, if I'm not mistaken, in summary, it will effectively do the following:
1. Not allow gender-affirming care to be legally given to minors in the state of Ohio, including puberty blockers and gender affirming therapy(continued care is allowed, but only if it was already started or the person is intersex)
2. Children in schools must stay in sports leagues of their biological sex.
The bill has some potentially redeeming ideas few and far between, but for a bill like this to be useful, they need to take into consideration the age of the child, mental health status, current hormone levels, and many more things that they do not have in the bill.
(Example for #1: The bill says that no minors will be able to get gender-affirming care or puberty blockers, with the reasoning that most minors “change their mind” about being trans as they get older. This statistic is factual but does not take into consideration specific ages, as it takes into account everyone under the age of 18. Teens, for example, especially the older that they are, are highly likely to “remain trans”, while people ages 0-12 are not, as they don't understand gender and sex, and may claim to not identify as their birth sex, not realizing fully what it means.
Example for #2: It may seem logical to vote for this because it keeps males claiming to be females from just saying that they are female and beating all the competition because of their biological advantages. However, it also excludes, for example, the trans girl who has been on hormones for 7 years and now has the same levels of testosterone an average cis girl or lower has, giving her no biological advantage. It does not consider that young children are nearly identical biologically. It also forces people with female on their birth certificates to stay in female leagues, despite them not having any biological advantage, which is the only reasoning given for this section, so it is very apparent this bill is directly targeting trans people for no reason other than hate. If the terms were very specific as to hormone levels and ages, such as what I have outlined, I could understand why people would vote for it.) Simply put, in its current state, House Bill 68 is not specific enough to do more good for the cis community than harm it will do to the trans community.
In addition to this giant bill being passed and taking effect on February 15th, Ohio governor Mike DeWine signed an executive bill on January 5th, preventing any transgender surgeries for anyone under the age of 18, no exceptions, taking effect immediately. He also proposed a series of outlines for more Anti-Trans laws to come soon. He wants to force transgender people to “out” themselves to the government so they can keep detailed information on trans people for further study. No thanks. He also made a series of declarations of how he wanted it to be MUCH more difficult for *adults* to get gender-affirming care as well, requiring them to see a bioethicist before medically transitioning. How many bioethicist do you know? None? Well, that's because they're incredibly rare. There’s two offices in Cleveland, one at Ohio State, and ZERO anywhere else in Ohio, so it would be next to impossible to start or continue medically transitioning, even as an adult.
We MUST oppose House Bill 68 and encourage others to join us or it has the potential to snowball into a series of anti-trans laws in Ohio and across the country, or perhaps even a genocide (if you study the ten stages of genocide, trans people would be on stage 5 or 6, halfway or more there if this bill and DeWine’s proposals passed.)
I don't typically make it an issue of mine to pursue political activism or politics in general, but this law will directly impact many people I hold dear, with some even already making plans to leave Ohio, while being decided by people it does not impact at all.
House Bill 68 and similar laws are available for public comment until Feb 5th so anything to oppose it has to be done NOW before it is too late. We must inform the government that we the people do not approve of the bill, and why it is objectionable. This is similar to a case in Arkansas that was nullified because the bill could be seen as an offense against the 14th Amendment, under the Equal Protections clause, so hopefully the same thing will also happen to the situation here.
Some things you can do:
1. Directly contact the governor's office (About the executive order and his proposals for bioethicists to be involved in the transition process) https://governor.ohio.gov/contact
2. Leave a message for the governor: [(614) 644-4357]
3. Send a message to Ohio senators through the American Civil Liberties Union https://action.aclu.org/send-message/tell-ohio-senators-stop-hb-68-veto-override
4. Email the Ohio Department of Health (ODHrules@odh.ohio.gov)
5. Email the Department of Mental Health and Addiction services (MH-SOT-rules@mha.ohio.gov), with “Comments on Gender Transition Care Rules” in the subject. These rules are about making sure trans people with mental health issues do not have access to gender affirming help.
6. Fill out this form of the Ohio Department of Health https://odh.ohio.gov/about-us/offices-bureaus-and-departments/ogc/resources/feedback-survey putting “rules 3701-3-17, 3701-59-07, 3701-83-61” in the field and explain some of the following: how you don't think Ohio should force medical professionals and therapists to keep detailed information on all trans patients about gender “incongruencies” with the patient’s birth sex (rule 3701-3-17), explain how trans people shouldn't have ludicrous restrictions on medically transitioning, (like making them go to a bioethicist to even start/continue hormones on an ADULT, much less surgery) anyone under 21 must additionally undergo mental-health screening before accessing care (with the implication that if you are mentally unwell in any form you will not receive care, and many trans people already have depression/anxiety stemming from how society views and treats them) (rule 3701-59-07 and 3701-83-61)
7. Stay updated to the current status of this bill, the executive order, and efforts against them. For more information, click here https://jessk.org/blog/things-you-can-do-right-now-for-ohio
Thanks for sticking up for peoples' rights, and have a nice day ;)
TLDR: Ohio House Bill 68 bans all gender affirming healthcare for minors, including therapy, and trans people aren't allowed to participate in sports.
A series of other Anti-Trans laws, along with an executive order from the Ohio governor plan to make medically transitioning or getting gender affirming therapy, even continued services, impossible in Ohio for adults, as well as creating a detailed registry on anyone that is identified as trans.
Person A, introducing their current partner to their family: And that's my sister! Hey, sis!
20 years later...
Person A, introducing new partner to family: And that's my brother! Hey, trans!
Yes it was a pun all along MWHAHAHAHAH
Are you single and lonely?
So is my husband, Robbie! Looking for a boyfriend today!
Trust me, he's hot. I've seen him. A lot.
Just made this trying a new art style!
! Do not steal my art !
This take me 2 hours 🧍🧍
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Anyways i love the results. 🤓
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Like/reblog if you think that you don't need to medically transition to be transgender
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Rest in Power, Nex Benedict
A 16 year old kid who loved nature and looking after their cat Zeus. Who enjoyed reading, watching the Walking Dead, and playing Ark and Minecraft. They loved to cook and would often make up their own recipes. They did well in school, being a straight-A student. Rest in power a teen who was human and had interests and ambitions and challenges and friendships. A trans youth who was brutally murdered just for being trans, when that was only a fragment of who they were as a person.
Nex Benedict, Jacob Williamson, Brianna Ghey, and other trans youth like them were real people with real lives. They deserved better, longer, happier lives. They deserved to grow up and not fear for their lives. They deserve to be remembered as who they were, not just as another trans kid who was killed, as people with families and normal human lives.